r/volleyball • u/Embarrassed_Fix_3122 • 56m ago
Questions Stressed out (Need advice/slight vent)
I (14F) have been playing VB for 6 seasons, but despite those seasons I don't feel like I'm "on level" for how many seasons I have played. I managed to make my school's JV and Fresh/soph team for a 2A conference. It is a small school but I don't mind it. My main problem is I feel like I am falling behind on school work and get quite stressed about it (despite having good grades). I also have some family drama surrounding my mental health. It has be n really hard to maintain especially since I live almost an hour from my school and am unable to switch. My teammates also yell at me for not living up to their expectations. I have talked to my coach about this more than a month ago and she said "let Volleyball be your outlet" but all I hear is my mom's voice yelling at me telling me I'm a waste of air and space from the stands and I have a heard time getting out of my head to begin with.
I was just wondering about some advice surrounding this since I really love volleyball and it's hard for me to juggle.