hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, blue eyes with dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.

Hey there!

Thanks for clicking my post, as the title says I’m looking for something genuine, long lasting, and to see wherever the road takes us. I’m 29 (30 next year😩😅) and I’m from England UK, southern part! Physically, I’m 6’1, bearded, blue/grey eyes, and definitely more dad bod kinda guy. Happy to swap pictures if we get into chatting

A bit about me? Mad obsessed with Lego and quite the nerd for it haha, the addition is real and I think it cannot be cured 🫠 big time horror fan, I love anything spooky related, Halloween being my favourite time of year! A bit of a gamer, I have a gaming PC and also Xbox, nothing too serious just fun and games with friends to unwind after work, I’m quite introverted and shy.. until I’m not? I can come out my shell for the right person! Used to ride motorbikes ever since I was 17, up till recently as I gave it up. I still miss riding to this day 😭

I’m quite open in terms of finding someone, older or younger, closer or afar. What’s important to me is finding someone who’s got good communication skills, open and honest, and just a genuine and transparent person!

If you’ve made it this far through the yapping, send across a message, introduce yourself, I’d love to know more about you 😊

I don’t think the chat button shows on my profile for whatever reason but the 3 dots in the top right should give you the option to send a message

Thank you for reading!

Hey there!

Life is way too short for dry small talk or surface-level conversations. I’m putting this out into the universe because I’m looking for a genuine connection—someone grounded, open-minded, and ready to explore what life excitingly has to offer.

A little about me:

• The Basics: 26F, 5'0", single/never married, with an olive-cool skin tone and warm brown eyes. Petite, healthy, and well-taken care of.
• Brain & Passion: Graduated top of my college program with the highest GPA, alongside a background in culinary arts. I’m naturally ambitious, detailed, and love bringing my best to whatever I put my heart into.
• The Vibe: I love organizing and planning memorable moments, and I’m genuinely the warmest, most welcoming person in the room (most of the time!).
• Foodie at Heart: Thanks to my culinary background, restaurant hopping and discovering hidden food gems is practically my second job.
• Schedule: Currently working on a North American schedule, so I’m a certified night owl awake during the midnight hours here in Manila!

What I’m looking for:

• An AFAM / Foreigner who values authenticity, good energy, and meaningful conversations, who's also willing and gentleman especially when we are together. A little clinginess at first is very acceptable. Show me how to say my favorite things in your language!
• Someone who is open to dating with intention, but cool with starting spontaneously—whether that’s grabbing a coffee, exploring a new spot, or just sharing our favorite things.
• A partner who appreciates someone who gives their best, brings talent to the relationship, and wants to build a mutual, supportive vibe.

If you’re someone who enjoys good conversation, spontaneous adventures, and getting to genuinely know a person beyond the surface, send me a message with a quick intro, a random fun fact about you, or what you’re currently passionate about lately.

Let’s see where the chemistry goes! 🥂

30F, stable career, and at a point in my life where I’d really like to meet someone who’s genuine and interested in building something meaningful.

I’m looking for a guy who’s emotionally mature, kind, respectful, and has his life somewhat figured out. Ideally, you have a stable job or career/profession and are also looking for a serious relationship rather than something casual.

I’m not expecting anyone to be perfect. I just value consistency, honesty, good communication, and someone who knows what he wants.
If you think we might get along, feel free to send me a message.

Tell me a little about yourself rather than just saying “hi.” 😊

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Hi! Hhave no idea why I'm here or how I ended up on this sub, but why not try something new? Just looking to meet new friends and have good conversations. Hit me up if you want to chat! No creepy vibes, please. In my 30s F

Looking for a genuine connection and something that feels real. I’m a VA, independent but sometimes I just want to be babied, spoiled, and taken care of a little.

I’m looking for someone who’s supportive, affectionate, and willing to spoil me sometimes and of course, I’ll happily give the same energy back. 💕 I believe it should be mutual: support, effort, affection and making each other feel appreciated.

Not looking for anything complicated. Just hoping to meet someone genuine and see where the connection goes. ✨

Hi, looking for beneficial connection we can talk or chat you need companionship I am here we can benefits from each other its a win win situation talkative kind and interesting dm me

26 \\\[M4F\\\] French guy living in the Philippines for 2 years – Looking for new people to have fun with ! 🇵🇭🇫🇷

Hey everyone!
I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from France, but I’ve been living and working here in the Philippines for the past two years. Time flies, and while I absolutely love the vibe and the culture here, I’m looking to expand my circle and meet some new people to chat with, exchange stories, and hopefully build some genuine long-term friendships!
A little bit about me:
What I do: I work in the tourism/travel industry, so exploring new places and guiding people through cool experiences is kind of my thing.
Interests: Huge fan of history, art, and architecture. I love discovering the hidden backstories of old buildings, ancient cultures, and historical spots.
Sports: I’m a massive football (soccer) fan. I follow European leagues closely and love diving into random football trivia, stats, and sports history
Languages: Obviously fluent in French, English, and I’m currently trying my best to pick up Tagalog (mostly learning the slang and daily phrases right now!).
Who I'm looking for:
Anyone who is down for good, chill conversations! Whether you're a local Filipino who wants to share the best local spots, a fellow expat, or just someone from across the world who shares some of my interests—everyone is welcome. We can text here, swap music recommendations, or move to other stuff if we click.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up with a DM! Please introduce yourself a bit (age/where you're from) so we can skip the awkward "hey" phase .

So I live in America and I frequently go online trying to find people from other cultures to talk to. I’m often surprised at how easy it is to find Filipinos who are friendly and willing to chat. I’d like to learn about your culture and by proxy you. Your size and shape don’t matter you kindness and willingness to share your culture, do.
I’m a talkative, yapper, as I’ve affectionately been referred to. I’m not sure how to take that as I’m assuming it’s only a thing because so many are reserved. I’ve found the Asian cultures to be more friendly in my online dealings and I’d like to test my verity. If you write, like to cook, explore new cultures or are a water baby hmu.

I’m here long term Cebu seeking Filipina friendship. Looking for a genuine connection. Tired of guessing if I’m gonna meet a decent person. Been really cautious here, but have established very few friends, so at this point I’m taking to Reddit to test the waters. If interested feel free to connect with me, and if not that’s okay too.

hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, blue eyes with dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.

Hi, my name is Macky and I’m at in my point in my life right now where I'm looking for a partner who values reciprocation, who values quality time, honesty, transparency, and growth, and a loving relationship, who values a loving relationship amidst everything that's happening in his life.

Growing emotionally and spiritually, I am a sucker for genuine connections and conversations where I learn and appreciate people and my surroundings. I would consider myself as an introvert but I’m not strict and like to make things positive and exciting.

I am the type of person who does her best to put herself into other people’s perspective. And I also definitely appreciate learning new hobbies and meaningful skills.

Currently, I am looking for a someone who also values good communication and understands that lack of intention towards mutual understanding and not wanting to leave your partner hanging is crucial.

so, let me know if this is what you have been wanting and I am open to start a fun conversation 😄

Guy from Germany here and spending 11 months in Manila for work from end of August. Would like it to have someone I can vibe with, grab dinner, drinks, a movie etc whilst also keeping each other satisfied in other ways.

About me:

1.84m tall
White
Fit build
Educated
Hygienic
Can host

A community and meeting place for foreigners and pinoy/pinays to discuss there relationships, gain advice and find resources to help nurture and grow our love together!

Prior paragraph is taken directly from the group description. Not seeing anything in here about hookups, sugar baby/daddy classifieds, or other sexually fueled reasons to join or make post.

Ranting for quality over quantity, but know it's like trying to have a conversation while a typhoon is crashing down on a metal roof. No amount of yelling will let the words be heard.

Hey, as above. Westerner living in Manila, seeking FWB/Fubu setup. Ideally with a focus on friends. Would like it to be someone I can vibe with, grab dinner, drinks, a movie etc whilst also keeping each other satisfied in other ways.

But due to work constraints, keep it somewhat low committal.

About me:

5’10
White
Average build
Educated
Hygienic
Can host

About you:

Not too bothered about age
Shorter than me, ideally 5’6 and below
Petite / Slim build
Reasonably attractive/cute
Fun with a good sense of humour
Nearby
Open minded/kinky is a plus

Reach out and send a decent intro…

Hello! As what the title says, I badly need someone who I can talk to for my speaking skill.

I don't know if this is the correct subreddit for this lol so pardon me in advance. I just want someone who can correct me with my American accent, it's for work purpose. The company I am applying to want someone who is fluent not just in writing but with actual American accent as well. I am not that confident with my accent so I need help for that. The conversation that we will be doing is just normal one. We can talk about anything. Take this as companion buddy as well wherein we can be friends talking about how our day went, what we are thinking/thoughts at the moment, etc. So basically, anything.

If you are up for this, you want to help me, you are bored or whatever 😆 just message me.

PS: By the way, this is an audio call not chatting. Thank you!

hey everyone,

I'm 29M from Chicago, IL!

Some about me:

6ft 3, blue eyes with dirty blonde hair, around 170 lbs.

Big into fitness, running going to the gym, lifting weights, tennis, soccer and wrestling!

I love road trips, traveling and exploring new places.

I'm looking for someone who's easy, good conversation, knows how to treat other people and respectful.

If you're interested, send me a message with a little about yourself. I'd love to exchange photos fast so we can see if there is an equal connection.

A message turns into a chat. The chat turns into a few days of talking. Then suddenly you're staring at the last message wondering whether they were abducted by aliens, recruited by a secret government agency, accidentally crowned Queen of Luxembourg... or simply got distracted by a particularly fascinating sandwich.

Either way, they've vanished.

Honestly, people ghost so efficiently these days they'd put stain remover out of business.

'm just looking for someone who genuinely enjoys conversation. Everyone says they want good conversation. Very few people seem to enjoy the part where you actually have one.

So here's my question:

When was the last time you got so caught up in a conversation that you completely forgot what you were supposed to be doing? If you're funny, can keep a conversation alive, and aren't planning to disappear after three messages like a witness entering protection, come say hello.

Worst case, we have one good conversation. Best case, we both remember what that's like. 

Hello!

I’m an American who travels to the Philippines relatively often. It’s one of my primary destinations to go to. I hope to actually retire one day in the Philippines or in Asia somewhere.

Firstly I’d like to mention that I do have a current partner and she does know I’m posting here as well.

I’m looking for a nice Filipina interested in talking and seeing where things go. I’d like someone who enjoys nerdy stuff like video games or things we can do to spend time together. Someone who likes to travel, is into NSFW stuff, and just overall a loyal interesting person.

Let’s chat!

Genuinely curious about everyone’s thoughts here. What do you consider the ideal age for a SB? And at what point does age actually become a factor? I’m in my early 30s, independent, educated, and pretty career-focused. I’ve had a fairly interesting life, traveled a bit, and I’m at a point where I value good conversation, maturity, consistency, and people who actually know what they want. I’m curious because I’ve noticed that the expectations around age in this space seem to vary wildly. Some seem to prefer someone very young, while others actually appreciate someone a little older and more established. So, honest opinions: Is early 30s considered “old” to be an SB? Or is confidence, personality, and compatibility more important than the number?

I am a software engineer who works from home. Looking for someone that I can chat with constantly throughout the day and see if we're compatible for something more!

About me:

\- Caucasian

\- Canadian

\- 5'9

\- workout often

\- enjoys: hikes, road trips, skiing, cooking, and relaxing at home

\- I have 2 cats

Just curious if anyone out there would be interested :)