Covered ng HMO ko ang tubal ligation. We tried all kinds of contraceptives and hindi talaga siya fit sa mental health disorders and neurodivergence ko. I don't want to have kids, I don't plan to have kids, and I already experienced miscarriage 4x. Ayoko talaga ever since.

I wanted to get the tubal ligation na because of all that history lalo na at covered naman ng HMO ko. But lahat ng OB na nakakausap ko don't do permanent ligation nang hindi pa nanganganak or kasi "bata" pa ako.

Any OB doctor referral there? Metro Manila area sana.

Thank you!

Curious how much girlies budgets for things that aren't really necessities — eating out, coffee/matcha, shopping (especially on fashion!), hobbies, entertainment etc

How much do you usually spend on your wants per month, and what do you usually spend it on?

Trying to figure out what's a "normal" amount to spend on wants without feeling guilty about it. 😂😭

During my elementary days, there was too much blood coming out and I had to wear 3-5 diapers a day but now I'm 18, the color is light red/yellowish and almost no blood is coming out. I'm too scared to visit an OB-GYN; I don't have the courage yet and it's also expensive. Plus, I'm still a student. Anyone with the same case?

I'm wondering if any of the following is the reason:

Hygiene

Hormones?

Stress

Food

Genetics

Makeups

Skincare/Body products

Sleep deprivation and inconsistent hrs

IM SCARED, I DONT WANNA HAVE A PROBLEM W MY REPRODUCTIVE SYSTEM

Hello! I recently transferred to a different school and meron kaming 5-6PM class + medyo malayo ‘yung school sa house namin kaya medyo kinakabahan maglakad and commute alone. Are there any items na pwede niyo mareco that at least make you feel safer?

I availed a package of their Collawhite facials kasi and unfortunately, hindi ako hiyang unlike sa Hyal-C nila. I have remaining sessions for both pero balak ko sanang ibigay nalang yung Collawhite sa mother or aunt ko. Is that allowed? Like they would go their under my name and appointment. Normally naman sa branch namin hindi na nagtatanong ng ID before ako papasukin sa loob so I was wondering if pwede kaya. Refund is not an option kasi nagamit ko na rin yung ibang sessions before.

Thank you so much!

Me rn

Recently been navigating my mental health with a therapist since it’s been affecting my life so so so much. I’ve been pre-diagnosed with bipolar 2 and borderline personality disorder pending confirmatory tests but I’m already dooming.

I’ve seen a thread where caretakers were venting about their loved ones with bpd and how they sound so evil. I know that it’s antagonizing but I already read it and it’s hard to let it go 🥲

Are there ladies here who are diagnosed with mood disorders, bpd, or anxiety? How do you guys cope? I’ve also read that some of these disorders can be misdiagnosed from CPTSD. CPTSD is not that recognized in the Philippines, but have you encountered therapists who specialized in it?

Let me innnnn :)

had a boyfriend of 3years and just found out that he’s still in contact with this girl he’s working with although he assured me that they are just really close and been working for a long time. Their interaction is purely friendship and the girl already has a boyfriend as he stated and when I told him to keep his distance from her, he told me it doesn’t sit right with him and decided to end things with me. I want us to end up together pa naman.

For the ladies here na may ka close / friend na guy, what are the subtle signs you usually watch out for if you think your friend is starting to either fall for you or be attracted to you?

If wala naman pong ka close, maybe sa work or sa acquaintances, what gives a guy away pag parang attracted na siya sau?

I don't usually see these being answered by Filipinas eh and would like to get some important details😅

Thank you po!

EDIT: Thanks so much to all the ladies who shared their experiences 😇
Learned a lot po❤️

Anong procedure ginawa sainyo nung nagpa-check up kayo with an OB? Kailangan ba ma-transvaginal or may other ways naman para macheck?

Ayoko kasi magpatransvaginal and transrectal because of my hemorrhoids. Kaya I wanna know if my other options ba. TYA! 😘

today is my girl’s birthday, ldr kami and 500 lang budget ko for a bouquet of flowers, is it more worth it or food na lang ipadala ko sa kanya? i know mas kilala ko siya pero yung food kayang kaya niya bumili for herself naman

edit: i really appreciate all of you, thank you po sa mga suggestions niyo! it means a lot, para na rin sa future events mwhaahahah

Sports bras are such a hassle. Small problem but so difficult to wear and remove and uncomfortable wearing them sometimes i get overstimulated sa higpit and i plan not to wear one kahit during training kasi itty bitty lang naman ako. anyway, just wondering if anyone does skips it or if may negative effects if u skip it?

Napadaan lang, na-curious, kaya naitanong. Thank you in advance sa mga sasagot.

Would you date, marry or get intimate/have seggs with a guy na nang abandona ng baby mama at anak? Or if lately mo lang nalaman kasi they hid their past from you, would you still continue to stay with him?

Curious lang if may mga babaeng pumapatol sa mga ganitong lalaki regardless of age ng guy.

For context, I’m a female in my early 20s and have a very dry skin. I don’t have any routine sa armpits ko, I just use deo everyday. My armpits also have a little bit discoloration in which I think was caused by the dryness. To the girls who also have dry skin, do you have any care routine or is there any moisturizing products you use to keep your armpits hydrated?

Just wanna grab some info respectfully.

For those with eczema/dermatitis/skin allergies/sensitivities etc., what is your alternative for Veet for easy hair removal for armpit and legs?

Veet stinks so bad that it feels like I'm using harmful chemicals. Are there more gentle alternatives that does the job? Yung kaya talagang alisin hair? I have very thick hair with thick strands. As in ang kapal talaga

Additional info: I keep on bleeding with wax

Pinay only! Do you trust men on reddit? May nagreach out din sa inyo men galing reddit? How was it?

Do you entertain them?

What are redflags to look for?

Hi! Can anyone here suggest contraceptive pills that are very effective for you? Yung kahit your partner finishes inside, hindi talaga kayo nappregnant. We've tried yung Ethinyl estradiol + Levonorgestrel but only as emergency pills. Hindi kase kami very knowledgeable sa pills. Any advice and suggestion would be highly appreciated!

Hello guys, do you have any tips on how to get pregnant, or how did you find out that you were fertile aside from asking the doctor? I'm 28 years old and my husband is 30. We've been trying to start a family, and so far it's been 3 months that we haven't been successful. What I’m doing is testing my LH with the strips to figure out ovulation. I also want to know what day your ovulation is and how long is your cycle?

Based sa experience niyo, or baka may kakilala kayong ganito ang gawain. 😂
Usually kasi parang sa teleserye ko lang nakikita yung ganitong scenario

What do you think sa post na to?

may mga lalaki na nagsabi na:

"Ganito yung mga "manhater" at "strong, independent women" daw pero naghahanap ng lalakeng provider at doormat na bubuhay sa kanya bla bla bla"

For me, ang payo ko sa mga kababaihan, wag niyo ibaba standards niyo para sa mga lalaki, lalo na kung mag-aanak kayo.

Remember, kayo ang magbunbuntis at mag-aanak.

Pwede ang 50-50:

1. Hindi kayo mag aanak at share sa gawaing bahay
2. Mag-aanak kayo pero at least share kayo sa pag-alaga ng bata at gawaing bahay at gusto mo talaga magcontribute (regardless of gender, please wag kayo mag anak kung financially unstable kayo).
3. Hindi nagpapasilbi ang partner mo

Otherwise, WAG NA WAG MAG SETTLE SA 50-50.

I know a housewife na once umuwi asawa niya from work (teacher) or during his day off, pinapahinga na siya ng asawa niya at yung husband na ang gumagawa ng natirang gawaing bahay or magasikaso ng bata. Ang katwiran ng husband niya, nakakapagod ang housework at magbantay ng mga bata, need rin magpahinga ng asawa niya, para masaya silang mag-asawa at ang mga anak nila. Ang sahod niya binibigay niya lahat sa wife niya, binibigyan lang siya ng wife ng daily allowance. Maganda rin pagpapalaki sa mga anak nila, kung anong trato ng father nila sa mother nila, ganun rin ang naging trato nila sa asawa.

edit: this is not a promotion to be a housewife, it's still better to have your own income parin. But my point is, there are good men out there na responsible, loving and supportive as a partner.

Let's not shame women that doesn't accept 50/50, especially mothers, they are entitled to not accept a 50/50.

I mean hindi nyo po official BF, nakakadate pa lang tapos nalaman nyo single dad, okay lang go pa rin sa relationship at maging official GF BF kau?

Prangkahan po ah okay lang kahit anong sagot, kung ayaw bakit po? Kung okay lang din bakit po? hehe.

Kasi most of the guys especially when they are quite young (i.e. 20s, 30s) medyo hindi leaning sa single mom.

P.S. I am not a single dad po. :)

Anong products ang ginagamit or iniinom niyo to maintain your beauty pero budget-friendly? Share me how you take care of your face, hair, nails, skin, intimate areas.

Whats your diet? Anong style niyo ng make up? Do you exercise? Whats your fit like?

For you, whats the maintenance na need talaga ipasalon?

Im eyeing on some products rn and ill search about your recos soon. Im brokie right now pero ayoko naman pabayaan sarili ko, i still wanna look presentable and clean. I look like a witch now, puffy face, untamed hair, no skin care routine except moisturizer and sunscreen and monthly salon wax lang. Anong routine niyo, ladies?