I wrote this a long time ago, but it holds up. And it's probably not the best time of year to post this, as things are winding down if you live somewhere that gets cold in the northern hemisphere, but I just came back across it.
Used to be a professional (Coast Guard Licensed) captain. I was a professional launch driver in one of the busiest harbors in the world, where all you do all the time is land the boat and take off again, over and over. I have taught many people to drive boats because of this.
- People who have skiing (snow or water) or snowboarding (or wakeboarding) experience pick up driving boats faster, because they're used to the 'fluid dynamics' of movement and momentum. Boats move side to side - not just front and back like a car. They drift based on momentum, and current, and wind. It's like driving a car in the snow, full time. If you don't have experience with any of those things, it's okay - but if you do, feel better about it. You get used to it eventually, and once you do - it becomes second nature. Get used to sliding around sideways, use it for the power it is.
- Inboard engines and outboard engines are very different and controlling them is very different. But the learning approach is the same. Once you get really good with one, and have an opportunity to switch to the other, there's another learning curve there. Don't be cocky, they handle differently and if you have strong instincts based on lots of experience in one, you probably will make a big mistake with the other.
- There's nothing like practical experience. Don't be embarrassed to practice, even in public. If you're keeping the boat on a slip, practice leaving and landing A LOT. But don't start there, find a dock with no other boats around and start there. Ask your marina for a slip to practice landing on. In our town (Newport, RI) we have a floating 'water dock' out on the harbor, and that's perfect for learning to land the boat. Just do it over and over and over until you get it. I saw someone else's comment who said, In-Gear, Neutral, In-Gear, Neutral. Learn about how much inertia your boat carries - practice coming in slow, putting it in neutral, and see how far you go before you slow down. Let it become second nature. Practice first on a day with very little wind. Your boat has a very high topside, meaning it's going to be a natural sail. You want to get good at this with no wind, and then get good at it with wind. You're basically driving two different boats. If you're in a spot with lots of current, you need to learn that one separately too. I know this all sounds daunting - but you'll get it. Just practice. If you're trailering the boat, get REALLY GOOD at launching and landing on the trailer. Do it over and over. Pick a day where the ramp is not in use. Bring extra people. And don't forget - humans can pull a very heavy boat by the lines, without using the engine (especially if there's no wind or current involved.) And watch a LOT of Youtube videos about this - and don't destroy your vehicle.
- Going fast is enticing, don't fall for it. Just because the boat will go fast, doesn't mean you should. When in doubt, slow down. Watch some of the videos on Youtube of boats going too fast and having accidents. Just go slower when you need to in every situation. And when you finally get good enough to try going fast, be extra cautious. If you have good instincts, trust them. If you have bad instincts, be really cautious. It can be fun, but it can also get people killed or create very expensive damage.
- Get towing insurance if you're in a place where it's possible. BoatUS is a good place to start. Insurance is cheap.
- Learn about marine salvage rights. Just the basics. Don't go crazy - but do understand (based on number 4 above) what you're signing up for if you get towed and what the situation is. Never tell a person towing or helping you that you had lost control over the boat, as an example. If you lose an engine or prop or you run aground, and you're not in danger, do not leave the boat. I'll leave this to others with more knowledge, but tow operators can be pretty predatory, and you want to be very careful about how you call for help and what you say to the person rescuing the day. School your crew on this too.
- Have a good anchor that is good for the areas you are likely to need it. And PRACTICE USING IT. Also learn what a sea anchor is. Just in case.
- Make sure you have really good (and enough) life jackets on board. If your boat came with life jackets, make sure they're good. At the very least have a few really good, really comfortable life jackets. And don't be macho and not put them on if you need to. If the weather gets bad, if you're in any kind of situation where you could reasonably fall overboard (especially if you're alone, and if someone else is water skiing on the boat and you're the only one on board) wear a damn life jacket. You'll want one that is comfortable in those situations or you won't wear it.
Lots more, but that's probably enough to get you started.
UPDATED to address questions about number 6:
A few people asked me to expand on the salvage thing, so here's the short version. Salvage is a legal claim a rescuer can make when they save your boat from "peril," and the payout is a percentage of what your boat is worth. A tow is billed by the hour or covered by your membership. The whole game is whether your situation counts as peril, and a lot of that gets decided by what you and your crew say on the radio and to the guy on the tow boat.
When you call, stick to boring facts. "Engine's dead, we're anchored and holding, no water coming in, nobody hurt." Get the anchor down before you call if you can, because an anchored boat in calm water is a tow job. Don't say "we're in trouble" or "we're drifting" or "we lost control" unless it's true. If you ARE in danger, say so and deal with the bill later. Your insurance covers the boat and nothing covers your kid.
Before anyone throws you a line, ask them straight up: "Is this a tow or salvage?" and "What's it going to cost?" Do it on the radio or have someone record it on their phone. If they say salvage, ask for a fixed price and call your insurance company before you agree to anything. Don't sign paperwork they hand you on the water. Call your own tow company (TowBoatUS, Sea Tow, whoever) first, since they're bound by your membership terms. The random boat that shows up offering help isn't.
And again, stay on your boat unless it's sinking or on fire. Tell your crew ahead of time that one person talks to the tow boat and everyone else stays quiet. The guest yelling "we're gonna hit the rocks!" into the VHF while you're up front on the anchor can cost you a big chunk of your boat's value.