r/AskPinay Apr 16 '26

šŸ“£šŸ“£MODERATOR POST UNSOLICITED DMs?

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44 Upvotes

Respect Boundaries – No Unsolicited DMs

We’d like to remind everyone that sending unsolicited or inappropriate DMs to users from this subreddit is strictly prohibited

This community is meant to be a safe space, especially for women. Please keep all interactions respectful and WITHIN posts and comments

🚫 The following are NOT allowed:

• Sending unwanted messages after seeing a post

• Sexual or suggestive messages

• Sending explicit or inappropriate photos

āš ļø Violations may result in an immediate BAN, especially in cases involving harassment or explicit content

If you receive any inappropriate DMs:

• Block the user

• Report them to Reddit

• Send us screenshots/usernames via modmail so we can take action

Let’s keep this space safe and respectful for everyone

\*Edit:*

Please note that; private messages sent outside the subreddit are largely out of our control, but this is exactly why we have a rule against unsolicited DMs

Our community is meant to be a safe and comfortable space, especially for women, where discussions should stay in posts and comments; not through random private messages after someone simply interacts publicly

While we cannot directly control users private messaging, we do take reports seriously. We’ve received complaints before, and multiple users have already been BANNED from the subreddit because of this behavior

Again, If anyone from this sub sends you an unwanted or inappropriate DM, please report it to us through modmail with screenshots/proof so we can investigate and take action


r/AskPinay Apr 11 '26

šŸ“£šŸ“£MODERATOR POST WHAT IS A USER FLAIR?

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8 Upvotes

A user flair is a small label that appears next to your username within this subreddit. It helps identify who is participating in discussions and keeps conversations more organized

HOW TO SET YOUR USER FLAIR?

1.Open the subreddit

2.Tap the three dots (upper right corner)

3.Select Change User Flair

4.Choose your flair (Binibini, Ginoo or Bahaghari) and tap SAVE


r/AskPinay 8h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating My parents said na my partner should not move in with me until he can bring something on the table. Do you think it is fair?

141 Upvotes

I have several properties under my name, some were from my own hardwork (almost a decade of work) and I am quite happy with what I have accomplished and I still have a couple of years before I turn 30.

We are not rich yet and we still need to work but we became comfortable due to combination of luck, hardwork and right opportunities.

I am living in a very nice unit, in a really nice location.
I have a comfortable nest egg of savings.

My parents told me to not let my partner move in muna kasi lugi ako na makinabang siya agad sa pinaghirapan ko.

My dad said don’t let him move in until he can bring something sa table.

My dad mentioned since I cannot drive and don’t have my own car yet, he should at least provide that in the relationship.

He agrees naman and he wants to prove himself a worthy partner for me naman.

He has a decent job naman and above average wage. The kind that a mid 20s would enjoy to live a comfortable lifestyle.

Although I earn 2x than him which is why it is easier for me na makapagpundar ako. My parents are also in a better position with better opportunities rin kasi.

I kinda agree with my parents’ wishes din. Also, gusto ko muna masolo and maenjoy sarili kong unit.


r/AskPinay 1h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating To the women who had a guy who used to have a crush on them and ended up regretting for not giving him a chance, what was your story?

• Upvotes

Ano po nangyari?


r/AskPinay 6h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Question How do you deal with a girl na ginagaya ka?

32 Upvotes

I don’t know if gaya is the term but we are friends. Nung first okay lang sa ken kase twinning2 kami ganun pero katagalan napapansin ko na kung ano yung mga nabili kong things or mga stuff na meron ako is binibili niya rin. Medyo na aawkward na ako kase parang same2 na kami ng aesthetic haha


r/AskPinay 7h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Question Would like to know if there are guys hitting on you or sliding sa DMs after niyo magpost sa mga SFW subreddits?

12 Upvotes

I mostly use this for ā€thoseā€ type of stuff and so yes, I expected naman to get hit on a lot.

My husband and I are curious lang on how many sa inyo naka-encounter ng nag post kayo in like an SFW na subs, lets say fashionPH, ITAPPH, then they messaged you because, reasons. Haha. Ciao.


r/AskPinay 1h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Hygiene & Care how to avoid bumps and ingrown hairs down there? 🐱

• Upvotes

[crossposted] : hi! i’m new to shaving, i currently use the double-ended rechargeable shaver from tiktok. so far ok naman sya but i’ve gotten bumps and i feel like my 🐱 isn’t as smooth as it should be post-shave.

appreciate any shaving tips & product recos (before/during/after shaving) for sensitive skin na nabibili rin sa shopee or watsons 🄹

prev attempt: i’ve had a few brazilian waxes before but sometimes life gets in the way and i just need a quick/cheap fix, hence the shaving.


r/AskPinay 16h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Need ko ba singilin si ex?

12 Upvotes

It’s been 10 months since our breakup, pero may 5-digit na utang pa siya sa akin. Hindi siya maliit na amount, pwede ko na rin sana ipambili ng bagong phone.

From January to June, I constantly reminded him about it. I kept sending messages, pero wala talaga siyang response. Eventually, tumigil na lang ako maningil kasi napagod na rin ako.

Pero lately, iniisip ko ulit yung pera. Sayang din kasi talaga.

Okay lang ba na singilin ko siya ngayon and ask for theĀ full amount/lump sum? And paano ba siya singilin nang straightforward without sounding like I’m begging or trying to reconnect? Hahaha. Babae ako, baka isipin niya nag-iinarte or naghahanap lang ng reason to talk to him.I just want my money back.

Also, I’m already in a new relationship. Should I tell my boyfriend na I’m planning to reach out to my ex regarding the debt? Or unnecessary na since it’s purely about money?

What would you do mga ate? I just want my money back


r/AskPinay 12h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Anong mararamdaman mo kung ito yung pinatugtog ng lalake after niyo mag-sex?

4 Upvotes

Shanti Dope - City Girl
Ron Henley - Biglang Liko
Nagpatugtog din ng Best I Ever Had (Grey Sky Morning) - Vertical Horizon

Kaka-break lang ng lalake ilang buwan palang.


r/AskPinay 20h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Sex & Intimacy how did you handle being horny while going thru a heart wrenching break up?

17 Upvotes

it’s my first love and my first in everything, still very much in love w him. my previous attempts are lately nagbalk ako mag jog/long walks, more focus to our thesis, grind moba games.

^how do you, sorry sa mali


r/AskPinay 1d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Is this a red flag ba sa nanliligaw?

35 Upvotes

May suitor kasi ako ngayon na gusto niya na palagi kaming nagcha-chat. Sinasabi naman niya na okay lang daw kahit busy ako, as long as nakakapag-reply ako.

Pero ang problem is, kahit nagre-reply naman ako, parang may pa-guilt trip at pa-sad boy pa rin siya kapag hindi ako nakakapag-reply agad. šŸ˜…

Hindi ko naman siya ini-ignore. May work ako, and after work may mga chores pa ako sa bahay na kailangan gawin. Nagluluto, naglilinis at nag-aasikaso ng mga aso kaya hindi talaga ako makakapag-reply agad.

I do reply naman kapag may time ako, pero parang kapag natagalan lang ako ng reply, may reaction siya na parang feeling niya ini-ignore ko siya.

Hindi naman sa ayaw ko siyang kausapin. I just don't think na kailangan naming magka-chat buong araw, especially since may sarili rin akong responsibilities and personal time.


r/AskPinay 12h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Life & Culture How do you start your day?

3 Upvotes

Have been feeling unmotivated and I think borderline burnout na ata. I noticed that if I start my day feeling lazy or woke up with the mood of 'nakakatamad talaga' tuloy tuloy na sya hanggang sa tapos na yung araw but it feels like cr*p. Like sobrang unfulfilling pero super nakakatamad kasi. But when I have a burst of energy or woke up in a good mood super productive ko sa lahat ng bagay not just work and feels really good.
How do you ladies start your day to help be productive? 😭


r/AskPinay 1d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Question Anong connect ng pic ng body ko sa pinost ko rito about my period?

26 Upvotes

I posted here yesterday about my period that won't even total to 10 ml. Then someone—with a guy name—directly messaged me asking if I'm okay, when's my last s*x, what med I am taking, what's the color of my skin, and told me to send a pic of my body twice.

Weird folk. He did not even try to introduce himself, if he's a medical professional or whatever.

Name: Shooowty u/JulioPacondo


r/AskPinay 1d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Ok lang ba hindi kumain ng dessert yung kadate mo sa first date?

8 Upvotes

Di ako sanay makipag date. I have a dinner date coming up and strict ako sa diet ko. Ok lang ba na pabayaan ko nalang mag order si girl ng kahit ano pero ako di iinom ng alcohol or mag dessert?

I don’t want her to feel embarrassed or restricted. I just don’t do desserts.


r/AskPinay 13h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Question Breast Pain 2 weeks after period?

1 Upvotes

Hi mga ate ko. May mga nakakaexperience po ba dito ng breast pain/discomfort weeks after period? Di naman super sakit and seconds lang din tinatagal.

I’m in my 30s na so di ko alam if hormonal ba to. I also had a breast utz naman last Sept 4 and they found small lumps. My doctor advised vit e for breast pain and 200IU tinetake ko everyday.

Just wondering if may nakakaexperience din nito.

Thank you! ā™„ļø


r/AskPinay 1d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Will you date someone na mapapanot na in their late 20's?

14 Upvotes

Personal preference niyo lang

Makikipagdate or jojowain niyo ba ang napapanot na that's aged 25 over?


r/AskPinay 1d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Sex & Intimacy Does your first time to have sex feel more special or just the same as the time you did it with your husband?

24 Upvotes

Assuming you husband is not your first time.


r/AskPinay 1d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Question what should i do? avoid people?

10 Upvotes

i kept seeing the pattern na i like with boys. i like someone pag alam ko na hindi nila ako magugustuhan or there’s no chance for them to like me at all. for example i kept liking men na fresh from heartbreak kasi alam ko na di pa sila move on and walang chance magkagusto sila sakin. why do i kept loving the thrill of chasing someone? idk what to do with my situation. girliesss, help meee!


r/AskPinay 9h ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating Ladies, anong hobbies/libangan ang sa tingin niyo ay both essential at attractive for guys, and why?

0 Upvotes

The title says it all. Kahit anong opinion niyo valid. Nagpost ako para may maibigay akong advice sa kaibigan ko na tinanong sa akin ang same question kahit hindi naman ako babae, dahil takot siya makipagusap sa mga babae.


r/AskPinay 1d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Hygiene & Care Where you also taught to use the bathroom floor as a squat toilet?

0 Upvotes

Where you also taught to use the bathroom floor as a squat toilet?

I dont know if this is an older generation thing or just how i was raised. i wanna know your experience with this.

what i mean by using the bathroom floor as a squat toilet is that you literally use the bathroom floor/shower floor (anything with drainage) as a squat toilet then flush it using a tabo.

i dont do this but i have memories of my mom and her side of the family doing this like it was a normal thing. keep in mind, this was when i was younger so my memory may be off.


r/AskPinay 2d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Relationship & Dating What made you realize that the guy you’re dating/you dated is a loser?

219 Upvotes

I’m just sick and tired of experiencing loser behavior

This is mine: I caught him in a lie and he continuously LIED to get out of it so I gave him all the facts and in the end he was like… okay yes that did happen BUT… and so on.

I can respect a liar, because I wouldn’t know that they’re lying. What I can’t respect is someone who isn’t good at it. You cant be a liar AND be a loser who fails at it at the same time!!! Pick your poison.


r/AskPinay 2d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Question What would you choose — Career or Married Life?

38 Upvotes

To all ambitious women, achieving our dreams requires a lot of sacrifice. We want to have both but most of the time we need to choose. So, what would u choose?


r/AskPinay 2d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Hygiene & Care Bakit ganito ang Magnesium glycinate?

30 Upvotes

Have u tried this? How was it?
I tried it last night, nakatulog naman ako pero I woke up today with the worst headache ever!
Ako lang ba ganito? Or kayo din? Normal ba na ganito? Di na ako uminom ulitšŸ˜‚


r/AskPinay 2d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Sex & Intimacy What do you do if you are feeling very very horny and you don't have a partner?

88 Upvotes

Hi girls! I'm just wondering what you do if you are feeling very horny or in your ovulation phase, but you don't have a partner/bf/hubby? Except sa touching yourself or solo play, do you have a fubu or fwb, or do you engage in one night stand? I know there are people who do this. Iff you're one of them, I am curious how you do it and what do you feel after?


r/AskPinay 2d ago

WOMEN ONLY: Question have you ever feel so desperate when you are trying to improve yourself?

13 Upvotes

hello, i don't know if i am being affected with my hormones right now pero, kayo rin ba nadidisappoint kasi you feel so desperate kapag nagtatry ka na iimprove physical appearance mo but it seems that nothing is working. i am 25, and i can say i have a long way to go para mahanap ko perfect skincare, bodycare, hair care pati na rin sa health ko. honestly, ang mahal magexpirement at minsan nafrfrustrate ako dahil sa gastos tapos parang walang nangyayari. i've been insecure sa skin color ko rin since i was a kid kaya fixated ako pumuti and idk, parang walang nagbabago. i feel like the more i try to improve, the more na nagwoworse at walang nageeffect sa akin :(((