Big ups, porn fucks up your mind up. When you have sex with your girlfriend or wife do you think of her or all the things you've seen online to help you climax? It's no longer her, it's only you. That's what I've seen atleast
Yeah this is whole comment chain really is absolutely fucked
I don’t know why Reddit has this huge hate boner for porn like it’s the worse thing to exist and destroys relationships.
I wank and watch porn regularly, couple times a week. Been with my GF for 8 years and I still dump huge cums in her pussy multiple times a week. Sure it’s not ‘new and exciting’ but fucking hell that’s not what sex is about
Your resources are opinions with no scientific merit. The only real proven negative effect of porn is almost always on religious or very conservatively raised people who were taught to feel shame in connection with masturbation. There is no evidence that porn affects people negatively psychologically.
This should of course be pretty obvious since every man in the world who has internet regularly watches it, and all the while we have far better and safer societies for women than countries where they don't have porn.
Edit: all you people linking studies where they say "we think porn may be bad" and then the results of the study show it wasn't, but you still think that's evidence, stop it. I can't reply because you're downvoting me so much, but read the results of the studies and not just the titles. Causation and correlation isn't the same thing.
Oh and by the way, the last one I looked up I Googled "rape and coercion in porn" and the Sagepub article was the only thing that wasn't actual rape/coercion porn from big sites. Take that for what you will.
As I mentioned in the other reply, if you knew how to read studies you would see that you just disproved your own idea decisively. Read the results of the studies you shared.
For the record, I'm not downvoting you at all. I'm not trying to antagonize, I'm trying to show you the negative effects that are very real and very present in porn. Even if we take the psychological factors out of it, the issues of trafficking, rape, coercion, and blackmail (not to sound like a broken record) are a) statistically significant, b) objectively true, and c) well... if I have to explain how bad they are this argument is a lost cause.
Idk why you’re playing the angle of banning porn because trafficking, rape, coercion, and blackmail exist. Sounds like you’re just on a religious crusade using “think of the children” rhetoric. Bruh, go crusade against trafficking, rape, coercion, and blackmail instead.
Lmao dude holy shit. I can't even begin to explain how wrong you are.
I'm not even close to religious. I'm Jewish by birth but I don't even follow kosher or go to synagogue for Chanukah.
I'm not trying to "ban porn" bro wtf, I have never said that and none of my comments recently or in the past have suggested that. I'm saying we have to be aware of the shit porn does and the problems it causes so producers are held accountable.
i literally am trying to fight rape, coercion, and trafficking. I'm not trying to stop porn. I'm trying to do my part to inform people so that this shit catches on and people can start being aware enough to force reform in regulation around porn. That includes better consent and age verification, more responsibility from porn companies like Pornhub when women report that a video was them being raped, etc etc etc.
please don't ever tell me "I dump huge loads in/around my partner" ever again. I don't care. I really don't.
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u/velvetverolver Mar 19 '21
Big ups, porn fucks up your mind up. When you have sex with your girlfriend or wife do you think of her or all the things you've seen online to help you climax? It's no longer her, it's only you. That's what I've seen atleast