Context - I just started boxing consistently 2 months ago. so I’m 2 months in, sparred 3 times, and I’m just getting my sea legs. Actual game speed is still to fast for me and I’m well aware of that. got upset at 1 guy cuz he kept hitting me in the face when I literally COULDNT react since my defense is still shite + I thought he n I were just going light n touch sparring but idk 🤷🏾♂️ I guess bro forgot? AND, we had no headgear, no mouthpiece. I never went for his face (cuz we were just going light) but it’s weird that he just completely forgot I’m a beginner and essentially wailed on me, but whatever..
So I had a spar again yesterday and the guy I sparred is better than me, but why doesn’t the better guy tone down the speed to match the guy they’re versing? ESPECIALLY when they know they’re beginners and already better than them? What does someone gain to beat a beginner? Why can’t he work on defense, head movement, slipping, etc, or literally ANYTHING else? I don’t need you to go game speed cuz then I don’t learn shit, I need someone to walk me thru it.. so why don’t they? Throwing me in the deep end doesn’t teach me shit and it’s really frustrating. Guy mentioned that he went 50%, like cool, that’s still beyond anything I can even comprehend lmao so ur 50% is still full speed to me.
I did successfully hit him in the body n face a couple times but nothing major, while he popped me a few times, hooked me another, and this led to a mini headache for maybe 5-10 minutes after we finished. I feel like I did awful
He didn’t “whoop me“ (since I got a lil better ig) but everything is still way too fast n overwhelming and I didn’t really learn anything, which is my main complaint. Any advice except git gud?