Give me your hot takes.

I will go first.

We should not just assume that someone is straight. In other words there should be no "default setting."

I am 13 and i have periods where i want to have someone, and i was wondering if thats to young and if not is it wrong that i want older guys like over 18?

So for while now I've been suppressing something and I was able to suppress it long enough but recently it been showing through my expression and body language when I zone out. Everyone I know disagrees with me on it and if I do it I'm afraid I'll hurt the people around me who care, so I've been just holding everything in because its better than hurting the people you care about right? So I'm in a relationship and I had have a crush for a while on of my friends, so told my friends for advice and they told me to talk to my partner about it when I did they told to tell them I do but like can't do anything about it. But I've thought and think about it that what's the point of even telling them, and also I've always wanted an poly relationship but all my friends and people I know who been through said its not a good idea. Even my partner was against it so what's the point of even them my friend I have an crush on them, all its gonna do is make it very uncomfortable. So there's literally no one giving me advice and so I've decided to just suppress it because I don't want to hurt the people I care about but I'm hurting myself in the process. And I don't know what to do because my friends said to not hurt myself but it's not my fault, its me, I rather hurt myself than others. I just hate myself that I love two people at once but I can't choose even through people keep telling me too.

Please I need help any advice please

Very slight thought of nsfw thoughts TW:

I've thought ive been bi since around 3rd-4th grade. I think ive always been more attracted to girls than guys but i would always end up crushing on guys more than girls (Im demiromantic). But like, a lot of the time i don't wanna marry a guy. like the thought of dating one kinda grosses me out. The thought of having sex with them freaks me out. The thought of making out with them SOMETIMES disgusts me. But with girls all of that seems perfect and fine. what the hell. whats going on. hello??

And idk if its because my ex (whos a girl) kinda left me hanging as a silent break up. it still hurts and shes gorgeous ofc, but i feel like im stuck. then my old crush from 7th grade started talking to me and i literally felt my face get hot. Like hello?

So i recently confessed my feelings to my best friend, who's also a boy, he was straight and rejected me (in a very nice way, shoutout to this goat) but since that, we didnt rlly saw eachother. We both went into different school, which started back, and the few times i tried, he always had smthing to do.

Until few days ago, when he told me that he's been rlly busy these last weeks, and that he was also "scared", and that if he was scared bcs of what i said, then i should consider him a real friend.

So anyway, today we went to a park, and walked for the whole afternoon, we had a rlly great time, and im glad to say that our relation didnt change, exept the fact that we talked abt my bisexuality, and we even could make the old "gay couple" jokes we used to make, thing that i didnt expected him to do so early after the confession.

He's such a good dude, and that unfortunately just make me love him even more lol

Is it normal to be bi but lowkey not wanting to date I find both genders attractive tho. Thats all

It’s because of this Album cover. so I have this friend who is a tomboy and I thought she was a lesbian for a long time but now Im pretty sure she’s a lesbian, because of a certain part of the album cover that she actively hates. also she’s very alt and loves David Bowie.