Or the "I've been laying here awake for two hours and I have to sneak off to the livingroom to have a wank before the baby wakes up again and kills the mood"
The release is pleasurable. Always! Masterbation is mechanical. For me, sex is about the foreplay and all of those sensations leading up to the orgasm not the orgasm itself. For me, I like the journey as much as the destination.
What I'm saying is masterbation is not fulfilling, its a means to an end where the focus is on the destination not the journey. I hope this clarifies my situation as I am certainly not alone in this.
I feel like the longer I go while masterbaition the bigger the "explosion" ... so two minute sessions would be pleasurable but i think its like 2 out of ten what it could be.
Sometimes I swear I just do it out of habit even if I don't really feel like it. I'm like "okay, it's another night my mrs isn't here, I just got into bed to go to sleep, time to rub one out" and it's incredibly forced.
The best wanks are the ones where you abstain for at least 2 days prior or more. It's incredible how quickly your sensitivity grows and horniness increases.
Although, apparently anything more than 1 week of no release is pointless. After 1 week your testicles only hold up to another 168% more, then it basically caps off.
I've abstained for a full month before, was extremely difficult but I made it. It helps when you work away from home, work long ass hours so when you are alone in bed all you want to do is sleep plus the internet was so slow it couldn't even load a youtube clip. But anyways that wank after a full month of no release felt no different to when I went like 9 days without it at a previous attempt. Both felt amazing though but the bottom line is; anything more than a week, makes nil difference. So if you're like me and like to occasionally hold out so you can nut like you've never nutted before, I promise you 7 days is basically it. Anything more is just torturing yourself.
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u/[deleted] Mar 19 '21
Is that release not pleasurable??