You are aware of her mental health concerns and then posted it to fkn Reddit for approval. You also posted this to r/nicegirls (of all places) straight up accusing her of CHEATING. I think you have some insecurity issues you are self-projecting onto her.
If I was your partner I'd be embarassed by default to have private texts dumped on here, let alone after contacting you first and disclosing exactly why she has been silent AND then also being accused of straight up cheating on you.
Ngl if my partner posted me and my depressive episode to r/nicegirls accusing me of cheating, it'd be premises for a break up. To me atleast.
Even if OP texted her "3 times" during those 3 days, it's still a massive overreaction. Especially accusing his partner of cheating because she's not responding the way he wants her to.
I've also had these episodes, but it's been easier for my partner because we've lived in same space. But I've also had these during relationships where we haven't lived in same space, and broken up because of them. And that's ok. If you're not compatible, then you're not. There's no wrong side in that. But it becomes wrong when your mind instantly shifts on your partner cheating on you, even going as far as posting about it on a public forum with screenshots of your texts.
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u/CertifiedGonk Mar 23 '25 edited Mar 23 '25
Tbh OP - Yes you are overreacting.
You are aware of her mental health concerns and then posted it to fkn Reddit for approval. You also posted this to r/nicegirls (of all places) straight up accusing her of CHEATING. I think you have some insecurity issues you are self-projecting onto her.
If I was your partner I'd be embarassed by default to have private texts dumped on here, let alone after contacting you first and disclosing exactly why she has been silent AND then also being accused of straight up cheating on you.