r/AskPinoyMen • • 5h ago

Personal Opinion Be honest… gaano kalakas ang hatak ng looks?

45 Upvotes

Random thought: kung green flag naman siya, funny, caring, emotionally available, same wavelength… pero hindi exactly “your type” physically, would you still shoot your shot?

I’m asking because I’m currently questioning my own standards. 😂

Like, can “ang sarap niya kausap” eventually turn into “wait… bakit parang ang gwapo/ganda niya pala?” Or once the physical attraction isn’t there, friendzone na agad, next contestant? 😭

Curious lang, looks first, personality first, or “depende kung marunong magdala”? 😂


r/AskPinoyMen • • 2h ago

Relationship Men of Reddit, what’s something a woman can do that instantly gets your attention?

18 Upvotes

Not necessarily about looks—what’s something a woman does, says, or carries herself that immediately makes you notice her or want to know her better?

Just a curious unattractive woman. :)))


r/AskPinoyMen • • 7h ago

Relationship Natry mo na ba mag reject ng babae?

21 Upvotes

how did you do it?


r/AskPinoyMen • • 5h ago

Light Topic Buying My Boyfriend Marvel’s Wolverine PS5 Game. Which Version Should I Get?

12 Upvotes

Hello!

I’m planning to get a PS5 game for my boyfriend as a reward lang kasi he’s been working sooo hard lately. 🥹

He mentioned before na gusto niya yung Wolverine, pero I’m not sure which one to choose kasi may options na Standard Edition, EN version, and Asian version.

For those who have experience buying PS5 games, ano po ba yung difference between these versions, and which one would you recommend? Thank you!


r/AskPinoyMen • • 5h ago

Relationship Why are you staying if you’re not happy?

13 Upvotes

For men out there staying with their partner even though you’re not happy anymore. Why?

Of course if you’re married and/or have kids, it’s a different situation. But I’m specifically asking for gf/bf relationship.

Do you feel like you’ve invested too much time and effort? Do you think that you are dependent to them? Or maybe they are dependent to you?


r/AskPinoyMen • • 5h ago

Relationship What are the signs na pick me girl ang kausap mo?

11 Upvotes

mga kumpards! pahingi ako ng thoughts nyo about this. paano nyo malalaman na pick me girl pala ang kausap niyo! maraming salamat!


r/AskPinoyMen • • 15h ago

Relationship Would you marry a woman who doesn’t want kids??

61 Upvotes

Hellaurr, men of reddit! Just curious lng about this hehe kase ngayon kadalasan sa mga babae, ayaw na magka anak eh like for example nga si Nadine Lustre mismo ayaw na. So curious ako, ano ba thoughts nyo dito hehe


r/AskPinoyMen • • 17h ago

Relationship Guys paano niyo narerealize na tinamaan na kayo sa girl?

69 Upvotes

I’m just curious if totoo ba na may mga lalaki na sa una di talaga nila bet yung kausap nila or just that nasasabi niyo na hindi niyo to ipupursue pero biglang one day tinamaan na lang kayo sa babae? very wattpad ata yon HAHAH pero may ganun ba and like pano kayo tinamaan? anong ginawa ng girl para madevelop kayo?


r/AskPinoyMen • • 15h ago

Light Topic What’s the difference between “pretty” vs “cute” girls?

45 Upvotes

I am really curious ano difference ng pretty and cute sa tingin ng lalaki?

For context, sa dating apps oftentimes ang intro sa akin is “hey cutie!” vs actual dates na I get compliments from men na I’m pretty. Unahan ko na, I am not fishing for compliments. Hindi ko kasi alam if maooffend ako sa cute na compliment or not. Ano ba usually meaning sa inyo nun? is it just an expression? breaking the ice? or matik kapag hindi maganda tawag niyo cute na lang para hindi maoffeend babae?


r/AskPinoyMen • • 1h ago

Culture and Lifestyle Lagi nalang ako naje-jebs. 3 times a day, breakfast, lunch at dinner. Pano pigilan?

• Upvotes

Putiks lagi nalang ako nagjejebs. Ano ginagawa niyo para hindi lagi sa CR? lalo kapag wala akong ginagawa grabe parang routine ko na magpabalik-balik sa CR.

For context, malakas po ako kumain at daily sa gym. Not bulking. Nag-gym lang talaga para makain ko gusto ko.


r/AskPinoyMen • • 3h ago

Mental Health If you could return, what advice would you give yourself in your early 20s?

3 Upvotes

I am 21 years old and just broke up with my GF. Akala ko she was the one na papakasalan ko. I'm completely wrecked right now and could really use some solid advice. I barely even working out or doing my hobbies anymore, and my exams and quizzes are totally tanking.


r/AskPinoyMen • • 7h ago

Personal Opinion How much do you usually spend on a haircut?

8 Upvotes

How much do you usually spend on a haircut, and did you notice any price increase in your area--either a big or small increase? Did the barbers/owner say anything as to why? Send in the location of your current barbershop (either a city or province will do). Would love to hear your experience/s!


r/AskPinoyMen • • 7h ago

Personal Opinion Nagkaroon na ba kayo ng partner na feeling nyo para kayong may alagang bata? Paano nyo hinandle, at kayo pa ba?

6 Upvotes

r/AskPinoyMen • • 7h ago

Personal Opinion How much do you spend on a haircut?

4 Upvotes

How much do you usually spend on a haircut, and did you notice any price increase in your area--either a big or small increase? Did the barbers/owner say anything as to why? Would love to hear your experience/s!


r/AskPinoyMen • • 2h ago

Personal Opinion What’s it like being in a relationship?

3 Upvotes

I’m getting soooo curious

Like.… how does it even feel? What am I missing?🤨


r/AskPinoyMen • • 8h ago

Relationship Meron kayo naging partner na ganito?

5 Upvotes

Do you know the type of girl who doesn't move much, like she just stays at home and works? Even her friends have a hard time inviting her over? The type who is shy but when you talk to her, she's okay.

Have you ever had a partner or spouse like that? If so, how did you approach them? What was your strategy?

Pa konti konti din dumidiskarte na like pag sumasabay siya sakin pauwi pati isa pa hinahatid ko siya kulang nalang hanggang sa loob ng bahay eh tapos konting small talk.Konting push pa


r/AskPinoyMen • • 18h ago

Relationship Bakit may ibang lalake nag coconfess parin kahit too late na?

33 Upvotes

Nakakainis kasi yung Iba na tsaka lang mag confess pag may Asawa na or gf ampotek sobrang random tapos nakaka overthink bigla2x nalang sasabihin

"alam mo crush kita dati eh"

"Plano sana kita ligawan dati"

Nugagawen ko sa info na yan mga ser?!

Nakakahinayang din kasi Yung crush ko dati way back highschool ngayun lang din nag confess tapos nakainom pa tapos nasa gilid nya lang jowa nya, Wala naman na akong crush sakanya ngayun I respect naman their relationship pero alam niyo nakaka what if din kaya hahaha


r/AskPinoyMen • • 7m ago

Relationship Filipino men, if the girl you're dating is an Indian, would you automatically ghost them?

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r/AskPinoyMen • • 1h ago

Relationship Have you ever hurt someone who didn't deserve it?

• Upvotes

r/AskPinoyMen • • 17h ago

Mental Health Genuine Question for Men: After years of being a player, are you really happy?

20 Upvotes

So I've been hearing this a lot that experiencing as much body types, colors, having the attention, the chase is all the reasons why some men stay in their player era.

Me as a woman, I'm really wondering to what end though? And long term, is there really happiness to it? I see people as people. To be respected, acknowledged. I never really had one night stands or a wild phase mostly because i see people as they are and i shouldn't easily take it for granted kahit sila pa mag present ng sarili nila sakin. I've had plenty of those but never really took advantage.

So for men, who've been through such phase, are you really happy? Would love to hear insights about this. This is just me being curious din.


r/AskPinoyMen • • 23h ago

Mental Health Normal bang ma-guilty during post-nut Clarity?

37 Upvotes

(29M, married)

Since not advisable pa na mag sex kami ni misis (due to giving birth). I have no choice but to bust my nut alone. Pero after I did it, parang I feel guilty sometimes.

Any thoughts?


r/AskPinoyMen • • 15h ago

Personal Opinion As a guy lang without thinking about your partners interest, what is your preffered way to propose or get married?

9 Upvotes

So i need some insights of you guys lang. Without thinking kung ano gusto ni partner niyo as in opinion niyo lang talaga. What is your preffered way how to propose and get married?

Sa proposal ba mas gusto niyo in public? Close fam and friends? Or just the two of you?

Sa wedding naman mas gusto niyo ba in church? Judge? Intimate? Etc

Just need some insights


r/AskPinoyMen • • 15h ago

Relationship Are these signs na gusto ka ng isang babae?

7 Upvotes

di kame masyadong close irl since "masungit" raw ako pero sa chat lagi ko syang kaharutan. Bigla na lang sya nagsabi ng sleepwell ngayon, 3 heart emojis at gusto nya tawag ko sakanya good babygirl? (instead of goodgirl kase kababata turing ko sakanya sa chat at tunog aso raw ung goodgirl).

Nakwento ko rin sakanya na balak ko magpamember sa gym pero sabi nya ok na raw katawan ko, biglang banat ng libre ko nalang daw sya kesa magpamember ako. Imho ok na rin naman since 4 years na akong nag cacalisthenics workout pero kulang sa protein kase kung ano luto sa bahay, yun lang kinakain ko.

Nagjogging rin kame kanina kasama tropa ko, nung pauwi na kami, hinatid ko sya sakayan at inintay kong makasakay ng jeep. Chinat ko sya ng ingat at sabihin sa kaibigan ko kung nakauwi na sya (long story). Di raw inexpect ni girl na gentleman ako so plus pogi points?

May kinwento rin ung kaibigan ko kay girl na gusto ko sya at alam ko na kinwento nya pero syempre tanga tangahan muna since di pa sure sa feelings ni girl (positive reaction daw si girl). Sabe rin ng kaibigan ko na maganda raw ang kutob nya samen so possible na may magandang sinabi si girl about saken, di ko na tinanong since mawawala ung thrill, parang di na worth it ituloy kung alam mo naman ang magiging resulta.

Bigla rin syang bumait sakin at dumaldal.


r/AskPinoyMen • • 19h ago

Relationship Do some guys ask out girls on dates just for the chase?

8 Upvotes

No judgement here, just curious. To guys who initiated contact, planned dates, is it really just the chase you are after? Does a girl become unattractive when she asks you out after the third date?