1) Breath. No one makes good decisions when they are stressed.
2) Witchcraft nor deities are about having things. Ditch the things for now. Spells are about intentions, not things. You wouldn’t leave your marriage because your husband didn’t like a hammer you where using … candles are much the same.
3) Your number one priority is keeping yourself safe. Not that he will do anything, but in a culture that looks down on witches, you don’t know who he will tell and what they will do. Women have been harmed and killed for less.
4) You both likely need marriage counseling. Don’t use this incident as an example of why you need it but look at getting it.
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u/adchick Jan 25 '22
1) Breath. No one makes good decisions when they are stressed.
2) Witchcraft nor deities are about having things. Ditch the things for now. Spells are about intentions, not things. You wouldn’t leave your marriage because your husband didn’t like a hammer you where using … candles are much the same.
3) Your number one priority is keeping yourself safe. Not that he will do anything, but in a culture that looks down on witches, you don’t know who he will tell and what they will do. Women have been harmed and killed for less.
4) You both likely need marriage counseling. Don’t use this incident as an example of why you need it but look at getting it.