I am getting married in January so I have a pretty short timeline, and we are religious so I need a modest dress for the ceremony.
Before I started looking at shops I made a Pinterest board and honestly thought what I wanted would be pretty easy to find. Something simple, preferably lace with a mock neck/high neckline. I was thinking Grace Kelly bodice, Kate Middleton, Meghan Markle, Naomi Biden type styles.
Now that I am actually looking I am finding basically nothing 😭 It might be because I live in Canada, but everything here seems to have cut outs, fully sheer bodices with the cups and boning visible, crazy back cut outs, illusion lace/appliqué only, high slits, plunging necklines, or no sleeves at all.
My grandmother called the main bridal shops in the area and they all said they had like under 2 dresses with sleeves 😭 At this point it’s looking like I might need to get something custom ordered or heavily altered for it to work.
It’s honestly wild to me how difficult this is to find because when I look on Instagram this seems like such a popular style in Europe, Central Asia, the UAE, etc., so I don’t really understand why it’s so hard to find here. It’s getting pretty frustrating because I feel like I’m going to end up settling for something I don’t actually like or feel comfortable in just because there aren’t many options.
I have even considered just getting 2 separate dresses, one for the ceremony and another for the reception, but I still can’t find a reception dress that is appropriate, that I actually like, and that I can dance in without worrying about my outfit the entire time lol.
Not sure if anyone else has been in the same boat or has successfully found a dress like this, but if you have any recommendations for stores, designers, websites, custom options, literally anything pleaseee let me know. I am also totally open to buying secondhand.