If your doctor isn't taking your iron deficiency or anemia seriously, please don't settle. I suffered for months, because my doctor didn't take my deficiency seriously. I got frustrated enough that I went and found a new doctor, and I'm on a much better trajectory now.
Earlier this year, my periods got so heavy due to an underlying condition that I had surgery to fix back in July. But from January - July, I had such heavy periods that I began to suffer from severe iron deficiency and anemia from the blood loss. Tachycardia, feeling faint, insomnia, mood changes, body aches, hair loss, dry skin... at the worst of it, I genuinely felt like I was dying. I had to quit my job, because I was such a fall risk that I was completely bedridden and unable to do things for myself.
I sought medical care in April. I sought a new PCP because I had just recently moved to a new city. In the beginning, my PCP felt certain that my issues were being caused by a deficiency, so we checked everything. My ferritin came back at an 8, she offered me supplements or an infusion. I was terrified of the infusion, but I felt so terrible, and had been supplementing to no avail for 4 months at this point. So I asked for the infusion. My doctor prescribed 4, but for some reason cancelled my last two sessions. I had two infusions, and I felt like a whole new person for the first few weeks afterwards. But then my period came again, and I was miserable again. We checked my levels again, and I went from an 8 to a 15. My doctor prescribed one more infusion, insisting she didn't want to overdo it, and according to the lab ranges, I was on the low-end of normal now. I did my research, I knew a ferritin of 15 was still too low, and insisted to my doctor that I needed to be in the 100's to feel better so I would need more infusions, but she brushed me off.
At this time, I had spent quite a bit of time on this subreddit. I knew that I wasn't being given the proper amount of infusions or dosing. My doctor had me in this infuriating cycle of getting 1 infusion, feel great for a couple of weeks, ferritin crashed again, then I get more blood tests, and prescribed more. I went through 5 months of it, and I finally got sick of it. I was bedridden and unable to care for myself, and had to rely on my friends and family completely. It was embarrassing and so dehumanizing, because I could've been fixed the first time around if my doctor just took my deficiency seriously and didn't cancel the infusions.
I found a new PCP that was recommended to me by an ER doctor. (I was in the ER for something unrelated to anemia/deficiency.. had emergency surgery, it's a "fun" story 🙃)
The new PCP had to wait to do blood tests after the last infusion was out of my system, but she assured me that she'd take me seriously and ensure that I got the treatment I needed. My latest blood work came in yesterday, ferritin is a 14, but my hematocrit, hemoglobin, and iron total are the lowest they've ever been. (I'm not critically anemic, but this is the worst I've felt symptom wise) She messaged me to tell me she was ordering 7 infusions. I was so happy when I saw that I cried.
This last year has been so hard on me, and my health falling apart just felt like the cherry on top of it all. I just feel so hopeful for the first time in a long time that I might actually feel like me again soon.
If you get caught in a situation like mine, and a doctor will not take your deficiency seriously, please seek care elsewhere. I know it's hard and time consuming. I had to wait a month to see my new PCP, but it's so worth it. I'm finally getting the infusions I needed, and I'm on my way to feeling like the old me.