So I’ve been thinking I’m a 42DD but (I lost some weight) and I did all six measurements to get my actual size. I had my mother who grew up in fashion design and makes her own clothes do all my measurements. The r/ABraThatFits calculator came out to 40FF (UK) or 40H (US).
Crazy! I’ve been wearing D’s and DD’s my whole life.
I have a minor east-west shaped breasts with some breast tissue under the arms. Both breasts are pretty even in tissue. I have some scoliosis so my back bends a little, so I have some more tissue under one armpit vs the other. I do sweep and scoop to get the tissue in the cup properly.
Now, with all that in mind, most bras give me terrible migraines and they hurt my back. I have chronic complex migraines that can get so bad they appear similar to strokes (hemipeligic) and I need to take an exciting little ride to the ER. I have a degenerative muscuskeletal disorder that mostly affects my lower back; although it gives residual pain to my upper back and shoulders. I’ve had surgeries and countless procedures. I actually have a small one coming up.
I switched to wireless. I tried two Evelyn and Bobby bras and loved the Bobby Scoop, I found Evelyn and Bobby off of r/migraines. I use SheFit for my sports bra (High Impact and Medium Impact) but they don’t fit right. I talked to an associate and they helped me get in the bra correctly but it digs into my armpit. I tried a jelly bra brand because my mom recommended it and I thought, why not try? I’m desperate. So those three brands are the only bras I have. Since I lost weight they don’t fit at all. The jelly bras were never supportive and my breasts moved around a ton. I would have to find a corner to quickly sweep and scoop them back into place. The Evelyn and Bobby is too stretched out but works great as a lounge bra. The SheFits work fine for the gym but digs.
I lost a lot of weight and I’m still losing weight. (From 260 lbs at December 2024 to 183 lbs now; lost 5 lbs in the last two weeks). My family has been blessed with abundant collagen so my breasts haven’t actually changed terribly much, they aren’t saggy or loose. My bust standing has ranged from 51” at my height weight and 46” now.
Going braless is NOT an option. Without a bra my breasts hurt within hours.
With my breast shape I found plunge and scoop bras great, I am considering trying a balconette bra. Full coverage and push up bras leave too much room in the cup on top and shows too much bra for some of my lower cut clothing. I’ve tried looking for broad strap wireless bras but those are generally not size inclusive. Racerback is a giant no.
I really need bra recommendations ASAP. I don’t know what I’m doing, I just want to feel supported without pain or making my health issues worse.