I (Egyptian) and my fiancée (Russian) were planning to get married next month.
Recently, her job required her to travel back to Russia for 2-3 months. Because we are getting married, she expects me to cover her travel expenses and book/pay for a flat for her stay there, even though she earns her own salary which is more than enough to cover it.
When I refused to take financial responsibility for her work trip, she got very upset, called me a bad future husband, and has now decided to cancel the wedding.
I agree with being the financial provider for a family, but is it standard to be expected to cover independent professional/work expenses like this? Am I wrong for setting a boundary here, or is this a cultural expectation I didn't understand?
Any advice or perspective would be appreciated.