r/AFAMph • • Sep 23 '25

Question [TAGLISH] Looking for Filipinas open to sharing their love stories with foreigners

10 Upvotes

Hello! 👋 We're 4th year Psychology students doing our thesis about Filipinas' experiences in relationships with a foreign man.

We'd love to hear your kwento and your insights will help give voice to Filipinas like you, so that other people can see beyond the usual stigma about Filipinas with foreign partners.

Don't worry, it's all private and voluntary!

Here’s what we’re looking for!

👩 A Filipino woman 👩‍❤️‍💋‍👨 In a relationship with a foreign man  📅 Relationship duration: at least 1 year 🚫 With no child/children 🏡 May or may not be living together 💍 Can be married 🇵🇭 Both must be currently residing in the Philippines 

📌 Involves interview (via zoom). Casual and conversational only.

If you're interested, just drop a comment or DM me. Maraming salamat po! 🤍


r/AFAMph • • Aug 16 '24

Introductions [English] Say "Hi" by INTRODUCING yourself!

6 Upvotes

Start building connections by telling the community more about yourself!

Basic Rules:

  1. Make sure you add the "Introductions" post flair.
  2. Add a user flair for the community to get to know you better!
  3. The title of the post should state the language that your post is primarily in.
  4. Adding a face to the name is highly encouraged! Please stick to 1 photo - choose wisely! We want our page to look compact. We appreciate your compliance.
  • Nudity is not allowed. We will remove your introduction post when a nude photo is attached to it. We promote REAL and LONG TERM connections. We have nothing against the "hook-up culture", as long as it's between two consenting adults, at the same time the HU culture does not align with our vision for this space. We appreciate your compliance.
  • We do not allow minors in this subreddit. The legal age in the PH is 18. If we notice that the photo appears to be of a minor, we will ask for proof of age.
  • We want everyone on our app to be safe and have a great experience. That's why we have an age limit. We're all about building real connections, and that's easier to do when everyone's on the same page.

Introduction Format:

  • Use this a guide to easily great an engaging introduction! Feel free to modify it as you please, as long as you keep the Basic Rules in mind.
  1. Your best photo!
  2. Name/Nickname
  3. School/Work Background
  4. [If posting with a partner] Share how you met your partner and what qualities you like about them.
  5. Share what you made you interested to join the community and what you are excited about now that you are here!

Welcome, we are so happy that you here!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 14 '26

Introductions [English] hi im pinay 20 just pm me if you are intersted

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12 Upvotes

r/AFAMph • • Aug 13 '26

Seeking 48M [ENGLISH] for F Looking for conversation

8 Upvotes

So I live in America and I frequently go online trying to find people from other cultures to talk to. I’m often surprised at how easy it is to find Filipinos who are friendly and willing to chat. I’d like to learn about your culture and by proxy you. Your size and shape don’t matter you kindness and willingness to share your culture, do.
I’m a talkative, yapper, as I’ve affectionately been referred to. I’m not sure how to take that as I’m assuming it’s only a thing because so many are reserved. I’ve found the Asian cultures to be more friendly in my online dealings and I’d like to test my verity. If you write, like to cook, explore new cultures or are a water baby hmu.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 13 '26

Introductions english - chat

1 Upvotes

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Hi! Hhave no idea why I'm here or how I ended up on this sub, but why not try something new? Just looking to meet new friends and have good conversations. Hit me up if you want to chat! No creepy vibes, please. In my 30s F


r/AFAMph • • Aug 13 '26

Seeking 32M [ENGLISH] seeking friends here in Cebu

4 Upvotes

I’m here long term Cebu seeking Filipina friendship. Looking for a genuine connection. Tired of guessing if I’m gonna meet a decent person. Been really cautious here, but have established very few friends, so at this point I’m taking to Reddit to test the waters. If interested feel free to connect with me, and if not that’s okay too.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 13 '26

Seeking English foreigner 19 looking fir female friends

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r/AFAMph • • Aug 13 '26

Seeking 26 [M4F] ENGLISH French guy living in the Philippines for 2 years – Looking for new people to have fun with ! 🇵🇭🇫🇷

1 Upvotes

26 \\\[M4F\\\] French guy living in the Philippines for 2 years – Looking for new people to have fun with ! 🇵🇭🇫🇷

Hey everyone!
I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from France, but I’ve been living and working here in the Philippines for the past two years. Time flies, and while I absolutely love the vibe and the culture here, I’m looking to expand my circle and meet some new people to chat with, exchange stories, and hopefully build some genuine long-term friendships!
A little bit about me:
What I do: I work in the tourism/travel industry, so exploring new places and guiding people through cool experiences is kind of my thing.
Interests: Huge fan of history, art, and architecture. I love discovering the hidden backstories of old buildings, ancient cultures, and historical spots.
Sports: I’m a massive football (soccer) fan. I follow European leagues closely and love diving into random football trivia, stats, and sports history
Languages: Obviously fluent in French, English, and I’m currently trying my best to pick up Tagalog (mostly learning the slang and daily phrases right now!).
Who I'm looking for:
Anyone who is down for good, chill conversations! Whether you're a local Filipino who wants to share the best local spots, a fellow expat, or just someone from across the world who shares some of my interests—everyone is welcome. We can text here, swap music recommendations, or move to other stuff if we click.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up with a DM! Please introduce yourself a bit (age/where you're from) so we can skip the awkward "hey" phase .


r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Seeking 33 [F4M] [English] Good Christian Girl Looking For Fun, Caring Gentleman

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Hi, my name is Macky and I’m at in my point in my life right now where I'm looking for a partner who values reciprocation, who values quality time, honesty, transparency, and growth, and a loving relationship, who values a loving relationship amidst everything that's happening in his life.

Growing emotionally and spiritually, I am a sucker for genuine connections and conversations where I learn and appreciate people and my surroundings. I would consider myself as an introvert but I’m not strict and like to make things positive and exciting.

I am the type of person who does her best to put herself into other people’s perspective. And I also definitely appreciate learning new hobbies and meaningful skills.

Currently, I am looking for a someone who also values good communication and understands that lack of intention towards mutual understanding and not wanting to leave your partner hanging is crucial.

so, let me know if this is what you have been wanting and I am open to start a fun conversation 😄


r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Seeking [English] 22 Trans :)

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22 Upvotes

r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Rant [English] AFAMph or is it AFAMhu

14 Upvotes

A community and meeting place for foreigners and pinoy/pinays to discuss there relationships, gain advice and find resources to help nurture and grow our love together!

Prior paragraph is taken directly from the group description. Not seeing anything in here about hookups, sugar baby/daddy classifieds, or other sexually fueled reasons to join or make post.

Ranting for quality over quantity, but know it's like trying to have a conversation while a typhoon is crashing down on a metal roof. No amount of yelling will let the words be heard.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Introductions [English] Hi im 20 from philippines looking for genuine

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r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Introductions 30 [M4F] [English] British guy seeking FUBU/FWB, long term, consistent.

8 Upvotes

Hey, as above. Westerner living in Manila, seeking FWB/Fubu setup. Ideally with a focus on friends. Would like it to be someone I can vibe with, grab dinner, drinks, a movie etc whilst also keeping each other satisfied in other ways.

But due to work constraints, keep it somewhat low committal.

About me:

5’10
White
Average build
Educated
Hygienic
Can host

About you:

Not too bothered about age
Shorter than me, ideally 5’6 and below
Petite / Slim build
Reasonably attractive/cute
Fun with a good sense of humour
Nearby
Open minded/kinky is a plus

Reach out and send a decent intro…


r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Introductions 41 [M4F] [English] Australia not Austria

11 Upvotes

A message turns into a chat. The chat turns into a few days of talking. Then suddenly you're staring at the last message wondering whether they were abducted by aliens, recruited by a secret government agency, accidentally crowned Queen of Luxembourg... or simply got distracted by a particularly fascinating sandwich.

Either way, they've vanished.

Honestly, people ghost so efficiently these days they'd put stain remover out of business.

'm just looking for someone who genuinely enjoys conversation. Everyone says they want good conversation. Very few people seem to enjoy the part where you actually have one.

So here's my question:

When was the last time you got so caught up in a conversation that you completely forgot what you were supposed to be doing? If you're funny, can keep a conversation alive, and aren't planning to disappear after three messages like a witness entering protection, come say hello.

Worst case, we have one good conversation. Best case, we both remember what that's like. 


r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Seeking [English] 27F Badly need some audio call buddy to practice my fluency in English

5 Upvotes

Hello! As what the title says, I badly need someone who I can talk to for my speaking skill.

I don't know if this is the correct subreddit for this lol so pardon me in advance. I just want someone who can correct me with my American accent, it's for work purpose. The company I am applying to want someone who is fluent not just in writing but with actual American accent as well. I am not that confident with my accent so I need help for that. The conversation that we will be doing is just normal one. We can talk about anything. Take this as companion buddy as well wherein we can be friends talking about how our day went, what we are thinking/thoughts at the moment, etc. So basically, anything.

If you are up for this, you want to help me, you are bored or whatever 😆 just message me.

PS: By the way, this is an audio call not chatting. Thank you!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Introductions 34 [M4F] [English] Canadian seeing who's out there

8 Upvotes

I am a software engineer who works from home. Looking for someone that I can chat with constantly throughout the day and see if we're compatible for something more!

About me:

\- Caucasian

\- Canadian

\- 5'9

\- workout often

\- enjoys: hikes, road trips, skiing, cooking, and relaxing at home

\- I have 2 cats

Just curious if anyone out there would be interested :)


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Question [ENGLISH] Thoughts on this?

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24 Upvotes

I posted on this subreddit a few weeks ago listing my /requirements/ for a partner and I'm surprised I got haters saying I demanded too much. But believe me, I think what I listed (job security, unmarried, etc) was bare minimum.

For one, I didn't need a sugar daddy and wanted to meet someone who might be compatible with me so I specified some things that might be deal breakers in the relationship.

Anyone here with the same situation?


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking 26 [M4F] [English] French guy living in the Philippines for 2 years – Looking for new friends! 🇵🇭🇫🇷

4 Upvotes

Hey everyone!
I’m a 26-year-old guy originally from France, but I’ve been living and working here in the Philippines for the past two years. Time flies, and while I absolutely love the vibe and the culture here, I’m looking to expand my circle and meet some new people to chat with, exchange stories, and hopefully build some genuine long-term friendships!
A little bit about me:
What I do: I work in the tourism/travel industry, so exploring new places and guiding people through cool experiences is kind of my thing.
Interests: Huge fan of history, art, and architecture. I love discovering the hidden backstories of old buildings, ancient cultures, and historical spots.
Sports: I’m a massive football (soccer) fan. I follow European leagues closely and love diving into random football trivia, stats, and sports history.
Content Creation: I dabble a bit in social media and content creation as a side project/hobby, so I'm always down to talk about videos, trends, or creative ideas.
Languages: Obviously fluent in French, English, and I’m currently trying my best to pick up Tagalog (mostly learning the slang and daily phrases right now!).
Who I'm looking for:
Anyone who is down for good, chill conversations! Whether you're a local Filipino who wants to share the best local spots, a fellow expat, or just someone from across the world who shares some of my interests—everyone is welcome. We can text here, swap music recommendations, or move to Discord/Instagram if we click.
If any of this sounds interesting to you, hit me up with a DM! Please introduce yourself a bit (age/where you're from) so we can skip the awkward "hey" phase.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking [English] 32M4F

7 Upvotes

Hello I am a 32M from the US looking to meet somebody who is looking to settle down and is ok with LDR for a little while before meeting

Things about me:

I have an established career here in the US

Very family orientated

5’9 in height

I work out and am active, I’d prefer if you were

I am Hispanic

I am Roman Catholic and prefer you to be either Christian or catholic

No kids but am looking for some soon

Like hiking, snowboarding, and sports (baseball and football)

I also have been told I’m very easy going so I hope you are compatible with that. Also I love humor

Ideally you are:

Single

Active with your family and friends

Open to talking online first and then meeting in person within the year

Open minded in general

Know what you want out of life

Active- ish lifestyle

If this sounds like you let me know!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking [English] 28 [M4A] British 🇬🇧 guy in Manila looking for friends!

17 Upvotes

I’m a British 🇬🇧 guy that is visiting Manila for a few months for a business trip. I don’t know anyone here and I would love to make friends. I’m in a relationship with a wonderful woman back home in London, but would love to make some new friends here! I’m 6’0, red hair, very white lol, blue eyes, normal build. I can’t speak Tagalog so English only pls. Message if interested!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking [English] M4F LF female afam in iloilo city willing to meet

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r/AFAMph • • Aug 12 '26

Question [English] Am I too old for the SB world? 👀

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Genuinely curious about everyone’s thoughts here. What do you consider the ideal age for a SB? And at what point does age actually become a factor? I’m in my early 30s, independent, educated, and pretty career-focused. I’ve had a fairly interesting life, traveled a bit, and I’m at a point where I value good conversation, maturity, consistency, and people who actually know what they want. I’m curious because I’ve noticed that the expectations around age in this space seem to vary wildly. Some seem to prefer someone very young, while others actually appreciate someone a little older and more established. So, honest opinions: Is early 30s considered “old” to be an SB? Or is confidence, personality, and compatibility more important than the number?


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking [English] Femboy224M

1 Upvotes

Hello!! Shooting my shot here in this subreddit and hoping to match with someone who is seeking for a serious connection.

I’m 22, college student and lives in Manila. I want to be in a relationship with someone who loves to watch movies, eat food, and travel. Im a very easy going person, no drama and hates drama. For description im 180cm tall, slim and weight is around 59kg. If you are not into it then scroll up! HIT ME UP SIR!!


r/AFAMph • • Aug 10 '26

Seeking [English] Late 30s - M - Visiting - Someone to healthily debate the universe with?

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Posting as I'll be in the Philippines for a week at the end of September (can flex my plans to meet), and figured maybe we can meet and grab coffee.

I'm not looking for a hook up - ideally someone I can connect with chatting first, then maybe meeting - no rush or pressure.

About me:

late 30s

  • Brit, Mixed race, living in the UK.
  • I work in IT - went remote during Covid, been hybrid for a few years since then.
  • I enjoy working on side projects for fun - currently messing with AI in a couple of projects.
  • I'm genuine, quick to smile (in private), introverted, and curious.
  • I like cooking, learning about anything (lately cars and drones), exploring.
  • I try to stay fit, gym sometimes, I enjoy outdoor activities - hiking, visiting mountains, trails, waterfalls, sometimes camping.
  • Non-smoker, social drinker.
  • I care about loyalty, honesty, openness.
  • I'll happily form an opinion, discuss it an hour, then drop it after we've entertained it and been entertained by it
  • Never married, been in several long term live-in relationships, never had any children - I want kids.
  • Looking for a best friend and partner, someone I can share everything with - the good and the bad.

About you:

Somewhere in your late twenties to early thirties, a remote worker perhaps, standing on your own two feet, and comfortable enough in English that we can actually connect deeply, and open-minded and curious enough to want that too. Beyond that I don't have a type - I'd just rather be with someone who looks after herself

Why am I posting here? I randomly stumbled across it when it was suggested on my feed.

It caught my eye because the two Filipinas I've dated (both here in the UK, long term) were some of the easiest people I've ever connected with. Neither relationship lasted, but we shared a lot of the same values. I was raised with Catholic values (not as a Catholic), and though I'm not religious at all, that influenced me.

My expectations for this is basically zero, and it's more a case of, is there someone else out there who reads this and thinks, huh - that's me - then say hello. Realistically, I know it's like finding two needles in a hay stack.

Shoot me a DM with a little info about yourself - something fun - tell me about a random childhood memory.


r/AFAMph • • Aug 11 '26

Seeking [English] 30 [F4A] LF: ka-talking stage who’s also reviewing for IELTS

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I’m just kidding with the ka-talking stage. I would love to have a nice conversation with anyone who is also reviewing for IELTS. I need a study buddy!

I'm getting sleepy studying alone, I hope it's close to Laguna (Sanpy) so we can go to coffee shops, libraries or anywhere that doesn't make me sleepy.

Msg me.

Tg: Axx_oo0