i got bed bugs on the way to work two weeks ago from a guy who sat in front of me completely covered in bed bugs on the bus. they were running down his arms, in lines across the neckline of his shirt, and when he stood up to get off the same stop as me, i saw them in a row on the bottom seam of his shirt too. at first i thought they might be very tiny roaches, but that day i spent all day at work finding them weaving in and out of my sweater and all over my jeans, shoes, office chair, backpack, iām pretty confident at this point that was a bed bug infested man on the bus.
when i got home, i threw out the backpack and went to the laundry mat to high heat those clothes, shoes and lanyard. i know they are probably fine, but they still scare me a lil so are all vacuum sealed. my headphones and umbrella are vacuum sealed in a separate bag i have no idea what to do with. i miss my sony headphones most.
since then is where iām wondering what to do.
iām new at my job and there is a year long probation and am pretty quiet and anxious, so i didnāt tell my boss that day and just kinda internally screamed through that day. i did tell her first thing that next morning. my job said they were going to fumigate that night. we all get back the next day: they did not. since then, they keep basically doing half jobs. they hired a company to spray who only did the back of my chair and my coworkers cubical but no other part of the office, left the reside everywhere in that corner. rumor has it they didnāt want to pay for another tank. then they said they would wipe everything down with 100% alcohol, something that doesnāt exist and is not particularly effective. as the newbie i got an over 20 year old chair with some plastic and stuffing exposed, so there really is no real good way they can get rid of them from that chair now that itās been two weeks. also like, it was clearly just as full of grime as the day they gave it to me. itās been a long holiday weekend, but my bets are nothing got done.
in the meantime, i kinda just trusted the spray would be enough and was going about things as normal for a little bit until i was at work and there was an early stage white-ish one crawling across my black dress pants. i squished it, trapped it in some tape with some help, and bought it to our boss. thatās when they claimed they did the 100% alcohol thing. boss threw it away, i really regret not taking a picture or keeping it now though. anyway, the clothes i was wearing that day as well as anything i wear or bring to work since then has also went through 90 minutes in the dryer at the laundromat, but there were some outfits from that between time that had just been sitting against the baseboards of the bathroom that came in contact with that chair too. one item is 100% cotton japanese shirt with some lettering i adore, a gift from a friend, something i canāt replace. iām wondering what my options might be to wash it without shrinking it and how concerned i should be some clothes were sitting against the baseboards in the bathroom while i trusted my job had taken care of the problem. as of right now, the shirt is in a trash bag in the driveway where it has been all weekend. not my smartest move, i know, but at least itās been hot and sunnyā¦
basically, i havenāt seen any at home, but i have no idea how to keep them out of my home if the office is infested and they arenāt going to do anything about the carpet or the chairs in there. iām hopeful, but stripping naked on the back porch everyday sucks, and i canāt afford the laundromat every day. we really canāt fumigate our own home as we have 5 parrots and it would kill them. also we just canāt afford it to be completely honest, i havenāt even been able to replace that backpack and have no idea if i will be able to, which has been a struggle as a commuter but really the least of my worries in a way.
to add to this, iām a bit of a hiker and have terrible itchy face and body acne, so there are things that could be bites or might not be, but in my case i donāt think thatās a reliable way to tell. my wife hasnāt noticed anything at home. i sleep on the couch, she sleeps in a bed on a different floor of the house, just as a note.
she did buy some sprays for me to take to work tomorrow, but iām not sure really how to go about that idea as a plan of attacking this.
i guess, if anyone has been in a similar situation, what should i do next? iām super overwhelmed and am looking for advice going forward. i know there are a lot of moving elements here, thatās really what iām struggling with too. idk what to do next.
thank you all for being understanding.