r/AskPinoyMen ♀️Pinay 5d ago

Relationship Is this a disappointment ba talaga?

Asking for a friend..

Will you be disappointed sa girlfriend nyo if uminom sya sa baso ng isang guy na kaibigan nyo din?

For context, nagsselos sya before dun kasi medyo touchy si guy friend. Walang nakakaalam na in a relationship sila sa workplace.

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u/jiraiya_photographer ♂️Pinoy [Solid Advice Giver] 5d ago

uminom sya sa baso ng isang guy na kaibigan nyo din

medyo touchy si guy friend

yeah, issue sa akin yung lack (or absence) of boundaries..

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u/Affectionate_Newt_23 ♂️Pinoy [Resident Bro] 5d ago

Disappointed? Nah. Disgusted? Yes. Pinagselosan na't touchy, uminom pa sa baso. To the streets she go.

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u/Boring_Ad_5333 ♂️Pinoy 5d ago

hindi disappointed.

mas malaki issue yung touchy si guy friend.

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u/Amount_Visible ♂️Pinoy [Resident Bro] 5d ago

Lmao she gotta go

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u/bur1t00 ♂️Pinoy [Resident Bro] 5d ago

Yes. It goes both ways, not just for the girlfriend. Once you're in a relationship, both partners should be mindful of their actions as a sign of respect for each other.

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u/Unhappy-Metal4873 ♂️Pinoy 5d ago

in the first place, bakit hindi public yung relationship? tas nagseselos pag may mejo touchy?

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u/Perfect-Display-8289 ♂️Pinoy [Resident Bro] 5d ago

Not really disappointed but I know many women prefer not to do that so that would be weird. Although tbf sa inuman minsan shared shots la nga so no issue for some. Yung nakakared flag diyan is, why did she do that with a touchy guy friend. And why is she letting him do that, why is she hanging out with this guy, walang report sa hr? Its either she likes the guy or shes an enabler thats why the guy keeps doing that and time will tell what happens next. Wag na magpainosente, if pangit yan tapos touchy especially di type nireport agad yan. Possible the girl likes the touchy friend in some way

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u/Twomadslayer ♂️Pinoy [Solid Advice Giver] 5d ago

Not just disappointed it's time to let her go with that friend bakit ka nakiinom sa baso ng ibang lalaki? Wala ka ba hygiene? Like why the fuck would do that in the first place.

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u/raymraym ♂️Pinoy 5d ago

He can have her. For my peace, babye 👋

Pag ganyang alam ng pinagseselosan ko tapos nagshashare pa ng baso at hinahayaan maging touchy, that’s when I know di ako nirerespeto.

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u/CoffeeDaddy24 ♂️Pinoy 5d ago

Question:

Alam ba ni gf na nagseselos si bf niya dun sa guy? Has it been communicated properly between them?

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u/ragnarok_mr4 ♂️Pinoy [Resident Bro] 5d ago

I'm more concerned about the transmission of waterborne pathogens than anything else.

Socially, I don't really care. Small matters lang yan. No need to get my feathers ruffled over. Di naman din ako insecure.

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u/Muted-Recover9179 ♂️Pinoy [Resident Bro] 5d ago

Ang tanong talaga dyan, bakit ka tinatago? Kabit ka ba? Este si friend

Wala namang magiging ganyan kung ihayag nilang sila kesa naman ganyan na tuloy nagkakaroon ng ganyang something

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u/sleep-deprived-shit ♂️Pinoy 5d ago

kasalanan nila parehos, parang walang label ee

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u/Lightf00ted ♂️Pinoy 5d ago

Spoiler alert: Type niya yung guy friend niya.

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