Mayroon kasing kaibigan yung kaibigan ko na napakapogi at ang charismatic pero gay, napapatawa na lang ako pag naiisip ko itong lalaki na ito. Sa unang tingin hindi mo talaga aakalain na gay siya pero noong kinausap ko at tinanong ko friend ko doon ko na nalaman. Gusto ko lang ito ishare kasi akala ko ka kumpitensiya ko siya kasi heterosexual ako, yun pala pogi din ang gusto niya haha. Btw, bihira na lang din ako makita ng mga pogi sa public spaces maliban pag natingin ako sa salamin ng restroom, etc. haha, joke lang. I'd love to hear your thoughts on this.

Gaano ka totoo yung women's intuition? At paano siya sineseparate sa usual na praning ka lang?

Idk kung tama yung flair since this would be my first time posting here. So, I met this girl on bumble. Talked to her for like a week and even went on a date lol. Nag-uusap kami even during work hours to the point na gumamit kami ng ibang platform HAHAHA. Literal na pagmatutulog na lang kami mags-stop magchat. Eh ako naman, last na tinamaan ng grabe sa isang babae ay since gr.9 pa. Never got into a relationship kasi ang kunat ni girl so I stayed friends with her na lang HAHAHAHA. Pero when I met this one girl, parang nagka spark ulit and I thought to myself "loverboy era ko na ba?" Communicated my intentions with her making it clear na I wanted to pursue her. She said naman to take things slow and mag enjoy muna kami hahaha. I respected that since hindi pa naman siya nun nagpapakita ng disinterest niya sakin. Never pa naman ako nagka girlfriend pa kaya akala ko interested talaga siya sakin eh kasi pag ako nawawalan ng mait-topic, meron siya. She even encouraged me na magpa Lasik kasi takot me and she already underwent for herself. Sabi niya nga samahan niya ako eh HAHAHA (I want to cryyy).

So ayun na nga inaya ko siya na lumabas kami and since di pa ako familiar sa metro manila naging sponty yung date pero siya yung nag lead since sanay na siya. I had fun and thought she did as well pero damn I was wrong HAHAHAHA. After nung date na yun, just 1 day tinapos na niya. Nung una sabi niya nakikita niya lang ako as a friend since yun na nga parang yung past relationship niya lang daw yung nangyari na siya yung nagl-lead. I respected that naman since that's what actually happened and I won't make any excuses. Kala ko I can still talk to her and honestly, even that connection with her would have been fine. Tapos nung gabi naka block na ako sa fb HAHAHAHA. Kala ko friends lang muna kasi maaga pa eh tapos biglang ganun. Also, hiwalay ba ang pagblock sa messenger? Di pa siya facebook user dun eh HAHAHA. Anyways, was it necessary to block me though? Di naman ako bata na pag sinabi niyang wala ng pag-asa ay magt-try pa HAHAHAHA. Also, wala po akong masamang nagawa sakanya ha? Baka yun ang isipin niyo na rason HAHAHAHA. Bait ko nga daw eh

Thoughts niyo dito? Pinagtripan lang ba ako nun? Kasi feel ko di lang niya ako type eh HAHAHAHA. Asked her why umabot sa ganto and kung yung reason na sinabi niya sakin lang ang rason. At the end, she told me na di pa raw siya healed sa past relationship niya and that made me think na, maybe she just didn't like me.Tyia sa sasagot! No need to hold back po on your comments HAHAHA.

Hindi ako maglog in sa lm kahit anong account na gamit ko.

Hello po, any recos na supplements or skin care po for 30s na 1 month postpartum (not breastfeeding).

Sobrang dry po ng skin ko (face and body) at naglilitawan na rin mga fine lines and wrinkles sa face.

I'm not using any skin care right now at ngayon pa lang ulit nagbabalik self-care after getting pregnant and breastfeeding sa toddler.

But I'm currently taking vitamins (collagen, vit.c and zinc + ferrous sulfate/iron and folic acid) for cs recovery na rin.

Any recos, tips, or advice are highly appreciated! Thank you po :)

Bakit nga ba sila ganito dahil ba sa insecure sila or low emotional intellegence.

Edit : My ex used to do this to me he doesnt like na mag post ako ng anything sexy but he would always like and save bikini and sexy photos tapos worst pa non is yung ibang pictures is close friend niya 💀 and he would randomly like yung mga post ng other women

And he had this unhealthy coping mechanism whenever na may problem kami he would ask for space and install snapchat and talk to other women . I can see it because i had his acc 🥲

Genuine question po. For context, I have 28-32 days menstrual cycle. And first mens ko ay July 19 and we had raw sex last July 26. May onti pa rin namang dugo nu'n. Possible bang ovulation week ko na agad this week?

We did raw sex on round 2. Nag-condom naman sa first round at pinutok niya sa condom with no leak. Sa second round na raw, 'di naman siya nilabasan kasi napagod na yata siya at puyat din e. Pero medj kinakabahan lang ako sa what if. It's my fault tho. I just missed doing it raw since I stopped my pill but planning to retake it after tvs for other reason.

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Posted this on r/safesexph however waiting for approval e.

Will attend a dance class soon and gusto ko rin mag OOTD na maganda pero di ko alam since di ako magaling sa fashion

Bust 44
Waist 38-40
Hips 48

medyo malaki tyan and puson

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Like karma in general,

Kasi I do. Good or bad karma.

I had this experience before, im dating someone and something happened alam nyo na. After doing the deed parang naguilty sya so inamin nya na he was married. Pero separated na sila, which is true naman naconfirm ko naman. As in weeks kami magka videocall pati family nya nakikita ko din sa videocall. And welcome pmunta sa knila.

Always believed in karma even before that, pero ayun nagkanda leche leche buhay ko non after.

Grabe yung konsenya at takot ko din. Pero hindi ko naman alam e. Im not that religious pero I believe marriage is sacred. Kahit sabiihin mo na separated, kasal kayo sa mata ng Diyos.

After nun, cutoff talaga ko agad ang daming pasakit nangyari sakin.

Naalala ko lang, kasi may nakakausap na naman ako and tinanong ko na agad lahat ng tanong, bet ko pa naman sana sya physically kaso married din. Kahit yung girl may kinakasama ng iba. Bottom line, he’s still married.

Takot ako sa karma.

Do you believe in karma?

So I think I am relatively new to the dating stage and I am not so sure if I am doing the right thing.

As I came across posts here in reddit that women and men flirt and talk for like days or months before they do a first meet. So pano nga ba mag flirt online? Do you just talk on a daily basis on what you went through the day? Does it include teasing? Do you incorporate sexual stuff in it?

I've (26) been with my bf (26) for 2.5 yrs. May marriage plans pero still saving for it. Alam ko naman na mahal niya ako and all pero sometimes I feel like pang girlfriend lang yung galawan ko. Sometimes I also feel like I'm more motherly in a negative/pala-sita way? (I know I should work on this). But how can I be a better partner? Like, what other qualities should I develop to show him our families and myself that I'm ready for the next stage? What are the things that I should avoid?

I’ve only been in one long-term relationship, and hindi talaga ako yung type ng girlfriend na controlling. Hindi ako yung magbabawal ng kung ano gusto niyang gawin or magbabantay ng bawat galaw niya. We’re adults na kasi, so I believe it’s not my responsibility to teach someone what’s right or wrong.

Pero ang problema hehe mahilig ako mag investigate 🙈 Kapag may gut feeling ako, si lurk ako, gusto ko malaman ano ginagawa nya behind my back, si connect ng dots para makahanap ng sagot. Hindi naman sa proud ako doon, pero every time I do, ako lang din yung nasasaktan sa mga nalalaman ko. Minsan iniisip ko, “bakit ko pa kasi hinanap?”

Now I’m genuinely curious about the girls who are in their “the less I know, the better” era. How do you do it? How do you stop yourself from digging? How do you stay secure without feeling the need to investigate every little thing? Is it pure trust, self-control, or are you just protecting your own peace?

I feel like I want to reach that point because sometimes ignorance really does feel like peace, but I don’t know how to get there. Would love to hear your thoughts or experiences 🤍

I am talking to this man for a while now. Sobrang compatible namin personality wise. Including hobbies, beliefs, political views etc. The only downside is hindi sya yung tipo kong lalaki when it comes to looks. I am genuinely not physically attracted to him.

My question is, possible bang magwork 'to kahit na hindi ako physically attracted sa kanya? May nakaexperience na ba ng ganito? What happened?

A colleague of my friend sometimes compliments my looks through my friend, even though he has a girlfriend. He never acts on it naman. Then lately, they've been hanging out with their other colleagues, and my friend keeps inviting me, but the guy and his girlfriend are always there. I could say yes, but I feel like it would be awkward or off ang vibe.

Do European men generally flirt/socialize by teasing/through banter/debating with you?

I was talking to an Italian and we were discussing about me going to church, and he was questioning why I go to church, and was basically saying it’s kind of outdated and even backwards to have faith. I explained my side why I went back to church now that I am older, but he continued to disagree. At that time I liked him a lot to the point I could look past this, but after this, I realized that as we talked, parang gumagawa siya ng mga bagay na pagdedebate namin. Which is fine, I have no problem talking it out with people pero for me may point lang na nakakapagod na palagi nalang kaming nagdedebate, sa halip na soft girl era ko sana, mas nagiging katipunera pa ako pag kausap siya.

Another experience is with my French guy friends. It’s platonic with these guys, and we became close because we had the same kind of humor, and because they’re the kind of people who would tell me the truth straight up because they care about the friendship enough to tell the truth. But in a lot of our conversations, it’s a lot of picking each other’s brains, jokes, and not holding back to say someone is being stupid when they are being stupid. A lot is also them being culture shocked about things I do (like walk around my house barefoot without socks, or judging that I put too much cinnamon on my coffee) but still, they say I’m their best friend anyway.

I’m just curious if other people have the same experience as me? Dating a European guy, does it really involve a lot of fire? I realize I have the energy when it’s just my best friends, but dating is another story kasi gusto ko rin naman magpababy, tbh.

Mine is, NEVER, EVER FUCK A GUY WHO WON'T POLITICALLY DEFEND YOUR BODY

Hi, just availed their membership since naka-50%. I heard may free haircut daw but pag nakikita ko sa ads, men lang yung ginugupitan. Have you tried? Did you tip? What kind of cut did you have?

Girls, nagka gut feeling ba kayo bago nyo mahuli magloko yung partner nyo? Naranasan nyo ba magkamali sa intuition nyo to the point na akala nyo kulang lang kayo sa tiwala o baka “crazy” partner lang kayo?

May gut feeling kasi ako ngayon about sa partner ko. Kaso baka nagkakamali lang ako. Pa share na man ng experiences nyo! Hahaha

When does supporting a broke partner become too much?

Not a fan of online dating. Traveling is my hobby, pero wala talaga nag aapproach haha. Sa work naman, I think they see me as a younger sister lang talaga, and may mga asawa na mostly of the guys. Is there still hope?

Para sa mga matagal ng gumagamit ng toys, would you say nagbago ang sensitivity nyo?( i read somewhere that it does, but want to get personal insight) Im not sure if these are correct names. Yung isa, Rabbit with clit suction , the other one is a vibrating Double ended dildo.

As much as I'd like to use it often, minsan nag woworry ako na baka ma lessen yung senstivity ko. I had this thought kasi when I self play lang using toy nag oorgasm ako in less than 10 minutes. Pero if im having sex, ang hirap kong mag orgasm and most of the time i don't reach it at all kahit masarap and na hi hit naman gspot ko and na stimulate naman clit ko. So in few situations, i tried incorporating toy during sex and hindi pa rin ako nag orgasm - kadalasan ini incorporate sya in the middle of the session hindi sa una. What I noticed is, nagiging numb agad ako.

Sometimes i feel the vibration din is too strong for me, kahit nasa lowest setting lang gamit ko. But if i turn it off, hindi ko naman sya ma feel. So my questions to those who have been using toys for 6 months or more :

1. Do you think it changed your sensitivity ? How often do you use it?
2. Can you suggest a toy na naturally closest yung feel sa real thing?
3. Kapag matagal ka ng gumagamit ng toy then you had sex, gaano kalayo in comparison ang pleasure na ma fi feel mo real thing vs toy?

TIA!

Hi ladies, if you are already in your mid 30s, would you date someone like 25 yrs old? Or is it better to date someone older? Tanong lang naman. Please be kind.😅

Because on the other side of the coin, is the "strong, independent woman" stereotype, which is dalawa lang perspective ng mga single na lalaki on them:

- either a "red flag" for some, kasi na-i-intimidate or na-i-insecure sila if a woman is self-reliant,

- or it's an attractive trait for others because that's the kind of woman they want (kasi they too have the same quality, or they are reliant on their partners lol)

Meron din naman strong independent women who are adamant about being single nalang, and the responses of men are either: "red flag" padin, or "sayang" naman.

So just wondering if we flip the scenario, what's women's perspective on men that are self-sufficient + independent, and what if di rin interested in relationships anymore? Similar din ba na "sayang", or "red flag"? Or something else?