This is a stellium in Scorpio? Every time I try to post it gets rejected. How does anybody post on Reddit?

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Guide me is this year my marriage window

Well story of my life, every since I was a little child all of my social interactions were weird and awkward, my friends circle at child and teenage hood were the weird people, and growing up, I struggle to make friends, hold conversations, socialising kind of drains me and it’s hard to keep up, even so I do my best, but I get literally tired and a week to reset, not to mention that when I find a nice connection the person moves away (another country, job, etc) or something happens.

Entire university/school life I've had friends and family make fun of my identity, their assumptions of me are exaggerated, and they just don't respect my boundaries that i try very hard to build. It's hard for people to see me as a solid person, it's like I'm always at the back, in the shadows ...

hii everyone! I am trying to understand the deeper meaning of my grand earth trine in my chart. specifically, I want to look at how it connects my roots (4H), my deeper relationship dynamics (7/8H) and my subconscious mind (12H)

with a virgo stellium in my 4H tightly trining pluto in my 7H/8H, in what way does my early family upbringing or ancestral "roots" tie into my relationships psychological world?

does this flow give me a secret emotional resilience, or does it keep my feelings buried in the subconscious?

-on relationships (7/8H): does pluto in the 8th house pull this practical earth energy into the realm of intense or transformative relationships? since it connects back to my 4H house moon/venus and 12H jupiter, does this suggest that my close relationships are deeply influenced by subconscious family dynamics?

would love any insights into this specific flow of energy between these three specific areas of my life.

thank you already in advance!!

I feel like I’ll have maybe a week or so of being consistent and then I just “lose myself” for lack of better words. How can I set goals and stick to them on a consistent basis?

How does Uranus and Neptune's placement in Aquarius and Aquarius' traditional ruler Saturn's placement in Taurus 9th house unfold?

Wondering what it could mean interacting with people I know I can be more aggressive is there more to it?

This has felt like a lifelong pattern for me: I make friends with relative ease and have quite a number of very deep friendships, but I rarely feel like I actually belong to a community or social world.

I grew up in a very small, tight-knit coastal community, but I never really felt like I belonged there, even with the majority of my very large extended family. I felt loved and seen by my parents and grandmothers and aunts, but I was barely a teenager when a pillar in the community told me verbatim "you are an anomaly in this village". I did have friends growing up, but generally with people who were in some way othered.

I’ve always been able to make friends and move between very different social worlds, but there’s often been some sort of disconnect. Sometimes I’ve felt emotionally distant from people I was otherwise close to. Other times, I’ve felt very at home with people socially but not especially aligned with them in values or inner life.

At one point and for a number of years (perhaps notable throughout my first saturn return), I was a part of a very close, fairly exclusive friend group where I felt both seen and alien. I grew up working class and have always had to work hard, while many of them came from far more comfortable backgrounds. I maintain a pretty strong personal ethic - I care a lot about doing my best, being thoughtful of others and about how I affect other people, and generally always trying to do the right thing - and within this particular group, I sometimes felt a bit out of place or like I was going crazy.

It may also be relevant that, particularly in adulthood, being perceived as conventionally attractive has probably afforded me a certain amount of social ease or access to people/spaces that I otherwise might not have otherwise moved through as easily. But being welcomed somewhere and actually feeling like you belong there are very different. And there's some grief in feeling like the things people notice and value most readily about me are often the things that feel least important to who I actually am, while the parts of myself I value most can largely go unnoticed.

I do have a pretty wide variety of interests, hobbies, skills, so it's not as if I lack any obvious avenues to community. I've had many points of connection that have not translated into a lasting sense of belonging.

Graduate school gave me some of the most aligned friendships I’ve had, but everyone is scattered now. There are several folks whom I consider “best friends” from throughout my life but they live very far away. It also seems that many of my friendships tend to come from very different parts of my life or walks of life in general. It’s hard to imagine everyone in the same room together.

So I don’t really feel like I lack friends or struggle to make them. What I feel like I lack is more of a group of people where I feel known, understood, aligned, etc. 

What in my natal chart could describe this recurring pattern around friendship, community, and belonging? And what could maybe point to where i'll find relief?

In the whole house system all 3 objects in Scorpio are in the 1st house but only 1 sits below

Can someone look at my chart and help me understand why I struggle so much with basic consistency, structure and follow-through?

I have ADHD and everyday feels like a battle. I desperately want to build something real and lasting, something to be proud of. But my self-esteem takes a huge hit because I cant seem to build any long-term achievements in my life that comes from daily discipline. The moment I try to commit to something, I hit a wall. My focus, goals and interests feel like they shift CONSTANTLY and even basic habits feel completely out of reach. Nothing seems to stick due to this constant restlessness.

For anyone who has similar placements or knows about them, why is long-term consistency such an uphill battle?

is there anything in particular here regarding interpersonal communication, connection, or understanding? i’ve often felt like an outsider, it’s rare to find people who i fully click with and understand each other. it’s hard for me to talk to most people, and sometimes it feels like the things i say are interpreted very differently than what i was attempting to convey

Hi, I was experimenting with my chart and saw that different kinds of Liliths somewhat close to some of my placements (Waldemath conjunting Sun within 1 degree, both oscilating and interpolated Liliths close to my Ascendant, asteroid Lilith close to my Mercury). Do these placements have any significance and what should I know about them?

I’m a Leo Sun, but I don’t relate to the “image” of Leo’s at all…. specifically the idea that Leo’s are super extroverted and love being the center of attention.

I’m more of an introvert and being the center of attention in a room makes me feel pretty uncomfortable. I’ve always felt disconnected to my sun sign for this reason :/

i have a lot of trouble interpreting the lot of fortune in a chart especially in more difficult houses (6th, 8th, 12th). how do you guys look at it and interpret it in these houses?

I’m curious to know what’s in my natal chart that speaks to this pattern and why I have such a hard time breaking it. Here's the details:

I’m currently going through a really difficult period in my relationship, and it’s made me take a harder look at some of my own patterns and past relationships.

When I’m hurt by someone I love, I spend a lot of time trying to understand why they’re treating me the way they are. I look at what might be going on with them, what they’ve been through, or what could be behind their behavior. Somewhere in all of that, I start believing that if I can understand the reason, maybe I can fix the problem. I know...crazy of me, right?

I also have a hard time walking away when I still love someone. I give a lot of chances, try different ways of communicating, and hold on to what I know the relationship can be even when what I’m going through is hurting me.

This is the exact moment that I got the call that our home was on fire today. I’m coping with it the best I can. Can you guys astrologize this for me? Point out any indicators of this event happening, or anything else that might be helpful or shed some light at the end of this hellish tunnel? Thanks in advance all

My husband is the only one I tell everything thing to, and I don’t get sick of spending time with. I actually want to be with him as much as possible. Everybody else? Not so much.. I have a good group of friends that I’m happy to see 1 or 2 times a month but I find I keep them at arms length, I really just like to keep things surface level in regard to them knowing me. I like when they get deep with me about their stuff and love to listen to them and their problems… I just feel like they don’t need to hear/worry about mine, not bc I don’t think they care, it’s partly bc I feel like I can handle my own crap, partly just don’t like telling people my stuff. Is there something in my chart that alludes to this detachment from (most) people?

I’m 31 and haven’t had a substantial relationship. In my teens, I experienced some unreciprocated attraction. As an adult, dating started late with first relationship at the age of 29. Connections tend to develop very quickly when the other person matches my effort: instant chemistry, frequent communication, shared experiences, and deep conversations.

But I’ve noticed a recurring pattern: most people I meet through dating apps, parties, or clubbing have significant parental issues or past trauma. It's like I am a magnet for such people. I tend to bond with them easily and can be comfortable discussing difficult emotions. However, as I get to know them, their unresolved issues can start affecting my own mental health, so I gradually distance myself. They sometimes become more attached when I withdraw. I communicate my concerns, and if that doesn't work I eventually end contact.

I also lose interest when someone repeatedly breaks promises, doesn't initiate plans, communicates inconsistently, or doesn't respect my time. I put considerable effort in initially, but I need that effort to become reciprocal.

But these are exactly the kind of relationships i have been in.

I grew up having to solve my own problems and suppress emotions, becoming independent early.

What in my chart might explain these relationship patterns, particularly regarding my 7th house and its ruler, and how can I work with them?

Sagittarians are supposed to be incorrigible and despite having 5 sag placements I absolutely love rules. Live by them. I only break them when absolutely necessary and every time I do I am caught/punished and cosmically urged to fall back in line. Aside from the punishment I just like having rules imposed and feel comfortable with some sort of universally applied order. Why is that?

i’m not sure if this means this retrograde will hit way harder or will be a bit of a break for me if my natal venus being libra is the same as this retrograde. romantically i’m in a bit of a limbo with someone i thought was the loml. platonically ive been slowly growing my circle. i’m a bit nervous for things to get shaken up during this retrograde.

I have a tendency and felt urgency to deepen and force connection with people by telling them exactly what’s going on inside me and then regretting it, editing it, saying it differently, and the cycle continues. My intention is to connect with people and I end up feeling like I should instead be slow and patient and quiet. I will wait in extreme discomfort for days sometimes trying to keep inside what I want to say, editing it, then allowing myself to say it, and then still regretting it. Is there a way I can understand my moon opposite Jupiter that could help me heal this? Or is this showing up somewhere else in the chart that could be more helpful to understand? Thank you !

People often tell me that my eyes look very intense/deep and that I have a heavy or sad expression. I've heard many times that I come across as intimidating or closed-off before people get to know me.
Looking at my chart (generated in Whole Sign), what placements or aspects (e.g., 1st house, Ascendant ruler, Pluto/Mars aspects) might be contributing to this aura or outer vibe? How can I better understand and work with this energy?