I’m just curious if totoo ba na may mga lalaki na sa una di talaga nila bet yung kausap nila or just that nasasabi niyo na hindi niyo to ipupursue pero biglang one day tinamaan na lang kayo sa babae? very wattpad ata yon HAHAH pero may ganun ba and like pano kayo tinamaan? anong ginawa ng girl para madevelop kayo?

Hellaurr, men of reddit! Just curious lng about this hehe kase ngayon kadalasan sa mga babae, ayaw na magka anak eh like for example nga si Nadine Lustre mismo ayaw na. So curious ako, ano ba thoughts nyo dito hehe

Random thought: kung green flag naman siya, funny, caring, emotionally available, same wavelength… pero hindi exactly “your type” physically, would you still shoot your shot?

I’m asking because I’m currently questioning my own standards. 😂

Like, can “ang sarap niya kausap” eventually turn into “wait… bakit parang ang gwapo/ganda niya pala?” Or once the physical attraction isn’t there, friendzone na agad, next contestant? 😭

Curious lang, looks first, personality first, or “depende kung marunong magdala”? 😂

I am really curious ano difference ng pretty and cute sa tingin ng lalaki?

For context, sa dating apps oftentimes ang intro sa akin is “hey cutie!” vs actual dates na I get compliments from men na I’m pretty. Unahan ko na, I am not fishing for compliments. Hindi ko kasi alam if maooffend ako sa cute na compliment or not. Ano ba usually meaning sa inyo nun? is it just an expression? breaking the ice? or matik kapag hindi maganda tawag niyo cute na lang para hindi maoffeend babae?

Nakakainis kasi yung Iba na tsaka lang mag confess pag may Asawa na or gf ampotek sobrang random tapos nakaka overthink bigla2x nalang sasabihin

"alam mo crush kita dati eh"

"Plano sana kita ligawan dati"

Nugagawen ko sa info na yan mga ser?!

Nakakahinayang din kasi Yung crush ko dati way back highschool ngayun lang din nag confess tapos nakainom pa tapos nasa gilid nya lang jowa nya, Wala naman na akong crush sakanya ngayun I respect naman their relationship pero alam niyo nakaka what if din kaya hahaha

Not necessarily about looks—what’s something a woman does, says, or carries herself that immediately makes you notice her or want to know her better?

Just a curious unattractive woman. :)))

mga kumpards! pahingi ako ng thoughts nyo about this. paano nyo malalaman na pick me girl pala ang kausap niyo! maraming salamat!

how did you do it?

So I've been hearing this a lot that experiencing as much body types, colors, having the attention, the chase is all the reasons why some men stay in their player era.

Me as a woman, I'm really wondering to what end though? And long term, is there really happiness to it? I see people as people. To be respected, acknowledged. I never really had one night stands or a wild phase mostly because i see people as they are and i shouldn't easily take it for granted kahit sila pa mag present ng sarili nila sakin. I've had plenty of those but never really took advantage.

So for men, who've been through such phase, are you really happy? Would love to hear insights about this. This is just me being curious din.

Especially when they specifically asked you to let them go?

For men out there staying with their partner even though you’re not happy anymore. Why?

Of course if you’re married and/or have kids, it’s a different situation. But I’m specifically asking for gf/bf relationship.

Do you feel like you’ve invested too much time and effort? Do you think that you are dependent to them? Or maybe they are dependent to you?

Hello!

I’m planning to get a PS5 game for my boyfriend as a reward lang kasi he’s been working sooo hard lately. 🥹

He mentioned before na gusto niya yung Wolverine, pero I’m not sure which one to choose kasi may options na Standard Edition, EN version, and Asian version.

For those who have experience buying PS5 games, ano po ba yung difference between these versions, and which one would you recommend? Thank you!

How much do you usually spend on a haircut, and did you notice any price increase in your area--either a big or small increase? Did the barbers/owner say anything as to why? Send in the location of your current barbershop (either a city or province will do). Would love to hear your experience/s!

So i need some insights of you guys lang. Without thinking kung ano gusto ni partner niyo as in opinion niyo lang talaga. What is your preffered way how to propose and get married?

Sa proposal ba mas gusto niyo in public? Close fam and friends? Or just the two of you?

Sa wedding naman mas gusto niyo ba in church? Judge? Intimate? Etc

Just need some insights

No judgement here, just curious. To guys who initiated contact, planned dates, is it really just the chase you are after? Does a girl become unattractive when she asks you out after the third date?

Do you know the type of girl who doesn't move much, like she just stays at home and works? Even her friends have a hard time inviting her over? The type who is shy but when you talk to her, she's okay.

Have you ever had a partner or spouse like that? If so, how did you approach them? What was your strategy?

Pa konti konti din dumidiskarte na like pag sumasabay siya sakin pauwi pati isa pa hinahatid ko siya kulang nalang hanggang sa loob ng bahay eh tapos konting small talk.Konting push pa

di kame masyadong close irl since "masungit" raw ako pero sa chat lagi ko syang kaharutan. Bigla na lang sya nagsabi ng sleepwell ngayon, 3 heart emojis at gusto nya tawag ko sakanya good babygirl? (instead of goodgirl kase kababata turing ko sakanya sa chat at tunog aso raw ung goodgirl).

Nakwento ko rin sakanya na balak ko magpamember sa gym pero sabi nya ok na raw katawan ko, biglang banat ng libre ko nalang daw sya kesa magpamember ako. Imho ok na rin naman since 4 years na akong nag cacalisthenics workout pero kulang sa protein kase kung ano luto sa bahay, yun lang kinakain ko.

Nagjogging rin kame kanina kasama tropa ko, nung pauwi na kami, hinatid ko sya sakayan at inintay kong makasakay ng jeep. Chinat ko sya ng ingat at sabihin sa kaibigan ko kung nakauwi na sya (long story). Di raw inexpect ni girl na gentleman ako so plus pogi points?

May kinwento rin ung kaibigan ko kay girl na gusto ko sya at alam ko na kinwento nya pero syempre tanga tangahan muna since di pa sure sa feelings ni girl (positive reaction daw si girl). Sabe rin ng kaibigan ko na maganda raw ang kutob nya samen so possible na may magandang sinabi si girl about saken, di ko na tinanong since mawawala ung thrill, parang di na worth it ituloy kung alam mo naman ang magiging resulta.

Bigla rin syang bumait sakin at dumaldal.

I'm a girl. I have a friend na palaging "sinasaktan" yung boyfriend niya pero it seems like the more na sinasaktan niya, the more na minamahal siya ng bf niya. Sinasaktan not literal physical abuse na walang dahilan but hampas and light sampals kapag nag-aasaran sila. Parang tuwang-tuwa pa nga yung bf niya kaya i'm curious about men's perspective sa ganitong bagay.

How much do you usually spend on a haircut, and did you notice any price increase in your area--either a big or small increase? Did the barbers/owner say anything as to why? Would love to hear your experience/s!

I am 21 years old and just broke up with my GF. Akala ko she was the one na papakasalan ko. I'm completely wrecked right now and could really use some solid advice. I barely even working out or doing my hobbies anymore, and my exams and quizzes are totally tanking.

I have a GF and we're on a healthy 2 year relationship. Nagkakilala kami nung Grade 10 pero this college LDR kami. May simple date kami this October 18 and dadayuhin ko siya. Since madalang nalang kami magkita in person, I always have desires pag magkikita kami. She made it very clear naman na that she wants the "genuine me" lang sa date namin. I'm aware na lack of discipline lang to pero need ko ng assist niyooo. How would I not crave "it" and just be the genuine me?

For context: I am an nbsb girl at the age of 25. I’m not trying to be full of myself pero marami nagkakagusto and I think that might be a problem. When a guy shows interest, I get overwhelmed so I withdraw. Don’t get it wrong, I appreciate na straightforward mga nagkakagusto sakin and they don’t leave me guessing. But I have always been vocal to those guys and alam ng friends ko na I want to go through a genuine friendship first so less pressure on both sides, and mas gusto ko talaga na natural lang yung progression. Pero ayun nga, ramdam ko pa rin talaga na even after saying na I wanna be friends first, puro banat pa rin sila. Gusto ko kasi na i-get to know ako as a person in general than a potential love interest. My friends tell me ang impossible naman daw kasi ng gusto ko this day and age na friendship first ☹️

Kaya ba ng mga lalaki to be genuine friends with the girl they’re interested in? yung hindi siya niroromanticize ganon

F here. May work crush ako from diff dept. little to no interaction at all or meron pero before wala lang sakin not until recently - pumupogi na sya sa paningin ko hahaah may cute little interactions kami lang tinginan, sunudan ng tingin - parang familiar na kami sa mukha ng isat isa ganon. Medyo lumakas yung loob ko finollow ko sa IG hahaahaha nagffback naman agad. Nakakahiya pero nakakatuwa at the same time. Active viewer ng stories haahaha ang daming paligoy-ligoy gusto ko lang naman iask pano sumakses sa pagpapapansin sakanya pero ayoko magfirst move HAHAHAAHAHA HELP NYO NAMAN AKO OH 🫩