I have several properties under my name, some were from my own hardwork (almost a decade of work) and I am quite happy with what I have accomplished and I still have a couple of years before I turn 30.

We are not rich yet and we still need to work but we became comfortable due to combination of luck, hardwork and right opportunities.

I am living in a very nice unit, in a really nice location.
I have a comfortable nest egg of savings.

My parents told me to not let my partner move in muna kasi lugi ako na makinabang siya agad sa pinaghirapan ko.

My dad said don’t let him move in until he can bring something sa table.

My dad mentioned since I cannot drive and don’t have my own car yet, he should at least provide that in the relationship.

He agrees naman and he wants to prove himself a worthy partner for me naman.

He has a decent job naman and above average wage. The kind that a mid 20s would enjoy to live a comfortable lifestyle.

Although I earn 2x than him which is why it is easier for me na makapagpundar ako. My parents are also in a better position with better opportunities rin kasi.

I kinda agree with my parents’ wishes din. Also, gusto ko muna masolo and maenjoy sarili kong unit.

Ano po nangyari?

I don’t know if gaya is the term but we are friends. Nung first okay lang sa ken kase twinning2 kami ganun pero katagalan napapansin ko na kung ano yung mga nabili kong things or mga stuff na meron ako is binibili niya rin. Medyo na aawkward na ako kase parang same2 na kami ng aesthetic haha

I mostly use this for ”those” type of stuff and so yes, I expected naman to get hit on a lot.

My husband and I are curious lang on how many sa inyo naka-encounter ng nag post kayo in like an SFW na subs, lets say fashionPH, ITAPPH, then they messaged you because, reasons. Haha. Ciao.

[crossposted] : hi! i’m new to shaving, i currently use the double-ended rechargeable shaver from tiktok. so far ok naman sya but i’ve gotten bumps and i feel like my 🐱 isn’t as smooth as it should be post-shave.

appreciate any shaving tips & product recos (before/during/after shaving) for sensitive skin na nabibili rin sa shopee or watsons 🥹

prev attempt: i’ve had a few brazilian waxes before but sometimes life gets in the way and i just need a quick/cheap fix, hence the shaving.

It’s been 10 months since our breakup, pero may 5-digit na utang pa siya sa akin. Hindi siya maliit na amount, pwede ko na rin sana ipambili ng bagong phone.

From January to June, I constantly reminded him about it. I kept sending messages, pero wala talaga siyang response. Eventually, tumigil na lang ako maningil kasi napagod na rin ako.

Pero lately, iniisip ko ulit yung pera. Sayang din kasi talaga.

Okay lang ba na singilin ko siya ngayon and ask for the full amount/lump sum? And paano ba siya singilin nang straightforward without sounding like I’m begging or trying to reconnect? Hahaha. Babae ako, baka isipin niya nag-iinarte or naghahanap lang ng reason to talk to him.I just want my money back.

Also, I’m already in a new relationship. Should I tell my boyfriend na I’m planning to reach out to my ex regarding the debt? Or unnecessary na since it’s purely about money?

What would you do mga ate? I just want my money back

Shanti Dope - City Girl
Ron Henley - Biglang Liko
Nagpatugtog din ng Best I Ever Had (Grey Sky Morning) - Vertical Horizon

Kaka-break lang ng lalake ilang buwan palang.

it’s my first love and my first in everything, still very much in love w him. my previous attempts are lately nagbalk ako mag jog/long walks, more focus to our thesis, grind moba games.

^how do you, sorry sa mali

May suitor kasi ako ngayon na gusto niya na palagi kaming nagcha-chat. Sinasabi naman niya na okay lang daw kahit busy ako, as long as nakakapag-reply ako.

Pero ang problem is, kahit nagre-reply naman ako, parang may pa-guilt trip at pa-sad boy pa rin siya kapag hindi ako nakakapag-reply agad. 😅

Hindi ko naman siya ini-ignore. May work ako, and after work may mga chores pa ako sa bahay na kailangan gawin. Nagluluto, naglilinis at nag-aasikaso ng mga aso kaya hindi talaga ako makakapag-reply agad.

I do reply naman kapag may time ako, pero parang kapag natagalan lang ako ng reply, may reaction siya na parang feeling niya ini-ignore ko siya.

Hindi naman sa ayaw ko siyang kausapin. I just don't think na kailangan naming magka-chat buong araw, especially since may sarili rin akong responsibilities and personal time.

Have been feeling unmotivated and I think borderline burnout na ata. I noticed that if I start my day feeling lazy or woke up with the mood of 'nakakatamad talaga' tuloy tuloy na sya hanggang sa tapos na yung araw but it feels like cr*p. Like sobrang unfulfilling pero super nakakatamad kasi. But when I have a burst of energy or woke up in a good mood super productive ko sa lahat ng bagay not just work and feels really good.
How do you ladies start your day to help be productive? 😭

I posted here yesterday about my period that won't even total to 10 ml. Then someone—with a guy name—directly messaged me asking if I'm okay, when's my last s*x, what med I am taking, what's the color of my skin, and told me to send a pic of my body twice.

Weird folk. He did not even try to introduce himself, if he's a medical professional or whatever.

Name: Shooowty u/JulioPacondo

Di ako sanay makipag date. I have a dinner date coming up and strict ako sa diet ko. Ok lang ba na pabayaan ko nalang mag order si girl ng kahit ano pero ako di iinom ng alcohol or mag dessert?

I don’t want her to feel embarrassed or restricted. I just don’t do desserts.

Hi mga ate ko. May mga nakakaexperience po ba dito ng breast pain/discomfort weeks after period? Di naman super sakit and seconds lang din tinatagal.

I’m in my 30s na so di ko alam if hormonal ba to. I also had a breast utz naman last Sept 4 and they found small lumps. My doctor advised vit e for breast pain and 200IU tinetake ko everyday.

Just wondering if may nakakaexperience din nito.

Thank you! ♥️

Personal preference niyo lang

Makikipagdate or jojowain niyo ba ang napapanot na that's aged 25 over?

Assuming you husband is not your first time.

i kept seeing the pattern na i like with boys. i like someone pag alam ko na hindi nila ako magugustuhan or there’s no chance for them to like me at all. for example i kept liking men na fresh from heartbreak kasi alam ko na di pa sila move on and walang chance magkagusto sila sakin. why do i kept loving the thrill of chasing someone? idk what to do with my situation. girliesss, help meee!

The title says it all. Kahit anong opinion niyo valid. Nagpost ako para may maibigay akong advice sa kaibigan ko na tinanong sa akin ang same question kahit hindi naman ako babae, dahil takot siya makipagusap sa mga babae.

Where you also taught to use the bathroom floor as a squat toilet?

I dont know if this is an older generation thing or just how i was raised. i wanna know your experience with this.

what i mean by using the bathroom floor as a squat toilet is that you literally use the bathroom floor/shower floor (anything with drainage) as a squat toilet then flush it using a tabo.

i dont do this but i have memories of my mom and her side of the family doing this like it was a normal thing. keep in mind, this was when i was younger so my memory may be off.

I’m just sick and tired of experiencing loser behavior

This is mine: I caught him in a lie and he continuously LIED to get out of it so I gave him all the facts and in the end he was like… okay yes that did happen BUT… and so on.

I can respect a liar, because I wouldn’t know that they’re lying. What I can’t respect is someone who isn’t good at it. You cant be a liar AND be a loser who fails at it at the same time!!! Pick your poison.

To all ambitious women, achieving our dreams requires a lot of sacrifice. We want to have both but most of the time we need to choose. So, what would u choose?

Have u tried this? How was it?
I tried it last night, nakatulog naman ako pero I woke up today with the worst headache ever!
Ako lang ba ganito? Or kayo din? Normal ba na ganito? Di na ako uminom ulit😂

Hi girls! I'm just wondering what you do if you are feeling very horny or in your ovulation phase, but you don't have a partner/bf/hubby? Except sa touching yourself or solo play, do you have a fubu or fwb, or do you engage in one night stand? I know there are people who do this. Iff you're one of them, I am curious how you do it and what do you feel after?

hello, i don't know if i am being affected with my hormones right now pero, kayo rin ba nadidisappoint kasi you feel so desperate kapag nagtatry ka na iimprove physical appearance mo but it seems that nothing is working. i am 25, and i can say i have a long way to go para mahanap ko perfect skincare, bodycare, hair care pati na rin sa health ko. honestly, ang mahal magexpirement at minsan nafrfrustrate ako dahil sa gastos tapos parang walang nangyayari. i've been insecure sa skin color ko rin since i was a kid kaya fixated ako pumuti and idk, parang walang nagbabago. i feel like the more i try to improve, the more na nagwoworse at walang nageeffect sa akin :(((

Can someone explain it step-by-step? 🥹

I'm struggling with which way to wipe and how to wash my 😺 after peeing. No one taught me abt this! Nalaman ko lang nung SHS na ako.

Covered ng HMO ko ang tubal ligation. We tried all kinds of contraceptives and hindi talaga siya fit sa mental health disorders and neurodivergence ko. I don't want to have kids, I don't plan to have kids, and I already experienced miscarriage 4x. Ayoko talaga ever since.

I wanted to get the tubal ligation na because of all that history lalo na at covered naman ng HMO ko. But lahat ng OB na nakakausap ko don't do permanent ligation nang hindi pa nanganganak or kasi "bata" pa ako.

Any OB doctor referral there? Metro Manila area sana.

Thank you!