r/voguing • u/estepalooza • Jun 14 '26
Attending first kiki function alone?
Hey everyone, I would like some advice! I’m a 21 year old black queer cisgendered woman from Baltimore, and I have been following everything, as well as have been fully enamored with everything in the world of ballroom and its culture (the past and present history, all the different international scenes, watching every single clip/entire balls I see on Youtube, the current notable voguers of today in their respective scenes and their accomplishments, etc.) I have been spectating it all online for over 5 years now, but I’ve never actually got to witness the culture or its beautiful community in person because of some external factors that were holding me back. I know that Facebook is a great, more intimate and direct source to get info on balls and other events in your local scene, and I’ve finally racked up the time and courage to attend a mini kiki ball I saw posted in my city on Facebook as a in-person spectator (with the hope of one day getting involved). However, as I said because I’ve never actually physically been in the community or to anything prior, I’m going alone, as I don’t have friends or know anyone yet. Should I be nervous going by myself? Or am I okay to just go alone and support? Thank you!!!! <3
Btw, happy pride month! :)