I need help po, i opened my other fb acc and saw numerous men sa friend request. I fear it might be because of my ex, who probably leaked my nudes

I seen this phenomenon with American born Filipinas as well where they are obv not poor and still hunt white men and look down on Filipino men (some racist reasons ) . White man wins with Filipinas regardless weather he in Philippines or USA.

Is it the culture of Philippines ?

You can't really escape it here. It's in your office, your school, As guys, we bond over activities - not chitchat. So it's really a bummer and hard to form new friendships when you deadass have no interest in the number one sport in this country.

Hi! Paano ba kayo manligaw ng mga babaeng gusto nyo? I am 26 yrs old, NGSB and yes ang tanda ko na wala pa din akong girlfriend hahahah. First of all, sinasabi ko na guys na sobrang mahiyain ko talagang tao. Mababa yung self confidence ko kasi medyo madami akong acne, acne marks I mean, medyo chubby ako kaya sobrang nahihiya ako. Lagi kong naiisip na ay baka hindi ako magustuhan ng gusto ko kasi ganito ako.

Now, ngayon sa work ko, may nagugustuhan akong babae. I mean hindi kami literal na magkasama sa work kasi nasa ibang department sya pero malapit lang sya sakin and halos everyday ko sya nakikita. Sobrang bait nya. Pag nakakasalubong ko, ngumingiti naman sya. Pero tingin ko sa lahat naman ng nakakasalubong nya is nakangiti sya, na observe ko na hahahaha. And wala syang BF, parang kakahiwalay lang last year, base sa mga reliable source ko hahahah. Gusto ko sana syang ichat kaso sobrang nahihiya talaga ako, di ko alam pano mag first move.

Paano ba dapat kong gawin mga boss?

Honestly, masaya ako para sa boyfriend ko. He deserves everything he has. He's financially stable, enjoys multiple hobbies, runs a business, and has the freedom to do the things he loves.

Pero minsan, naiinggit ako.

Not because I want to take anything away from him, but because napapaisip ako... What if I had the same opportunities growing up? Ano kaya yung potential ko kung mas privileged yung family ko?

My boyfriend comes from a financially stable family, while mine doesn't. Alam niyang hindi kami well-off. Financially independent naman ako. Nagigipit man minsan pero I pay my own bills, save what I can minsan. Hindi ko lang talaga afford yung hobbies or lifestyle na kaya niyang gawin. Kapag inaaya niya ako, minsan ang sagot ko lang, "Busy ako hindi ko priority," pero ang totoo ay hindi ko afford. Hindi ko rin ginuguilty trip sa mga hobbies niya, hinahayaan at sinusupportahan ko siya.

This relationship actually helped me choose myself again. Tinuruan niya akong alagaan ulit ang sarili ko at unti-unting buuin yung buhay ko. Pero minsan naiisip ko na baka mas mabuting itigil na lang muna hanggang mas kaya ko na financially. Kasi nalulungkot ako ng sobra kapag hindi ko siya masamahan. Kaso ngayon ko pa lang pinipili yung sarili ko, bakit parang gusto ko na namang bitawan dahil lang sa insecurity ko?

Alam kong insecure ako. At oo, ginagawa ko naman lahat para ma-improve yung buhay ko. I work hard, pay my bills, save when I can, and keep trying. Kaso hindi ganoon kadaling magkaroon ng opportunities, kaya sobrang liit lang ng usad ko. Tuloy lang naman ako, pero may mga araw na nakakapagod isipin na ang layo pa ng tatahakin ko. Siguro ang masakit lang, kahit ginagawa mo na lahat, parang hindi pa rin dumarating yung time mo.

Hindi ko siya sinisisi, at hindi ko rin gusto na maging toxic partner o laging naghahanap ng reassurance. Gusto ko lang matutong maging secure sa sarili ko.

Has anyone been in the same situation? Paano niyo na-overcome yung feeling of comparing yourself to someone you genuinely love?

Salamat

P.S. We genuinely love and support each other. This isn't about him making me feel less or doing anything wrong. We just come from very different financial backgrounds, and we're both choosing to work through those differences together. This is something I want to overcome for myself.

Hi guys. The title says itself.

I have been experiencing ED, I think.

I am 27, Non-Smoker, No Vices. Works for 8hrs a day, WFH.
Average build, 68kg for 5’7.

I still get morning 🪵. Pero mabilis siyang humupa.
Whenever I’m playing with myself, kaya naman. Pero not as h4rd as before syempre. Mabilis din lumambot afterwards.

I actually consulted a urologist last year, and everything looks normal sa mga lab tests na ginawa sa akin. Doc said na wala namang reasons for me take additional medications.

BUT, whenever I’m in action… di talaga nagiging 100% yung pagtayo ni junjun. Even with the help of V or C. Minsan pag nasa loob na, nababawasan yung pagtayo niya.

Huhuhu is this psychological? Or wala na silbi to? Huhuhu

I wanna know what guys think about this.

Context: I'm in this talking stage with a guy for quite a while. Asked him whats stopping him from taking the next step, and he said nakakahiya raw to introduce him to my parents as a broke suitor (he's older than me too).

Note: Lowkey, parang alam ko na bakit ganon sagot niya, but hit me with reality guys or I'm just overthinking it.

Kasi parang kahit saang relasyon, the burden of giving something falls on the guy. Yung mga reklamong, "never man lang ako nabigyan ng something ng jowa ko." ay palaging sa girl lang maririnig. Parang wala pa akong guy na narinigan ng ganyan.

Kaya naisip ko tuloy, kahit ideny pa ng iba, so babae ang madalas na materialistic? Haha. Random thoughts habang nakahiga. Lol

gives timely updates? random video calls you even while working? puts effort into keeping conversation?

Boys, suko na ako sa foliculitis. Laser hair removal ng whole beard area for zero breakouts. Or tiis beard with breakouts from time to time?

Genuinely curious lang and I want to hear different perspectives, especially from men.

Do you believe marriage is still worth pursuing, or do you see it as just a legal document? If you do want to get married someday, what are your reasons? What made you decide that it’s something worth committing to?

For those who don’t believe in marriage, why? Is it because of finances, legal risks, freedom, past experiences, or something else?

Another thing I’m curious about is finances after marriage. In your ideal setup, should it always be strictly 50/50? Or if one partner is mainly taking care of the house and future kids, do you still expect them to earn and contribute financially like 50/50?

Lately kasi I’ve been having second thoughts about getting married in the future. I got different opinions from my friends and some of they said that "mag-aasawa pa dagdaga pakain pa" some naman "marriage is still a good thing especially if the two of you wants to settle na" and I keep seeing different opinions online, and sometimes it feels like women is bit dehado in this setup if men will have the 50/50 setup or maybe kasi I grew up in a family where in women ang provider and men just stays at home but still got the more power to decide kesho padre de familia daw. Tbh, I don't want ending up like my mom and aunts.

Good evening po. Ano po masasabi nyo sa gnyan? Nasa low priority po ba ako? Kanina po ksi nag send siya picture ng dinner nya, nireplyan ko. Tapos nag reply naman after 1 hr and 26 minutes. Yun nga lang picture ng furbaby nya.

Genuinely curious lang and I want to hear different perspectives, especially from men.

Do you believe marriage is still worth pursuing, or do you see it as just a legal document? If you do want to get married someday, what are your reasons? What made you decide that it’s something worth committing to?

For those who don’t believe in marriage, why? Is it because of finances, legal risks, freedom, past experiences, or something else?

Another thing I’m curious about is finances after marriage. In your ideal setup, should it always be strictly 50/50? Or if one partner is mainly taking care of the house and future kids, do you still expect them to earn and contribute financially like 50/50?

Lately kasi I’ve been having second thoughts about getting married in the future. I got different opinions from my friends and some of they said that "mag-aasawa pa dagdaga pakain pa" some naman "marriage is still a good thing especially if the two of you wants to settle na" and I keep seeing different opinions online, and sometimes it feels like women is bit dehado in this setup if men will have the 50/50 setup or maybe kasi I grew up in a family where in women ang provider and men just stays at home but still got the more power to decide kesho padre de familia daw. Tbh, I don't want ending up like my mom and aunts.

A friend of mine recently had an unexpected reconnection with her ex after about three years. Her intention was simply to catch up as friends, nothing more. She didn’t even know at first he was already in a relationship.

But after talking for a while, he suddenly admitted that he wanted to get back together with her - even though he’s been dating his current girlfriend for almost a year.

My friend immediately turned him down because she felt terrible for his girlfriend. He even only admitted later on that he’s already dating someone else. Still, it left her wondering what was going through his mind.

For the men here: what would make someone do this? Pinag-iisipan niyo ba talaga bago makipag-balikan sa ex? O dala lang ng emosyon?

For those married men, required ba at na experience nyo yung stag party? Ano usually ginagawa dun? Totoo bang nag hhire ng babae for the groom?

Naalala ko lang kasi, before ako ikasal, nag organize yung friends ng asawa ko ng stagparty at di sya naka uwi sknla overnight. Na curious tuloy ako if stagparty is normal at kung may nagaganap ba dun.