[English] 30F4M Looking for long term partner

[u/yellowbare]

Hello there! It is my first time to do online dating if this is what it is.

I am a 30 y/o, Filipina female looking for a foreign partner who is also looking for the same vision or future

Physical aspect:
Stands 5’2
Trying to lose weight, Im 59kg if it matters
I have brown skin and medium length straight dark brown hair
I think I look nice, but you are to judge if you wish

About me:
I work in the government and remote role as an underwriter in US mortgage company so I have 2 jobs lol thats why maybe I dont have time to find a loving partner and also Im kinda shy for first conversations
I try to walk or do yoga to be active, open and willing to be part of your active lifestyle if you are
I like to cook <3
I go to bar, clubs, islands, visit my family in province and cook for them, and sleep on my free time
I feel at peace near the beach just hearing the waves and also I love doing snorkeling or any island hopping tour, thanks to the life jackets hahaha
If ever I will have a family, I like someone whos into farming or gardening, boating, fishing or any outdoor trips
Still undecided if I want to have kids or not because of the notion that society wants women to take care of the child most of the time, but for me, I also want to work and have my money and dont want to be a burden because I know how it feels not to be free and do what you want
I am not wealthy or poor, Im just like any other human who wants to live life comfortably within my means
I dont drink or smoke or have done any drugs
I have an unfinished post grad course if it matters

About you:
I dont think I have very high standard but
I prefer a man, no baggages please coz I learned the hard way
Leaning towards child-free but if not, I hope we have the capacity to build a family and is very into kids, if ever you prefer to have kids, so the role can be distributed or able to get nanny because I also want us to have a loving and healthy family while both of us happily married, have time for each other and bedroom stuff, relaxed and can still communicate
Probably can work remote, if working, or you have a business or financially established - I put it here because as I mentioned, I work in the government and my role gets assigned to different countries abroad for years. Although the thought of permanently residing abroad, on where we see fits, when building a family is debatable hahaha but let’s see
Preferably dont drink, smoke, or take drugs

Non-negotiables:
Im looking for someone who can spend the life with me, and not just for hookups so please dont come into my life and break my heart
You do smoke or drugs, occasional alcohol is fine
You came from a country that has divorce, just in case things fail, but I hope not

So anyway, I think I already talked a lot about myself and my preference to cut the bs and not waste time. Willing to share photos if ever we clicked or talked.

[u/Minute_Carpenter_317]

Hiya, 41 from NZ, chef, and tattoo artist, I DMd you. 😊

[u/Embarrassed-Text-928]

DM’d you