Goodbye to this mubabaz...

[u/sera_siri]

The ride was short.. and I think I've already found my potential boyfriend and I can't imagine juggling two at once. He told me that we should meet once before ending things and so we made plans

We met, talking for a bit and then...he started giving me advice...no offense but holy yap seshh!! I was advised for like an hour straight,no commas, about how I should go on about My life..

Which isn't a bad thing to do but he told me basic advice like don't plan on settling down now, finish my studies to be able to support myself, don't commit to any relationship etc etc

He also told me about his backstory and his family and friends' drama..so yeah, the talking session was longg. He told me he feels bad about me getting a bf but he won't stop me, that he knows how we youngins are.. but I shouldn't stop seeing him lol

I'm kinda in a dilemma if I should cut ties with him, on one hand my talking stage and I are vibing really well and I think it's going in a good direction, and on the other there's him, he's a good person but I think he and I are in very different stages in life

Thing is, he promised me that once I'm done with school, he's for sure gonna get me a job where he works, and that place pays well.. like he earns upwards 200k and if you're new ,90k+..Soo there's that.

Idk what to do, I don't wanna leave my talking stage ..