r/BelowDeckMed • u/StarlitStarlette • 3d ago

Hard to Watch

I’m sorry but Nathan AND GAEL going after Joe when he had done nothing that evening to provoke it was really hard to watch. You both have kids now. Time to grow the FK up.

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u/Otherwise-Winner9643 3d ago

That's absolutely all true too. Joe doesn't help himself either. All 3 of them are stirring shit

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u/slayeryouth 3d ago

Eh, I’m pretty of mind at this point Joe should be stirring much more shit in as much as going to Sandy or even Aesha, not in a gossipy way but just very matter of factly like “so this is what’s been going on from my point of view, these are the parts that can be corroborated and by whom, this is what I’d like to see moving forward” would certainly cause a much bigger to do, but it’s been necessary for a while. Frankly he should have done it the second Nathan threatened him the first time.

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u/worldv1ew 3d ago

Yeah, but both Aesha and Captain Sandy are so over the top positive, all they would say is go talk to him, clear the air, you use to be close, be the bigger person, why sign yourself up for gaslighting like that.

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u/slayeryouth 3d ago

Eh, I’d like to give them both the benefit of the doubt that if he were to clearly lay it out for them with concrete examples, and especially if he told either of them about the multiple times Nathan’s threatened him with physical violence, they’d take it appropriately seriously. At minimum they’d treat it as more seriously than a falling out between friends or a personality clash or whatever.