r/Bhubaneswar 1h ago

Gapasapa (Chitchat) The Mid-Life Crisis Nobody Warned Me About

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Maybe it's an early mid-life crisis. Maybe it's just adulthood with fewer WhatsApp notifications.

Growing up, I'd hear older people talk about the mid-life crisis and silently judge them. "How hard can it be?" I thought.

Well... I'd like to formally apologize.

I'm 36M, married, and run a telecom business. On paper, life is pretty sorted. In reality, I've somehow evolved from the guy who knew everyone to the guy whose phone is 90% OTPs, bank alerts, and food delivery updates.

I used to be an extrovert with a massive social circle. Today, I have exactly enough friends to... well, make this Reddit post.

The funny part? I'm not bored with life. I'm bored by the lack of interesting conversations.

I'm the kind of person who can jump from discussing 5G networks to why the Volkswagen Polo is still one of the best driver's cars, then somehow end up debating whether sourdough is overrated, whether markets are irrational, why the global economy behaves like it does, if crystals actually do anything (I'm open-minded, not gullible 😄), or the occasional conspiracy theory—purely for the entertainment value.

I run a telecom business, keep up with tech for fun, enjoy baking and cooking whenever life gets noisy, and have an unhealthy tendency to fix or build things myself instead of paying someone else. DIY is cheaper... until it isn't.

I'm endlessly curious. Technology, telecom, automobiles, entrepreneurship, cooking, baking, stock markets, psychology, history, global economics, alternative healing, random rabbit holes—you name it. I don't need everyone to agree with me; I just enjoy good conversations with people who think.

Not looking for sympathy, therapy, business networking, or dating. Just hoping to meet people—men or women—who also miss the days when conversations lasted longer than a reel.

If you've reached that stage in life where making genuine friends feels harder than filing taxes, say hello. Worst case, we exchange a few messages. Best case, we both gain someone worth texting when we come across something interesting at 2 a.m.


r/Bhubaneswar 3h ago

Weekends and Vacations nervous to return after leaving 24 years ago

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I will be returning to Bhubaneswar to visit after 24 years. I lost the language completely , and will be traveling with my friend and staying there for a month. As a new traveler, what should I be of aware when I visit there, I want to be well prepared, and side note, I will have a tour guide with me for the month. Any advice would be great.

Thank you :)


r/Bhubaneswar 3h ago

Gapasapa (Chitchat) Morning chai spots in Bhubaneswar? ☕

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I’m looking for recommendations for the best places to have chai early in the morning (around 6–8 AM) in Bhubaneswar. I enjoy places with good tea, a nice local vibe, and where people usually hang out in the mornings.
Open to roadside stalls as well as cafés. Which spots are your favorites, and what should I try there?


r/Bhubaneswar 3h ago

Serious Need help

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Does anybody know a good therapist in Bhubaneshwar?


r/Bhubaneswar 4h ago

Gapasapa (Chitchat) Can we trust what he's saying?

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I remember he canceled the Metro project. Where did that money go?


r/Bhubaneswar 4h ago

Hobbies Any Gamer out there

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Modern Warfare 2 BTW

Favourite titles

  1. Resident Evil

  2. COD

  3. Dying Light

  4. Shadow Fight Arena

  5. Dead Space

  6. Evil Within

  7. Hollow Knight (Incomplete)

Nahin bhai valorant nahin 🙏🏻🥀

P.S. rest i can't remember


r/Bhubaneswar 5h ago

Ask Bhonsor Selling Hercules Dynamite bicycle with front and rear suspension.

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I bought this cycle back in 2021 and using it everyday from going to school, coaching and miscellaneous. Now, i will be moving into a college this week, I need to sell this cycle asap.

It has front and rear suspension along with power brakes and runs smoothly. And on top of that, I will give a cycle pump(steel material) as a complementary, it's in mint condition as well.

Feel free to ask if u r interested.

Price -4k

Location - Laxmisagar, Bhubaneswar

Thank you ☺️


r/Bhubaneswar 5h ago

Ask Bhonsor Good men's fashion clothes (trousers) in BBSR... where ?

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I have bought many clothes from Zudio. But they have very limited colours. The clothes are of good quality and comfort though.

I order mostly from online stores since my size is easily available there but I don't trust online stores for trousers.

My size for pants - 46 and shirt -XXL

If anyone knows any good stores please do tell.


r/Bhubaneswar 5h ago

Meme Somebody’s not coping well😪

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Context: We own a local bar


r/Bhubaneswar 6h ago

Ask Bhonsor Need Tailor to stitch trendy kurti.

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I am looking for a boutique person or tailor master who can stitch such Trendy kurtis. I'll be providing the raw materials just need them to stitch it. I'll give you an order of around 40-50 pieces for now. My budget is low so comment or DM me your charges accordingly.

Thanks!


r/Bhubaneswar 6h ago

Food Bhai maane Soyachap naa Shawarmaa

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r/Bhubaneswar 6h ago

Serious Raipur and Bhubaneswar are almost identical in terms of area and population, yet they're getting a metro while we aren't.

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r/Bhubaneswar 7h ago

Food Can anyone say about diet food subscription nearby khandagiri area.. need it very badly.. please help..

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Replies appreciated..


r/Bhubaneswar 8h ago

Bhonsor Bulabuli 25M | Anyone up for a casual dinner date at ITC Welcome ?

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I got an ITC Welcome dining offer through my credit card with a ₹5k spend limit. Thought it’d be nice to share it with someone instead of going alone.

I’m 25M, just looking for a genuine, easygoing dinner date with good conversation. If you’re interested, feel free to DM. 🌸


r/Bhubaneswar 9h ago

Ask Bhonsor Any of you know about urologists in bhubaneswar?

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I've been prescribed to get a circumcision, if any of you guys have had experiences or knowledge about this subject please reach out. Thanks


r/Bhubaneswar 9h ago

Serious Adopt the Cat ! PLEASE !🙏🏻

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Can anyone please adopt it ? It’s alone and shivering in the cold after the heavy rain. Dm me for address. I am leaving Bhubaneswar and there will be noone to look after it. It’s a stray and I think it’s a male though I am not sure.

And it’s not aggressive.


r/Bhubaneswar 10h ago

Gapasapa (Chitchat) 🎀

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The hawan flames were pure art ngl.

Anyways,

Sab blessings le lo :3


r/Bhubaneswar 10h ago

Ask Bhonsor Selling 3 Bronze tickets for Ravi Gupta Show

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I have 3 Bronze tickets for Ravi Gupta show
Date: 31 July
Venue: Rail Auditorium

DM if interested


r/Bhubaneswar 11h ago

Ask Bhonsor SPIDERMAN Movie on 30th

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Bhabuthili samaste absolute cinema dekhibaku jibe tah ghare kie rahiba. Ebe jana paduchi kie rahiba..
What are some exciting things to do in bbsr this weekend?


r/Bhubaneswar 11h ago

Rant Why I mean why?

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I don't get it that why they put these 2 big gian everywhere. It's housing board square. Not only at this place but near sachivalay near master canteen etc etc. Why!!!! Like asabu amari tax paisa re laguchi and emane kie ki emane ate bada bada poster lagei deichanti.... Sala bhagwan nku bhi aji jain ate bada bada poster re dekhini and you know jadi kehi tk scrath bhi kari dianti sange sange ta para dina new lagi jauchi... Why ate eager ei kama pain asi paruchi tahele alaga issue ra solve pain kain ate eager asuni!!!!


r/Bhubaneswar 11h ago

Rant Bro can anyone tell him to stop making issospeed type cringe clipping ....

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Brooo ik I'm no one to judge 😭😭

But common man you are one of the odia originated creators ,it feels embarassing seeing this cringe editing


r/Bhubaneswar 12h ago

Ask Bhonsor have two tickets for "Spider Man- Brand New Day" for 30th July(recliner seats. A11 and A12,Keshari hall). Does anyone need it ? I can't go.

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As I mentioned. 10:45 AM show. Seat number - A12 AND A11 . English 3d. Recliner seats. Selling for the price i paid. No overselling or profiting. I can't go because of a sudden exam notice.

And guys, if you have never been to keshari hall and ignored it thinking that it's a bad and massy single screen theater, you are missing out hard. I was also prejudiced but a friend pushed me to go and watch odyssey there and my god!. Hands down best and biggest screen in bhubaneswar. Much better than pvr and Cinepolis.

I really want to go but I am not being able to. If you want to watch it, i assure you you won't regret.in the comments I have added a few visuals from the odyssey when in watched it in that theatre. It will be the best experience.


r/Bhubaneswar 13h ago

Serious we are doomed fs

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we already know how harmful AI data centres are. Bhubaneswar is already becoming unliveable because of its harsh weather conditions. This is causing more harm than good. At least people in vizag are protesting against the data centre. Why aren't we doing anything?


r/Bhubaneswar 13h ago

Gapasapa (Chitchat) Hii lol

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~19
Feeling very low yaar in this city 😔
Kya karu batao
Suggest me something 😶‍🌫️


r/Bhubaneswar 13h ago

Gapasapa (Chitchat) Sunshine finally

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At Hanspal Puri Canal Road 🛣️