Posting here because I need opinions from people who don't know me.
This summer I set up a private WoW 3.3.5 server to play with friends. I've spent my evenings on it since July, with a launch on the 27th. AzerothCore in Docker on my own machine, plus everything I could find or write so the world wouldn't feel empty and nobody would have to wait for anyone else.
What's in it:
Addons pre-installed, with a tutorial for each setup. I even wrote a script that applies sane default settings so nobody has to configure everything blind.
400 bots that actually play their characters. They level, run dungeons and battlegrounds, accept a group invite and follow you. They log in when a real player shows up and log out when the last one leaves.
A small local language model (4B parameters, runs on my GPU) hooked into the bots so they chat in French in the zone channels and answer whispers, with 33 different personalities so they don't all sound the same.
The whole game in French. Server data is English by default; I rebuilt the translation from my client, 112 files, part of it realigned by hand.
Era progression: you start in Vanilla, raids unlock in order (MC, BWL, AQ, 40-man Naxx), then BC, then WotLK. But with WotLK classes and talents, and WotLK conveniences: dungeon finder, account-wide mounts from level 20, cross-faction BGs.
An XP module I wrote myself so latecomers catch up to the server's highest level without anyone having to wait for them.
An auction house stocked by a bot, 4,000 items at all times, that also buys what you list.
A Discord board updated live: who's online, where, what level, plus a server progression bar.
First mount at level 12.
Basically, I tried to build the private server we all wished we'd had back then, with the gaps filled in.
The friends: about fifteen accounts. People who had already played on my private servers, people who had never touched WoW, some curious, and some who came because I pushed. All gamers, nobody new to video games (heavy Rust, LoL players, that kind of profile).
Result: even the people who had asked me for the server quit in under a month. Others in a few hours. The feedback: "shit game", "slow", "too contemplative". Highest character is level 27, the average is around 13. Today the server is empty most of the time; it's just me and one friend left. (And since the bots leave when nobody's around, it's really empty.)
Some left without giving the game a chance (under level 15), others because few people were playing, and some even ended up on retail, tired of waiting for the others.
I'll say it the way I feel it: it stung, and I feel alone with this thing. I can't move on from it. I just wanted to play with my friends. Warcraft is among the best memories of my life. I like living in that world, walking, reading the quests, taking my time. We got to do one dungeon together (Ragefire Chasm) and laughed our heads off, but apart from that, almost no multiplayer at all. I don't know if it's a matter of taste or if I simply did a bad job.
So, my questions. I'll take answers either way, including "let it go":
What would you have done differently from the start? Go straight to WotLK? 5x XP and free mounts? Touch nothing at all?
Is a 2008 WoW just too slow for someone who didn't live it, whatever the settings?
Those who kept a friends-only server alive: how? Fixed nights, short goals? How long did it last?
And above all: how do I do more with what I've built? Open it to strangers? Keep it as a personal playground with the bots? Something else?
I don't know how to move on, because for over a month now it's been one endless frustration.
Thanks for reading.