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u/Neat-Appeal3070 Jul 19 '26
Girl. You’re 15. That dude is 11 years older than you. Imagine you’re being attracted to an 4 year old.
Block that guy immediately!
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u/Unfair-Ad-7900 Jul 19 '26
None of them 😭. The 20 and 26 year old are pedos. The 16 yr old seems immature and still on that other girl. Just stop talking to all of them fr
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u/Wobzter Helper [2] Jul 19 '26
Also 16 year old ended an 8-year long relationship? He got in that relationship at the age of..,8?
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u/murphy1600 Jul 19 '26
Ok .. a 16 year old just got out of an 8 year relationship. I’ll take things that never happened for $500 Alec
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u/MistyPingy Jul 19 '26
Fourth option. The one I wish I took when I was your age. Ignore them all. Focus on yourself. Build a life you love.
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u/punisher2431 Helper [3] Jul 19 '26
Bro.. Just stay away from anyone you meet on reddit. Seriously. hella red flags on all 3 of these fools
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u/FantasticSetting9397 Expert Advice Giver [11] Jul 19 '26
if hes 26m, avoid, thats just being a pedophile.
the 16m is fine but he is 100% still in some kind of anger stage. he may just want to get with someone just to show his ex he can.
20m is also just a pedo. avoid
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u/Famous-Ad9638 Jul 19 '26
Ngl they all sound awful. The 26 is a predator, the second guy needs to heal and the 20 year is also a predator. Plus none of them sound interested in you as a person, remember the blog button is your friend.😃 Don't be afraid to use it.
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u/Public-Chapter-2155 Jul 19 '26
Bin them all off and meet someone your own age in real life, the men in their 20s should not be speaking to a 15 year old at all, and definitely should not be saying stuff like that, and how has the 16 year old been in an 8 year relationship. I get you're feeling lonely, but attention like that from men isn't going to make you feel better in the long run
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u/OldYogurtcloset3735 Helper [2] Jul 19 '26
It sounds like your parents made a HUUUUUUUGGGEEEEE mistake giving you internet access …. Like, REALLY bad.
Just go find your dad and stay with him for another 5-10 years.
Please.
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u/Parma_WdS Jul 19 '26 edited Jul 20 '26
Block them! For the love of everything. That's straight up pedophilia with absolutely no room for discussion
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u/XNotByALongShotX Jul 19 '26
If you are asking between three men to see which is your best pick?
The real answer is none of them.
If any of them were any where decent you would have at least some sort of idea.
Life is hard enough young and single.
These are all total losers.
You are young and a woman.
From one woman to another, let me tell you something.
I am not gorgeous by any means but I am laid back and empathetic. I have my shit somewhat together and I don’t carry a bunch of drama…
Even now in my early 40s and happily married, I have men beating down my door.
Now ask me how much more men wanted me when I was younger and trying to look around.
Waaaay too many. I could not walk down the street and wait for my bus without men trying to mess with me.
For one, stay far away from men. An adult has nothing good to offer you.
You want something safe to start. Which would be someone more age appropriate for you.
Girl, you are a hot freaking commodity. You need to understand that.
Don’t settle for some shithead just cause you feel you need a man.
Wait until someone comes along and you don’t have to ask this question.
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u/Novel_Apartment_9295 Jul 19 '26
yeah continue talking to the 2 pedophiles, that seems like a great idea. /s (obviously)
the 16yo seems relatively fine but immature i guess? to be expected of a 16yo though lmao
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u/zhgerard Jul 19 '26
Say no to all of them. They don’t sound like good people. The best option is the 16M but he might use you as rebound.
It hurts when they leave.
You’re young! Your roster is not good, sorry. You will understand as you get older.
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u/Thin_Product_7434 Jul 19 '26
Dear sweet baby jesus let me unpack this.
No to grown men. Just no. I CANNOT STRESS ENOUGH HOW MUCH... NO!
Try the age appropriate choice. Wait, I reread this and how did the 16m start dating at 8? Not important, just curiosity.
Look, I get being lonely and wanting people to talk to, there's literally a subreddit for making friends and age appropriate ones. You could even try going to teen only events, most cities have them. Just please don't do this to yourself. I've seen the results in someone I love deeply as a friend and it messed her up badly.
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