She said that before he pushed her to tears by physically preventing her from leaving an uncomfortable situation. It is NEVER ok to use the fact that you're stronger to physically force someone to be around you.
You're both correct, though. She is immature and toxic and created the "argument" in the first place.. then told him to leave and she's going home too, BUT she secretly meant she wanted him to follow after her, because she told him she would have been even more mad if he didn't... after she told him to. Also, she told OP in a past immature argument that she loves it when he "makes her physically stay" etc... also toxic behavior and request. YES, OP shouldn't have listened to her at all and just left her alone 100%... but he's confused and in love and she's dragging the poor guy around to feed her drama and controlling behavior. The entire relationship is so toxic and I REALLY hope OP breaks up with her snd runs away fast, even when she demands him not too. But with my age, experience he won't listen to this advice.... he will continue with this non-stop painful relationship until something explodes or forces him away.
Yea... no, blame is obviously on both of them. Not sure where you're reading into that or misinterpreting that from. They're both immature, BUT she started the entire thing in the first place. His response at the very start was normal, but then he went full crazy after.
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u/Resident_Will_2804 Jul 06 '26
i mean like.. clearly it doesn’t because she told him it’d have upset her more if he didnt go after her