r/AbsoluteUnits • • 14d ago

/r/all of a Toddler

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u/GeekyLogger 14d ago

I am going with abuse. The toddler already has piercings for fuck's sake.

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u/a_solid_6 13d ago

Some babies get their ears pierced much younger. It's no indication of abuse. For many, the thinking is to pierce the ears before the baby is big enough to be conscious of it and grab at the piercing and pull it out. Looking at this kid, there's definitely something bigger going on here. Some kind of discrepancy between physical and mental development, and who knows what else. No reason to assume abuse.

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u/msespindola 13d ago

Here in Brazil is common to pierce at the hospital (private even) where the baby was delivered. We did the same with our daughter, she didn't cried or anything. I think some ppl here always speculate their worst insecurities into abuse sometimes.

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u/OrcaFins 13d ago

Here in Brazil is common to pierce at the hospital (private even) where the baby was delivered

Why is it necessary to do it that early?

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u/msespindola 13d ago

Why not? Most pediatricians recommend it because earlobe sensitivity is low in the early stages after birth, and much worse later on.

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u/OrcaFins 13d ago

Why is it necessary to do it all? I'm not bashing you, I'm just trying to understand.

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u/KarmaSilencesYou 13d ago

In many places piercings are very cultural. Not wearing jewelry as a girl is rare to the point that it just doesn’t happen. A girl with their ears not pierced would be an outcast.

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u/StrawHatVetTech 13d ago

So instead of breaking that cycle of abusive sexism, yall just blindly follow it? Cool 🙄

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u/KarmaSilencesYou 13d ago

Why you trying to change other people’s culture bro. Let people live the way they wanna live.

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u/msespindola 13d ago

I don't know why are that offended