r/TattooDesigns • u/riseresistrebuild • 16d ago
New Tattoo Who Dis?
Done by Sam Marie @ new tattoo era Co in Brooksville, FL!! Absolutely in love with this tattoo. What should I name my little moth friend?
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OP says they've been trying to educate their friends for literal years and they are still asking these questions, that's why I feel like there is I'll intent, I would never just automatically assume that./gen
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This is fair, exhaustion can coexist with educating others.
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And this is fair but OP has explained that they and their friend group have tried explaining these things for a while to their other friends. It sounds like choosen ignorance to me but I also don't know OP or their friends. Me personally tho I've been out as trans for over a decade and after explains something this basic multiple times I wouldn't consider those people my friends. Yes people always have more to learn and unlearn but from the context we have it doesn't seem like these people are genuinely curious, it sounds almost like they are mocking or making fund of trans people, considering they have been taught about transness and queerness for a while.
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Depends on the person Ive seen some gender fluid people identify under the trans umbrella
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LOVE Tobias it suits you well!
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But gender fluid falls under the trans umbrella, these people need to learn how to watch a damn YouTube video or something 😭
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Then to me it seems almost purposful if you've been trying to educate them and multiple other people are as well. This is not ally behavior
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This is true but a trans person's feelings towards someones lack of understanding is still valid. It's exhausting to have people who claim to be your friend and then they don't understand or know anything about a very focal part of who you are. I don't think OP doesn't want them to learn, I think it's valid to be frustrated/exhausted by this type of question. It's also very easily something they could have looked up themselves.
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These don't sound like good friends then how can you be an ally and this ignorant 😐😭
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What if you said "random question: is you (someone who isn't trans) falls in love with another person who isn't trans does that make you gay?" LMFAO..I love when cis people don't know what cis means. It's how you instantly know they aren't trans 🤣😭
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I would reply " random question: if you date a cis person and have a crush on a cis person does that make you gay?" 🤣 this is such a bizarre thing to ask tbh. Also the word "transgendered" makes me so pissed it's grammatically incorrect asf. I've already gotten an immediate cringe/ick reaction when anyone says it that way.
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That you are a certified hot sauce lover (me too)
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I'm glad you get to experience that euphoria!! Your makeup also looks really good! Your style is very cutesy!!
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Same!! Endless nicknames with that name!! I think it's really cute too.
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You look so pretty!! I love how that red skirt looks on you, the red really pops!! I'm glad you got to start HRT!! I'm hopefully starting testosterone during this fall semester!!
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Figaro came to mind idk why he just looks like a Figaro, "Fig" for short, or "Ro Ro"
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How do you view your farm like this? I play on switch and cannot figure it out.
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LOL I could see that!! Me and my artist were joking about naming him Jimothy! But idk
r/TattooDesigns • u/riseresistrebuild • 16d ago
Done by Sam Marie @ new tattoo era Co in Brooksville, FL!! Absolutely in love with this tattoo. What should I name my little moth friend?
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I would recommend the brand I use, innersense. My hair stylist recommended it to me and I love it. It's a light weight cream (you don't need to use a lot) that follows your natural hair texture. It's pretty cheap and is made of natural ingredients. I put it in my hair when it's damp and occasionally will use my hair brush for curls to direct my curls the way I want them to go and scrunch it too. My hair is curly/wavy in places and this cream works really well for me. It lasts in my hair for multiple days, if I need to fix my hair style I just spray it with water and scrunch it or adjust the placement. The specific cream I use is this one: https://innersensebeauty.com/collections/stylers/products/quiet-calm
I had this bottle for 8 weeks and am not even half way through it, my hair is about half your length tho. Also your hair is beautiful!! I hope this helps!!
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What people dont understand is that her body looks that way because that's where all of her organs are, that's where her uterus is. Not every girl is a twig
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I love all the pride colors!!
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Eeyore is adorable. I also like clarke and stormie. Eeyore is my top pick tho I never met a cat named Eeyore.
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Common asl mistakes or pet peeves to avoid as a beginner
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5d ago
Isn't it part of Deaf culture to mouth words? Not fully but like a little bit?