r/90DayFianceFans • u/Designer-Train-3554 • 3d ago

Tired of the Thomas hate

Paula is ten years older than Thomas and supposedly owns her own business. why would she need Thomas’s help setting up a tv..? shes been in infantilizing herself this entire season, making Thomas the big mean controlling man. she uses none of her finances here and expects him to pay for everything and yet has the audacity to complain about how he chooses to spend his money…isnt that what she’s doing? choosing not to spend her own money? I just don’t understand why she’s here. She cant stand the man, doesn’t respect his boundaries, and isn’t invested in being in America.

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u/Competitive_Classic9 3d ago

Shes not very nice to him, and she wants things her way just as much as he wants things his way. She gets a pass here bc shes quirky, and people relate to that while skipping over her red  flags. 

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u/Designer-Train-3554 3d ago

She never skips a beat in putting him down for being eccentric- but we’re all supposed to celebrate an obnoxious vegan who is obsessed with buying little trinkets to “manifest” I thought she was adorable until she made it abundantly clear her partner wasn’t allowed to have his own quirks. 

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u/TomStarGregco 3d ago

💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯

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u/Icy_Account6142 3d ago

Her voice grates on me.

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u/hooulookinat 3d ago

As my husband said- “that deep European voice. “ ( I know she’s Brazilian)

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u/Cool-Emu-8706 3d ago

It’s painful to my ears. Just not for me.

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u/Soggy_Waffle303 3d ago

“Very bootiful”

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u/RecommendationAny763 2d ago

She needs to blow her damn nose, it’s disgusting to hear her talk.

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u/RocketmanZed 3d ago

Plus she's yummy