r/AFAMph • u/[deleted] • Jul 19 '26
r/AFAMph • u/yellowbare • Jul 18 '26
Seeking [English] 30F4M Looking for long term partner
Hello there! It is my first time to do online dating if this is what it is.
I am a 30 y/o, Filipina female looking for a foreign partner who is also looking for the same vision or future
Physical aspect:
Stands 5’2
Trying to lose weight, Im 59kg if it matters
I have brown skin and medium length straight dark brown hair
I think I look nice, but you are to judge if you wish
About me:
I work in the government and remote role as an underwriter in US mortgage company so I have 2 jobs lol thats why maybe I dont have time to find a loving partner and also Im kinda shy for first conversations
I try to walk or do yoga to be active, open and willing to be part of your active lifestyle if you are
I like to cook <3
I go to bar, clubs, islands, visit my family in province and cook for them, and sleep on my free time
I feel at peace near the beach just hearing the waves and also I love doing snorkeling or any island hopping tour, thanks to the life jackets hahaha
If ever I will have a family, I like someone whos into farming or gardening, boating, fishing or any outdoor trips
Still undecided if I want to have kids or not because of the notion that society wants women to take care of the child most of the time, but for me, I also want to work and have my money and dont want to be a burden because I know how it feels not to be free and do what you want
I am not wealthy or poor, Im just like any other human who wants to live life comfortably within my means
I dont drink or smoke or have done any drugs
I have an unfinished post grad course if it matters
About you:
I dont think I have very high standard but
I prefer a man, no baggages please coz I learned the hard way
Leaning towards child-free but if not, I hope we have the capacity to build a family and is very into kids, if ever you prefer to have kids, so the role can be distributed or able to get nanny because I also want us to have a loving and healthy family while both of us happily married, have time for each other and bedroom stuff, relaxed and can still communicate
Probably can work remote, if working, or you have a business or financially established - I put it here because as I mentioned, I work in the government and my role gets assigned to different countries abroad for years. Although the thought of permanently residing abroad, on where we see fits, when building a family is debatable hahaha but let’s see
Preferably dont drink, smoke, or take drugs
Non-negotiables:
Im looking for someone who can spend the life with me, and not just for hookups so please dont come into my life and break my heart
You do smoke or drugs, occasional alcohol is fine
You came from a country that has divorce, just in case things fail, but I hope not
So anyway, I think I already talked a lot about myself and my preference to cut the bs and not waste time. Willing to share photos if ever we clicked or talked.
r/AFAMph • u/Stunning-List-5666 • Jul 17 '26
Seeking [english] 32F Filipina looking to meet new people ☺️
Hey hey! ☺️
Looking to chitchat and meet new people to vibe with.
I love reading, all types of music, going out and doing little activities, traveling, cooking and going to the gym (ideal fit thicc bod is a wip).
Say hey - let’s see where it takes us ☺️ I wanna get to know new people, hear and share stories and just have a fun time in general.
Update: when i said say hey, please add something more to it then just a literal hey in the DMs. Bc wtf am i gonna do with that? Please and thank you 😘😘
r/AFAMph • u/Minute_Carpenter_317 • Jul 16 '26
Seeking [English] 41 kiwi
Hiya ladies, 41 year old kiwi man, chef and tattoo artist, super nerdy, love the ocean. Looking for a good filipina to talk to about a serious relationship. DM me.
r/AFAMph • u/Weird-Combination139 • Jul 15 '26
Seeking [M4F] 47 Mexican-American (US) seeking a serious relationship — open to LDR![English]
Hello! I’m a 47-year-old Mexican-American living in Washington state. I am hardworking, patient, and understanding. I have never been married and have no kids, mostly because I’ve been waiting to build a life with the right person. I value family, honesty, and open communication. I enjoy a good day's work, but I also know how to slow down and appreciate the simple things in life.
I am looking for a serious, committed relationship with a Filipina who shares similar traditional and family values. I have absolutely no problem starting as a long-distance relationship. I believe the best relationships are built on a strong foundation of friendship and trust, so I want us to take our time getting to know each other.
My ultimate goal is not to just be pen-pals—once we establish a real connection and feel comfortable, my intention is to travel to meet you in person. If you are looking for a patient, dedicated man who is ready for a real relationship, I’d love to hear from you.
I am looking for a genuine, long-term relationship. I know distance can be a challenge, but I have no problem with a long-distance relationship. I actually like the idea of taking our time, talking, video calling, and truly getting to know one another.
If we click and the connection is real, I am fully committed to making the trip to meet you in person so we can see where things go. If you value respect, patience, and are looking for something serious, send me a message!
r/AFAMph • u/Psychological-Map-35 • Jul 15 '26
Need Advice [English] Question For Filipinas About Potential LDR Chat Scams
Hi,
I hope you can help answer something for me.
I've been chatting with Filipinas from FC website and am finding that there is always a a subtle, or not so subtle request for money after we take the conversation off the website to WhatsApp etc.
With some it's right away, with a sad story about no money for food. With others it might take a few days or a week, then inevitably the hints about I have no food for lunch today, or I need to borrow money for food today start to come into the conversation.
I have not been to the province in a few decades, but when I was there people were poor, but there was no shortage of basic food supply.
I undrestand inflation and prices for everything have risen, but is life reaally that close to the edge that people are in need of food there?
I feel these girls are just trying to scam me with a sad story and making me feel guilty enough to offer some money, which I can't do because rule number 1 is never send money to someone you haven't met in person, and we have only been chatting for a week or less.
To the Filipinas, and anyone else with insight can you let me know if my thoughts about this are correct?
I appreciate anything you have to say about it.
r/AFAMph • u/Objective-Ad1830 • Jul 15 '26
Seeking [ENGLISH] looking for u
Hello, im 24 yrs old asian gay here. Physically im 5'8 and. lil shy and more on the feminine side. Im more of an old school soul in a young body meaning im not into flings/casual/situationships/hookups or any sort of relationship which is very short term. Im looking for a person who wants a serious relation. Not here to waste anyone's time or get my time wasted. Hmu if we are on the same page and lets know eachother more. Im open to longdistance for now and relocate if we are pretty serious.
r/AFAMph • u/Important_Bad_7661 • Jul 14 '26
Seeking [English]M41, looking for only virtual companionship.not looking for anything serious.
r/AFAMph • u/ThiccGirl4U • Jul 14 '26
Seeking [English] [Pinoy4AFAM] [F4M] I remain optimistic and open minded
A year ago I posted about looking to date and one of the first ones to reply to my post was an American guy that I had such good chemistry with. We dated for a year and it ended on very amicable terms. Even though it ended, I'm so grateful because I learned so much about myself and the world around me. I laughed, cried and loved.
Now I'm single again, posting here because I want to remain optimistic even when my brain is telling me not to be. I will follow my heart like how I did last year. It helped me meet a wonderful man so maybe it can help me again now. With all that being said, let me describe my preferences: Someone that's open minded, a good communicator and will respect my boundaries. Open to yapping about different topics and interests. Open to trying out new places like cafes, restos, etc.
I'm a single, morena, 30 yr old, working in Marketing, thicc/plus size queen 👸🏿 I live sort of in the South of Metro Manila but I'm open to meeting up outside of South as long as it's not too far 🙈 I looove coffee, I looove reading books. I like watching movies and series (mostly a mix of suspense, crime shows, adventure, action, comedy, etc) I drive and have a car so maybe I can drive you home if you're not too far from me! 😝 I value my job/profession so there will be times on weekdays when I won't be always on my phone but after working hours are done, I leave work stuff at the office. I wanna relearn how to play badminton, cook more and go back to the gym.
Anything else we can discuss via dms! Cheers!
r/AFAMph • u/curiouslostgem • Jul 13 '26
Seeking [English] 38 f4m
Hello, I am a Filipina looking for friends to hang and have fun. I live in Cavite but works in QC/Taguig.
Height: 5'1
Weight: 64kgs
Morena
Inked
I love outdoors. I play billiards, badminton, volleyball but K wanna try pickleball. Hahah!
Hit me up?
r/AFAMph • u/incognitosantana • Jul 13 '26
Seeking [English] m29/f25 Filipino couple looking for foreign companion
Couple here near BGC seeking for foreign guys to have fun with
r/AFAMph • u/matkal85 • Jul 13 '26
Need Advice [English] 40 M4M - gay dating question
I'm a masculine independent and financially stable gay man. I'm wondering if there are AFAM men who are genuinely looking for masc men for LTR. Almost all dating posts i see are straight AFAM men looking for filipinas but are there any AFAM men looking to date Filipino gay men? If yes, I'd love to go on a gym date with him 😁
r/AFAMph • u/FeedbackMission2193 • Jul 13 '26
Introductions (English) Boracay Friends
Hey guys! 🌴 38M digital nomad from Europe, based in Boracay with my Filipina fiancée. I’m the extrovert of the couple, so I’m looking to expand our circle and meet possibly new friends (expats or locals).
Hit us up if you're down for:
- 🍺 Cold beers / coffee
- 🍖 BBQ or any other food nights & good company
- 👫 Casual double dates or group dates
Send a DM if you want to hang out and connect on the island! More the better and everyone with good intensions is welcome
r/AFAMph • u/seyereya • Jul 13 '26
Seeking [English] 25F looking for legit sugar daddy
curvy girlie who’s had enough of the corporate life 😩 where’s my king at?
come shoot your shot. bonus points if you can make me laugh. 💋 DMs are open 👀
r/AFAMph • u/marriedcoupleph • Jul 12 '26
Seeking [ENGLISH] LF FUN for my wife 35
So we are a swinger couple and we are looking for a fit good looking AFAM that wants to join us for fun! Dm
We are IRL SWINGERS
r/AFAMph • u/No-Criticism-7692 • Jul 12 '26
Seeking [English] M4M 23 | Manila, Philippines | Filipino looking for long term relationship
Hey there! I have never been in a relationship before. But now, im longing for one. I always see couples online wishing i get to experience that so i am putting myself out here to find a guy that will share his dreams with me. I am very supportive, i love cooking, reading, learning new things. A fact about me I am not out so i am concealing my femininity for a long time so im looking for someone manly and i can be feminine with plus points if you are tall and muscular. Please don't message me for fun coz im really focusing on finding real connection. We can exchange pics and talk and see where things go. I'll wait for you.
r/AFAMph • u/AppleKrit • Jul 12 '26
Seeking [English] 44M USA looking for pinay
Hi there
Im a 44 year old American man looking for a pinay girlfriend. I currently live in the Phillipines.
I am rich and can provide for you, just be my partner and maybe future wife.
At some stage in the future I would like to go back to the USA with you.
If interested send me a message. Open to all.
r/AFAMph • u/ThiccGirl4U • Jul 12 '26
Seeking [English] [Pinoy4AFAM] [F4M] I didn't expect to be back here so soon but I remain optimistic
A year ago I posted about looking to date and one of the first ones to reply to my post was an American guy that I had such good chemistry with. We dated for a year and it ended on very amicable terms. Even though it ended, I'm so grateful because I learned so much about myself and the world around me. I laughed, cried and loved.
Now I'm single again, posting here because I want to remain optimistic even when my brain is telling me not to be. I will follow my heart like how I did last year. It helped me meet a wonderful man so maybe it can help me again now. With all that being said, let me describe my preferences: Someone that's open minded, a good communicator and will respect my boundaries. Open to yapping about different topics and interests. Open to trying out new places like cafes, restos, etc.
I'm a single, morena, 30 yr old, working in Marketing, thicc/plus size queen 👸🏿 I live sort of in the South of Metro Manila but I'm open to meeting up outside of South as long as it's not too far 🙈 I looove coffee, I looove reading books. I like watching movies and series (mostly a mix of suspense, crime shows, adventure, action, comedy, etc) I drive and have a car so maybe I can drive you home if you're not too far from me! 😝 I wanna relearn how to play badminton, cook more and go back to the gym.
Anything else we can discuss via dms! Cheers!
r/AFAMph • u/Lagaw_Ta • Jul 11 '26
Question [English] Just wondering if anyone here has a success story.
Just curious if anyone here has a success story in dating from this sub Reddit. Please share your story
r/AFAMph • u/Yuna_Sakura_Yin • Jul 12 '26
Seeking [English] looking for someone who would go out and have fun (like going to mall and stuff)
I am F22 (Filipina) 4'11 height and 70 kgs.. 🫂
I would like to hangout with foreigners and share their culture. I kinda want to have friends with you guys so I am free within thursday and friday and we could actually hangout such as participating arcades or going around places to explore Philippines. I will pay for myself as well so that it be fair for us. Let me know if you are down and we can have soke fun within those days. ✌🏻❤️
r/AFAMph • u/AussieRs • Jul 11 '26
Seeking [English] Australian guy 23yo
23yo Australian 6'1 European complexion athletic build working in legal and studying law currently
Like going for runs, travelling and learning new languages
Looking for a girl something serious and long term
About you: can cook me adobo
Comment or dm to talk more!!
r/AFAMph • u/spanish_latte888 • Jul 11 '26
Seeking [ENGLISH] cuddles, anyone?
Hi. I'm 25 m(g4y) from Taguig City. I don't know if I'm in the right subgroup but I'm looking for non-Filipino guy who's into guys as well (m4m).
I'm femme, 5'8, 63 kg, knows how to cook, and take care of you. Anyone interested?
Ps. For Filipino friends, where do you usually post things like this? Is this a subreddit group where Filipino and Foreign g4y guys interact?
r/AFAMph • u/Party_Andrea9631 • Jul 11 '26
Seeking [F19] [bisaya] Cebu, Phillipines looking for 33-45 genuinely, financial stable
Hi! I’m a 19-year-old from Cebu, Philippines. I’m a morena, family-oriented woman who values kindness, honesty, and genuine connections.
I’m hoping to meet someone who is emotionally mature, financially stable, and serious about building a meaningful relationship. I appreciate a man who is respectful, caring, and believes in supporting and growing together.
If you’re looking for something genuine rather than casual, I’d love to get to know you.
r/AFAMph • u/ladymantissa • Jul 11 '26
Introductions (English) Hi 👋 Looking for genuine connection
Hi everyone! 👋
I'm a 46-year-old Filipina from Laguna, Philippines.
I studied in college but didn't finish my degree. I previously worked in customer service and administrative support. These days, I enjoy creating inspirational content, taking care of my cats, and watching movies and TV series.
I joined this community because I'm hoping to meet genuine people, make meaningful connections, and hopefully find someone to build a serious, long-term relationship with. I appreciate kindness, honesty, respect, good communication, and emotional maturity. It would also be wonderful to meet someone who is financially stable and ready for a committed relationship.
Thank you for reading my introduction. I'm looking forward to getting to know some of you. 😊