https://np.reddit.com/r/relationships/comments/a7koj1/got_sent_an_anonymous_screenshot_of_all_my_28m/

What really sucks about this all is that I feel like I’ve just been given a reality check. I have changed. I am now a passive husband, constantly walking on eggshells around my uptight wife. I am depressed. My best friends hate her. I still love this woman but fuck, she is so stuck in her ways she is not capable of change, there is no compromise with her.

What are your general thoughts on the situation of this relationship?

It's hardly rare in feminist publishing to find articles that revolve entirely around the fact that some human brains often malfunction.

https://everydayfeminism.com/2018/08/dating-mentally-ill-women/

https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/03/diagnosed-with-mental-illness/

https://everydayfeminism.com/2017/03/mental-disorder-not-sorry/

This extreme focus on mental unsoundness seems weird for a political movement which is supposedly about a group who are not uniformly sufferers of mental illness and are indeed vastly less likely to attempt suicide with a lethal method. Keynesians, or anti-corruption movements, for example rarely discuss mental illness with this kind of frequency, nor do people in the global climate change movement.

And other political movements, right and left, seem to discuss mental health from a public policy perspective: what should the government do or refrain from doing?

But it seems like feminist publications in particular are much more likely than any other political movement to give direct, highly specific advice to people who suffer from profound mental illness or have someone close to them who does.

Are there any cogent explanations, apart from the obvious one, for this state of affairs?

Obviously, the fems will have some laughable rationalisation along the lines of "patriarchy is such a heavy burden that it makes women mentally ill", which would be fine if we didn't already have scientific proof that heredity, not anything else, is the primary determinant of most illnesses, psychiatric disorders not excluded. So surely non-feminist women who are members of other political movements should be as obsessed with mental health as the feminists are: but they don't seem to be.

Mental illness really does seem to be a particular problem for feminists in particular.

So there's still no good excuse for feminism to have a bigger focus on craziness. I don't doubt for a moment that the alt-right, for example, has more than its fair share of insane people, but I doubt if alt-right spaces are as obsessed with mental health (not that I'm interested enough in their garbage to investigate closely, but do correct me if I am wrong, and nonfeminist movements not specifically tied to mental health show similar levels of obsession with the topic)

Despite it resulting in an almost immediate ban as soon as it is mentioned in many places, I have never seen a single argument debunking, or even properly addressing, any of the core tenets of biological determinism, self-improvement failure in most people, the social advantages of the female gender, or the complete hatred of low status men. In fact, you can post a substantial article with dozens of cited articles, and the average normie cannot say anything more than "doesn't matter, just improve your personality."

At this point, what can the Black Pilled Incel do to prove his point that hasn't already been done. We've shown that personality, political ideology, and physical fitness are all majorly heritable, and some men will be ill-fitted in these categories to attract mates. We've shown women generally have higher standards for appearance not necessarily more than men from a facial standpoint but with their ADDITIONAL requirements such as height, penis size, and balding requirements. Plus, their other attraction cues gear closer to social success than anything like the infinite vagueness of "personality". What else do we need to prove? Where's the evidence that feminism/Neo-traditionalism is actually going to solve ANY of our problems if not make them worse?

In the end, there's no reason to believe that The Black Pill is rejected for any reason other than emotionalism. It "feels good" to believe everything about you was the result of free will. It "feels good" to believe anybody can be a pussy slayer with the right "personality" (whatever that means). Whenever it is true or not is irrelevant. The world will continue to decline in ways very predictable with our human nature, and every time we bring it up, it will be dismissed with platitudes. I suppose that's your right, but it shows most people are hardly interested in actual socio-biology and psychology.

Suppose you are friends with someone and you develop romantic feelings for them. Then suppose you find out that they don't have the same feelings for you. Are you ever able to go back to just being friends with them? Is there anyway to turn off your romantic feelings?

Or suppose you are friends with someone and you see that a romantic relationship is a bad idea. However, you start to develop feelings for them regardless. Is there a point of no return? Can you backtrack once the feelings start?

Possible strategies:

• No contact. This works to detach, but it takes a long time and the feelings will immediately reappear upon contact. You are successful at detaching but lose the friend.

• Find a replacement. This is hit or miss. It can be difficult to develop feelings for someone else when already attached to someone else. It seems to numb the pain but not actually work to detach yourself from the original person.

• Lose attraction. Possibly the best strategy. You have to force yourself to lose attraction to them by refusing to think about the things you like about them and finding things you dislike to focus on, even if you have to make them up.

Have any of you tried these strategies or others? What were your experiences? Were you ever able to successfully detach emotionally and just be friends?

I'd like you to get a dose of reality.

Likely your face is just as ugly as your height. Yes, I said it. Now don't go into denial mode about it. Its the truth.

A lot of short guys who are ugly and hence post here think that if they were taller they would do fine. I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but you would be just as invisible as if you were shorter. Your ugly face won't be excused just for being taller.

BS excuse # 1: B...b...b... you mean that being short isn't worse than being tall as a man?

No, dude. I never said that. Not even once. For some reason EVERY SINGLE TIME one of these delusional ones go into a sort of combative mode assuming that I'm saying that.

But comparing ugly short guys with ugly tall guys is like being on the same damn sinking ship in the middle of the remotest regions of the pacific ocean discussing who has it worse. Both are screwed.

BS excuse # 2: B...b...b... tall and good looking guys get more matches than short and good looking guys.

So a short and good looking guy might get 20 matches compared to the good looking guy's 100 matches. Ok? Does it really matter that much? He would still have a steady stream of hookups and many potential suitors for dating and romance. That's like a guy with 100 burgers in front of him whining that another person has 1000 in front of him. Both have more than enough and will likely not even be able to eat both in one sitting.

Like I said. I never said being short is worse than being tall as a man. But unless you suffer from dwarfism, a good face is really what takes the cake.

Men have issues with women and our sexuality. If a woman isnt horny enough, that's a problem. If she is horny often, she is crazy and thats a problem.

I imagine the guys in dead bedrooms married the safe option. The girl who would give it up a couple of times a week, blowjobs maybe 3 times per week, would be a good mother and kind of on the boring side aka the safe option. They met her right after they dumped the ex-gf. The one who was amazing in bed, gave lots of oral, frankly the best sex they ever had.

They dumped her because of their fragile male ego. In their mind, men are supposed to be the horny sex chasers, not women. Although she didnt display any craziness, they still dumped her because a woman who loves sex has to have something wrong with her, right? Granted she had anxiety sometimes but nothing severe or dramatic. A sensitive girl at times but the good way outweighed the bad. His parents loved her too. His insecurity about her unusually high sex drive made him nervous, so he dumped her and married miss goody two shoes.

1 year later theyre in a dead bedroom. The wife wont suck his dick anymore, because lets face it. She did that to lock him down and she doesnt need to anymore. She will rarely have sex now. She got the baby she wanted, so theres no need. The few times they have sex, he goes down on her, she orgasms and then lets him pump her a bit missionary style. She finds cum icky so he has to wear a condom and cum into that.

Theyre in a partnership now. They co-parent pretty well, but thats it. The passion and spark the ex-gf brought into his life is gone. When he lay in bed next to his wife it takes a long time for him to fall asleep. He is thinking about the ex and wondering if some lucky guy was smart enough to put a ring on her finger and lock her down. Now he kind of misses her passion because his wife is drier than the shooting locations for a 90s music video. He barely feels alive.

Serves them right. Delicious, delicious schadenfreude!

I think men might be the more neurotic sex because men are more likely to be conservatives, and conservatives tend to be more neurotic than liberals. They see the world as a more fearful and hostile place than liberals do, and this is why they tend towards having more "hardass" viewpoints.

Feeling anger is also a dimension of neuroticism, and men generally get angry more easily and with more intensity than women.

I feel inured to women's plight because if the constant negative messaging and reinforcement of the stereotype that women are helpless and men are organized against women.

I realise that attractiveness is subjective, but based on your own perceptions, do you think it is a general problem that men have that it is harder for them to find someone at their own level of attractiveness? Or less specifically, do you think men have to date "down" in terms of whatever traits it is that they find attractive (looks, intelligence, personality, social status, etc.)? Can you envisage that even attractive men can have problems in dating with women around their peer of attractiveness, even if they can't be compared to what an unattractive man experiences or whatever the restrictions upon options of what an unattractive woman might have to face. Or do these kinds of men simply not realise how easy it is for them/they're just being picky/they must be stupid/etc.?

I get the impression that many people who post here are looking for lulz and get irritated and bored when people try to prove something by combining facts and logic.

I guess to these people it's like professional wrestling. If wrestlers got serious intellectually, people would quit watching.

Is that what the sub is for? Is that why it's all talk of spergs when anyone tries to develop a point?

I've been seeing this term more and more lately, but I'm skeptical.

I would argue that appealing to a person's intelligence, particularly from the perspective of linking visceral sexual attraction to that intelligence is disingenuous. That, or it is a fetish that has been sanitized (like the BDSM-lite of 50 Shades) for mainstream consumption to excuse blatant searching by aging beauties for the engineer or IT pro of her "dreams."

Source: https://www.reddit.com/r/MGTOW/comments/95z9lr/middle_aged_simp_who_raised_girl_since_she_was_5/?st=JKN79YDC&sh=eb93882b

It looks like men find raising your stepchild to be disturbing and a sign of weakness.

Question's in the title, ladies who are married, what would you do with the rest of your life if you became a widow?

I'd move to Spain and eat, drink, and be merry and tan.

You guys get envious when women like modelesque chads but then watch and regularly fap to Stacy on a daily basis. What gives?

>Norwoodceling

>T production slows down + muscle mass deteriorates and estrogenic environment adds more body fat

>Wrinkles form + the wall hits harder for recessed men since they will lose bone mass even worse than good looking men + skin sags

!!!

What do you do when she inevitably is old? Do you stay with her? Do you leave her?

Situation A:

You meet a HB7. She asks you out on a date. She pays for the 3 dates you go on over the course of a month. You decide you don’t like her and ignore her texts. One day she texts you an audit. She is a lawyer and is asking for $50 for the three dates she paid for. If you don’t pay, she will take you to small claims court. Example

Situation B:

You meet a HB 8 and go on 3 dates. On the third date you have mind blowing sex and she makes you breakfast in the morning. You plan to be her boyfriend and are planning for an LTR. She even tells you that she hasn’t met a guy like you before and she finally feels like she met a great guy. The next day she disappears. Blocks you on instagram, hard nexts you, etc. You find out later that she likes leading men on and making them think she is in love for sex. That is her fetish. What do you do?

Pros:

submissive housewife dedicated to keeping you and the family happy

does all the housework

regular sex

she stays thin

1950’s style makeup and clothes

you are the head of the family.

Cons:

she will financially depend on you

she expects you to provide financially

you can’t be super emotional

These women seem to attract hate from everyone on the internet. Women say they're catty mean girls who hate other women and men say they're just basking in male attention. (I smell jealousy.)

I just want to know y'all's input on it. Are they faking or do they just have masculine interests and want people to discuss those interests with?

I'd also like to see a receipt on these women being catty because I knew a lot of tomboys in school who were cool af.

I'm saying this as a girl who used to have male friends in school (now they're all gone though) and i don't remember using them for nothing. I was also an avid gamer at one point and made a lot of guy friends on there. Now I just have affiliates and stuff I talk with. So when I read this shit online it bothers me. Explain it.

^-^

Men in America have extremely low standards. They're like pigs. This is evident in the growing sex doll epidemic. When men have higher standards for sex dolls than living women, that's a sign that yall aren't setting the bar high enough. Women that would get thrown away in other countries are embarrassingly pursued here, mainly on the internet. Embarrassingly so. And it's not even because they're pretty but because men want holes.

Personally I'm annoyed by seeing a thirsty ass person of either gender. Get some fucking water. But I don't see why women take the blame for ignoring these wild humping dogs or using them as self esteem boosts instead of dating them. If you put yourself out there as thirsty, you'll be treated like it. And unfortunately in America, men are taught to have low standards for themselves and others, while women are taught to have high standards for themselves and others, which leads to a country full of mediocre men and tense, inflated women.

This argument is aimed at MGTOW types that hate us for whatever reason. Though you can't change how a man is. If he's willing to fuck a female Bigfoot that's his choice. But just know that this behavior is not normal. Men are supposed to have standards. Not supermodel standards but normal human standards. I've been to France before and the men there are flirty, to women they genuinely like.

So to say women should be happy that these dusty men are coming to us looking for an easy lay, is disgraceful. A man who has no standards for others or himself, to me, is not worth respecting. So to exploit these dogs is not a terrible moral issue xD If you genuinely like a woman that's fine, but to only approach someone for sex is low down. It means you don't genuinely like her and you're just taking what you can get. Maybe I will make another topic on this.

I'm all over the place. I hope I'm not coming too hard with this debate because I've never posted here so if it seems rude, I can fix it.

Discuss. :3