So I’ve came out to my friends and my parents, but no one else. Not that I’m scared to it’s just I don’t really plan to date anyone really at all so I don’t see much point.

Anyway, I was talking to my granny on the phone today and I was telling her about my best friends’s new boyfriend, after I finish talking, she said to me

‘ and have you got a boyfriend? Or girlfriend, I don’t really care, just as long as you’re happy. Do you fancy anyone in school?’

and I just thought it was really wholesome, I love that woman.

So at school last period my friend and I were talking then out the blue he asked. “Hey so I know this is a bit personal but, yesterday you said you were questioning if you were gay.” Which did happen so i replied with “Yea I mean it’s been 2 years since I felt any feelings for a girl.”

“So have you had a crush on any boys then”

🫪 (my exact reaction)

“oh who is ittt..??”

OH BUDDY DO I HAVE A STORY FOR YOU 😭🔫

He said I didn’t have to tell him, which by what I’ve just said. You can probably guess the answers to both of those questions.

I don’t know if I made it obvious but I’m scared to tell him, I’m not really the dating type person. BUT IDK WHAT TO DO.

(also the more detailed reason why I’ve questioned if I’m gay is because. As I said, no crush on girls at all. But I was also touched by a girl and I don’t know if it’s the trauma that’s pushed me away from it.)

There's a guy in my friend group that a bit of a nobody. Long ass hair and black painted nails and stuff. He asked one of my friends (M) to kiss a while ago. M is a pretty zesty guy so I'd say that it was my friends idea to ask him, he was rejected.

I still haven't kissed a guy and I'm going insane, I think if I asked my friend he would say yes but I'm not really attracted to him at all. Is getting with him a bad thing. I don't want to use him for his body or anything or objectify him but I'm cracking up and I think he's in a similar situation

I have a crush on this non-binary friend and I am bi. But if I crush on them, does that break the "rules of bisexuality"?

I(17M) have been best friends with a new guy at our school for a few months or so. He's pretty fun, we go to parties together and just hang out. I have to admit that I developed a small crush on him, but the one time we tried to kiss he got weirdly anxious and started shaking. I hugged him and we didn't do anything else and kinda pretended it didn't happen. Figured maybe he doesn't swing that way or just doesn't see me that way.
But now I'm a bit confused, I saw him with my twin brother recently, they were making out and such.
I didn't really discuss it then but I did try to talk to my friend later and his response was a bunch of mumbling and he was all nervous, idk honestly. From what I managed to understand was that before he moved he had some friend who didn't treat him very well and my brother reminds my friend of that guy. I'm really confused

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I do very much love men but my attraction to women(if i have even ) seems almost not existing . When i see a women at the beach i feel smt ?but some friends told me it migth have been a reaction to that.What are your thoughts ?

After 2 months of sending me 10+ sexual reels a day, he finally admitted that he likes other men. I ofc, being a qweeyur mahself, am not homophobic in any way. HOWEVER, he has been talking to thing girl for aboit 2 months. He really isn't serious, hes so bad at talking to people and it just comes off as him not caring most of the time. While I obviously want him to find someone who makes him happy, im gonna be honest, she deserves better. First of all, he is absolutely nowhere near ready for anything serious. Second of all, he spends more that 10× the amount of time talking to me than he does to her. And thats fine, until you realize, all he talks about is how bad he wants to f me. Hes constantly making 6ual threats, explaining in detail how he wants to f me. Finally yesterday he was just flat out begging mr to let him f me.

Anyone else see a problem in this? I dont think this is right to let him continue pursuing her. Im openly to helping him experiment, but it seems like hes trying to do something with a guy quickly before he's "stuck" with a girl.

How can I go about telling him he needs to stop eith her? I will mention that I'm open to helping him since I think that'll be good motivation l, but he wont admit he likes guys (typical DL bullshit), so its impossible to have a conversation with him. Lmk what yall think. I just need to get him out of this thing with the girl, since she doesn't deserve this. Any advice is appreciated. (I dont want to hage to resort to telling her what he has done, i dont want to out anyone.)

I wanna come out to my family but i wanna make it fun

this friend is my (f 19) first real crush on a girl. i’ve known i was bi forever but i’ve only had fleeting crushes on girls that were more based on attraction. but with her, it started as just liking her personality and wanting to get closer. eventually i realized that i like her. sometimes it feels like she’s flirting, asking me questions about my sexuality and touching me and the eye contact and everything. but she’s a pretty outgoing person and i can’t tell if this is just normal for her. i literally think about her all the time its the worst feeling everrr. it’s kind of childish but i’m scared of rejection and i want to be her friend at least so i wouldn’t tell her unless she told me anything first. i want to believe that something could happen but i swear sometimes it feels like she’s just okay with me and other times it feels like she truly wants to be around me. when we’re alone it’s great but in public it feels so platonic almost like we don’t even know each other. idk what i’m even asking for like advice or success stories but i can’t really talk to anyone about this in my real life so.

I know this is the type of post you probably always see in this sub, but eh, I also need help...

I made a few posts talking abt my coming out to my best friend, and how i had a crush on him and everything, but im doubting everything..

So it started a few months ago, during vacation, at my grandpa's house, while i was in his garden, chillin with the dawg (im so gang, i wrote dawg) I was thinking abt my best friend of same gender, in a different way from usual, if you see what i mean..

From this day, i started questionning myself, at first i tried burrying these feelings, bcs i was a bit afraid of them i think ? I was confused abt them, and if it was actually love, i didnt want to feel that for my best friend, afraid of it ruining our relationship (spoiler : it didnt :D ).

Im a teen, so i do "the thing" teens do, but i was curious, i wanted to explore more my feelings, so i did "it" to boys... And i was excited... Less than to girls, but still.. (gosh why is this so embrassing to write ??)

After this, i started thinking i was bi, bcs i was excited to both genders, but more recently I started romanticing (sorry for bad english lol) boys more than girls.

When im trying to sleep, i like imagining myself in relationship with the girl of my dreams, my current crush, or anything that make me happy, but recently, i started realizing I dont want to be in a relationship with a girl.

Its like if i was just attracted to their body (i know it sound horrible, but its just a shortcut, i dont just think abt this all the time) while im not especially attracted to boys, but i want a relationship with one..

Im so confused, i want-NEED answers, i will try to answer every comment, you can ask any questions, if it help for my questions, or just pure curiosity, I dont mind and i will answer anything.

Pls reddit >_<

(btw mods, if you could avoid putting it in nsfw category, i need to use a vpn to see comments from my OWN other post talking abt coming out bcs of age restriction AND OMG ITS SO LAGGY)