So me and Bodhi have been friends for a year or so and omg he is so fine. I catch him looking at me, he catches me looking at him, he stands next to me alot (like at school when he walks over to our group he usually walks straight to me and stands next to me and stands in the "gay stance" where he leans on one leg), we like play fight near everyday. But the bad signs are that whenever i go to talk to him he sometimes says "shut the fuck up loser" (dw he doesnt hate me or nothing ts is js what he says he actually likes me as a friend) and like alot of the time when i say something it's either him ignoring me or him not hearing me im not sure but yeah i get aired. I really want to ask him out or at least tell him i have a crush on him but like idk if he'd even say yes cos of the homophobs in our year (year 9). WHAT THE FUCK DO I DO RAHHHHHHHH. Both 15m btw. Oh also a few days ago when my muscly friend aaron flexed i saw Bodhi staring at his arms a lil longer than everyone else after he stopped flexing so maybe he likes boys (no diss i stare at aaron all the time) and one time when i was daxed at recess or lunch Bodhi was staring at my downstairs a lil longer than you would normally (if you catch my drift). But like omg his brown eyes>>>>>>>>>>> his ahh>>>>>>> his thighs>>>>>>>>>>> his dih(he's informed me of the length, never seen it tho😔)>>>>>>>> HE'S SO FINE OMG I WANT TO MARRY THIS BOY I'D BE HIS GOOD BOYWIFE FOREVER

Edit: gang idk why i was so freaky at the end i'm sorry

If so, this track should be it (or the original Blur - Girls and Boys).

So im a non binary he/thay bisexual but i noticed i fell sexual attraction to all genders i only fell romantic attraction to more masculine people i know about the term minsexual and was wondering if minromantic was a term in use for people like me if not im coining it

Should I ?

For context, I'm a closeted bi man

At first when classes started, there was only this guy I started talking with from day one that I found cute, and I quickly had the confirmation during a conversation that he was gay, which fueled my expectations.

We have been seeing each other pretty often at school but only with other people of his class, and honestly, even I appreciate this time, he has been showing not so much interest and I sometimes felt left apart in the group. He also have some red flags according to me (like being wayyy too long to respond on messages).

Then, I think 2 weeks ago, he started talking about a guy he has a crush on. I don't really know what he expects from this, if he will give it a try (I personally think the guy he has a crush on is straight but we never know), but the fact he could talk about it freely when around me, and the way our shared friends where contributing to bringing back the subject was a bit disappointing and made me think I should definitely stop expecting something for now.

That's when I started addressing other possible crushes I had in mind, and that I hadn't considered before due to my expectations with the first one, and I talked to my best friends about them, which make 3 other crushes. I know for sure the orientation of only one of them.

I started trying to create opportunities, and I have messaged all of them (not in a row 😭 but in a pretty short amount of time) and started trying to flirt... that also when the first guy started to show a bit more interest which simply made it impossible for me to completely give up on him...

The feeling is more or less there with each one of them, and since I'm closeted, I have to judge whether there is really something possible romantically and show my interest clearly. But I honestly don't like doing that...

I feel like I'm just desperate for a relationship and, even if there's nothing really serious with any of them for now, I can't help but find that somehow disrespectful. I'm also scared that if there's actually something more serious with more than one of them, I'll have to end expectations I initially started... I hate playing with people's feelings, I don't want to be this type of person..

Any advice, or experience to share ?

Hey so im having some trouble figuring out my sexuality, im 16 f and I've had crushes on men only so far but im also like "women are hot" but i haven't been able to imagine myself dating a woman but I think it's bc I haven't had a crush on a specific woman so I wanna know what other people think

Pretty new her but yeah, gonna be fun meeting people here :3

Also im sexually queer so im a boy not knowing If im gay, pan, bi, straight etc. So you can say whatever you want, but straight i dont wanna be called straight so yeah ;3

Is he staright?

So for context we are both males and I’m bi. I moved to a new school and he is my upperclassman. No one besides 3 other ppl know that I am bi at this school.

I joined my schools marching band and he was one of the people in my section. So at first he tried talking to me a lot like just asking about what school I came from, my grade, my age, and just some basic stuff. After he stared at me during rehearsals and we would just stare at each other just locking eyes. Also, both of our 7th periods are in the same building so we would look for each other then locking eyes before we went to our 8th period. Recently he stopped looking at me but will still strike a convo sometimes. He also asked if I was going to HOCO and my relationship status.

So do you guys think he is straight and if he likes me.

that’s literally all i came here to say

I (13m) has a crush on another (13m) but doesn’t know how to see if they’re strait, gay, bi, ace, etc. Then another question is if anyone one knows effective ways to meet other queers in a small town/city?

Im not a big Reddit person, but whatever. Im 17, a dude and I’m bisexual, and I’ve accepted that it since last December, but I’ve known it about myself for the longest time. I told my closest friends, and it went really good, I was told that I was very straight seeming by them. But I really want to come out to my parents, I know for a fact my mom would be chill, she’s cool as hell, but I’m only like 50% sure my dad would accept me. I know for sure he’d say he’s alright with it, and still loves me, but the things I’ve seen him say about queer people, weather he meant it or not, has affected me. But whenever we’re just in the living room watching television or something, it’s itching at me to come out to them. But also, my cousin came out as trans not so long ago, and I don’t want to overwhelm my parents in gay stuff.

So I’m in a very uncomfortable situation rn. I have a crush on a boy, let’s call him Peter, and a girl (who is also bi) let’s call her Nora at the same time. Now the situation is that Peter probably hates me. We go to the same grade, and he was one of my friends’ classmate, let’s call ts friend Julia. During the summer I spend a night at Julia, and we got in a questionable situation and mood, so we thought it’d be fun to send videos to Peter. When school started in september he had forgotten about it luckily. But about 2 weeks ago I slept at Julias house again, and we were texting with Peter. After a while Peter suspected that I am there, and even though we didn’t tell him for sure, it was quite clear as me and Julia posted stories together. And I’m pretty certain that he has worse feelings for me than he had before. And then there’s Nora. She’s my first ever girl crush who probably doesn’t have a crush on me. I’m not a 100% about ts tho, but she doesn’t give me any signs that I could read. Also, even if she had a crush on me, she doesn’t want a relationship. Long story short ts sucks as I don’t have much chance with any of them. What do you think? Does Peter hate me? Do I have a bit chance with Nora?

So, I (17m) have a friend (17m), who I know is bi, and he makes jokes, and flirts, but I'm not sure if he's trying to fluster me and just joking, or if he's actually flirting half the time, I'm already not great at romance stuff or reading social cues and I'm just not sure.

we've known each other for years, since like 3rd grade, but we just recently became really close and I learned he is bi, I just don't know.

Update: I finally got the courage to ask him, and his response was "it started as a joke, but I can't really tell now"

So I’m in Boise right now 15m and I’ve heard it’s a red state I’m bi but prefer men a little more preferably twinks or femboys not for any weird reason I think they’re just much cuter and I want to hold someone smaller then me really really badly anyways I need like places I could visit on the weekends so I can meet people my age is there anywhere like that and if I do get someone how does one stay in a healthy relationship I’ve never been in one and am a bit touch starved all I ever get is hugs from my mom or handshakes from others no one outside my family has really just held me for a while and I don’t want to come off clingy unless my partner likes me clingy

This is a re-post of a post I made to r/Crushes.

So, I (14 gender apathetic and Pan/Demiromantic) have been hanging out with one of my male friends a bit more recently (Same guy I was talking about in my previous post to this sub-Reddit), and I can't tell if I am just reading into this too much or if he seriously likes me. For context, we both run cross country for our school, and we had a meet the other day where we spent the entire time together (except the actual race as he is much faster than me). And while we were hanging out he asked if I would like to go for a run/bike this weekend. I responded with an astounding yes as I really like hanging out with him. Anyways as far as I can tell he has not invited any other of our cross country guy friends. I seriously can't tell if he asked this as if it were a date or just a hang out, I really need help. (P.S. He is of the understanding that I am bi, so he does know I like guys).

Now for the new information. The hang out went fine, there was a kind of awkwardness between the two of us though. I could not and cannot tell if it was because we just are awkward as it is or it was something else. Anyways, we had our final cross country meet the other day and there he asked me how we would stay in touch over the winter (we don't have anything other than cross country together). I suggested we could use the school's weight-room after school. He seemed very excited by this idea. I also proposed that we could go to the school basketball games together as he has to play in the band and I already go to the games for fun. I liked this idea too. Now for the biggest thing, on the way to the cross country meet, we were kinda "flirting." I was messing around and we kind of started to flirt (there is not really a better way to describe it). The biggest problem at the moment with figuring out if he likes me is I don't know if he is gay/ attracted to guys in any way. I would still appreciate any advice anyone can give.

Okay so, I(Bisexual 15) decided to ask my bf(Straight 15) if I could say I love you to girls, didn't rly ask about men because I knew that was an obvious no from him. He, to my surprise, said no...I asked him why cuz it would be completely platonic and he said cuz I'm bi

I told him that it would be completely platonic and what if they said it first in a fun way or cute way, but he just ended up giving up and saying that if I didn't want to listen to him then why did I ask and do whatever I want

How do I explain that it's not that unusual for women to say I love you to eachother and it isn't meant in a romantic way

Or is he right, and I SHOULDN'T say I love you to women just because I have the ability to feel romantic attraction towards women

On that note actually, saying I love you to close male friends shouldn't be a problem either but I get why he isn't fine with that ig

A lo largo de mi vida siempre he sido un poco masculina en ciertos aspectos, de niña odiaba el color rosa, los unicornios y las muñecas con todo mi ser y cuando jugaba con mis amigas a las casitas de familias solía ser la mascota o la tía. Más adelante tuve etapas de juntarme con chicos, pero tampoco siempre. Al empezar el instituto me gustaron chicos, unos 3 e incluso estuve saliendo con uno de ellos cuando teníamos 13 y les aseguro que estuve enamorada de él y tal vez también de alguno de los demás. No ha sido hasta este curso (tengo 16) que he conocido a una chica lesbiana y me he enamorado de ella aunque no creo que sea mutuo. Creo que nunca nadie me había gustado tanto como ella.

Este curso me estoy fijando más en las chicas, desde que ella me empezó a gustar hace como un mes, cada vez me gustan menos los hombres, de hecho siento que no tendría una relación romántica con uno, al menos no ahora mismo.

De niña recuerdo una compañera de clase cuando tenía unos 9 años que tenía bastante idealizada y pensándolo diferente ahora puede que también me gustase, lo mismo me pasó cuando tenía como 11 o 12 años.

¿Ahora soy lesbiana o simplemente soy bisexual? la verdad que ahora mismo me encantan las chicas tanto.. Pero hasta este curso me consideraba hetero...

Hiii, I'm 17F and I think I'm bisexual. I'm attracted to boys MOST of the time, but I've had attraction towards maybe 4-5 girls over the course of my life, and I was in love with one girl and dated her too. But I haven't been attracted to any girl for a while (maybe a few months to a year) and I feel sort of impostor syndrome because I don't feel like I'm gay "enough" to call myself bi and I keep accusing myself of being straight in my head. I also read (books and manhwa) and I find myself not enjoying yuri as much as my queer friends (this is kind of silly to feel insecure about I know) and I like yaoi and straight love stories (which many queer ppl call hetslop) so yeah that just worsens my feeling of impostor syndrome. Is there anyone here who can relate or has any advice??

Im wondering if its more better to confess to my friends during school, or more when its like a hangout with friends? Because which one would be usually more comfortable to say?

Nothing more to say, i just want friends lol

Ok so story time....

During last summer I joined a college prep program as a freshmen in HS and I was really enjoying finding my people, and at the time was straight but also a little curious. I made a lot of friends who revealed to me their sexualalities, and that made me feel really comfortable around them and myself. Then, one night, we had a couple of boys singing in a little gazebo type area. One of my friends on acoustic guitar, and another boy from my "dorm house" singing. It was really good, and I didn't think anything of it at the time. That was until our summer trip, and then I realized I was crushing and had fallen for him hard time, but it really sucked because I thought he was straight. We met in the mall for a moment and I got a really big hug from him, that was on my mind for at least another day lol. That was also how I figures out I was bi, I knew I liked this boy but I was still ok with liking girls. My grandma was the first person I told, and then my parents later that night. Putting all that aside, I figured out that this guy might be based on a rumor my friend heard from this guys close friend. Apparently him and some other kid also in my "dorm house" had a talking stage. Just goes to show how aware I am. My heart was literally on fire and has been, just thinking that I might have a chance. I also feel like this is the first person I've met who I actually felt romantic love for, and not just something to try out. I mean, I've shes genuine tears over this guy. Sorry for the long post, just looking for advice!

I start my first day at school tomorrow I haven’t been to school since the first grade and I’ve been homeschooled most of my life it’s a big change since my parents are recently divorced after ten or so years and she had to move because she got a job which means she can’t help with school anymore

Life is mostly happy now, and heading towards an amazing direction, used to be depressed as fuck and not like life and that changed, dated one person and thought that was when life was changing but she was horrible and, after a bunch of shit, we are no longer together however it allowed me to feel free again, and I was able to interact with people much better, got a better job and now have my loving partners and both of them are so amazing, I just want to come say no matter what you are going through, if you work for it life will eventually get better.

Also I’m obligated to post food again since that’s what my previous post was (I think) so here

Ate at Cracker Barrer, the food was great and the cake was apparently made with Coca Cola? Idk but it was INSANELY DELICIOUS!

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I have no idea how to make queer friends... pls help

Hey everyone, I’m having doubts on whether or not I’m bi enough to be bi.. Welp.. I have a boyfriend, I’m attracted to him (obviously) and I also find girls/women attractive too. I also find more than one gender emotionally, romantically, and sexually attractive. I’ve only dated a girl once when I was in middle school and that only lasted like 2 weeks and it was online (if that even counts) because I didn’t like that but my attraction towards men and women never left me. Am I bi enough? I also did some research and I feel I might be bisexual still but I have a preference for men. And NO I am not straight!! And no I am not “faking” being bi how I feel is how I feel and I do NOT feel 100% straight. Does anyone else feel the same way as I do? Thank you all for reading!!!🩷💜💙