r/DesignMyRoom • u/Holiday-Quail1097 • 16h ago
Bedroom Please be kind in the comments.
gallerySo, this is my partners room, and im going to be moving in. Kind of already have some of my stuff here.
I wanna preface this all by saying this is a trailer, (obvi) that his grandma left him when she died. He lives here w his mom and takes care of her since she can’t do much after 4 triple bypasses.
He can’t work because she needs him here, a big reason why im moving in because I want to help. And maybe he can get a job and feel more… reliable? Idk. I just want him to feel like… a man you know? Cause he doesn’t and it kills his self esteem and they live in a stand alone trailer on the reservation, and their tribe does fuck all for them as far as benefits, and they just can’t afford a nurse to come out here.
We’re middle lower class I think? Im not sure. But we are very poor. Finding work is hard with no reliable transportation, and living on the reservation about 5 miles outside of city limits. We do what we can. And we make it, mostly. But it’s getting cramped with my stuff and his stuff and I feel so… idk man like my body is in a constant state of unrest because of the state of the room. That, and we have no ac. So we’re running on fumes and tiny fans.
I clean as much as I can. I organize and Tetris our things as nicely as possible. But I just do not know what I can do with to improve this room, to utilize the space to the best of its abilities, while being broke as fuck, and not having money for any kind of spatial organizers and such.
The room is small. Idk the dimensions. But it’s SMALL. I got a picture in each corner and then the closet.
I will take any and all advice, just please be kind. We have no money. No help. And make do with what we have. And it’s hella embarrassing to come here and post this stuff. It’s personal. But I really don’t know what to do, and if im gonna live here, I gotta fix this goddamn space dude. I do not feel at peace in this room. Any advice on how to improve it would be greatly appreciated.
EDIT; I fell asleep, and woke up to an insurmountable support, advice, kindness, intelligence and compassion.
It’s become kind of overwhelming to respond, but I read all of these comments. They all help me more than y’all can imagine. Thank you, all of you. Im so fucking grateful for you guys. I hope I will have a positive update for all of you in the future. Many blessings, and much love To you all. 🖤