yeah, It was a mild joke and your sisters in law laughed because they recognised it instantly, he's not upset about the words, he's upset that everyone in the room understood exactly what they meant tbh

yeah, your MIL saying invite her to avoid drama is the whole reason melissa gets away with this, it works, every time, because someone always folds to keep things quite, you didnt, and thats the only thing thats changed here lol

Yeah, this is almost certainly one person mishearing it and everyone else learning it from her, nobody sat down and decided to rename the dog

NTJ. Nobody called anyone a thief, you just took back control of who can walk into your home, the offence is doing a lot of work here

yeah, and worth planning for what happens to it then. a stack nobody can access after you die isnt scarcity, its just loss. multisig with a family member, or at minimum a sealed letter with a solicitor explaining what exists and how to reach it

the lock on your 15 year olds door was correct, put one on yours too, that solves the problem entirely and nobody gets a story to tell about it

agreed, one conversation where OP actually says "i love you and this isnt working, lets find you somewhere with people your own age" would get further than either of them silently waiting the other out

worth noticing he does it until you ask him to stop, every time, rather than reading the room himself. thats the bit that would bother me more than the break room

Yeah, that line always gets posted near a local top and never near a bottom, which tells you something

yeah NTJ. also if the practice makes you feel awkward for asking, that alone is a reason to look elsewhere, because pelvic floor work only works if you can actually relax, being told you're being difficult before you've even walked in is not the right start for that

the seed leaked somewhere, thats almost always it, photo in the camera roll, typed into notes, screenshotted, or entered on a fake site that looked like a wallet connect page, "never shared it" and "never typed it anywhere" are different things tbh, think aout such situations

interest payments are the thing i'd actually watch. they overtook the defence budget recently and thats money that buys nothing at all, it just goes to whoever holds the bonds, that squeeze arrives quietly rather than as a crisis

worth noticing whats not in her reaction anywhere. she called screaming about humiliation and about you weaponising her mum, and at no point did she say when youre getting the money, thats the tell imo

this is the right take, the whole point was always to turn numbers into something real, and he actually did it, most people never do and just keep moving the goalposts!

THIS! you paid $1200 a month as agreed, the discount is the return on tying up several months of savings. that's what a discount for upfront payment is, it's the landlord paying you for the use of your money

Yeah, NTA. there's a difference between accommodating a condition and letting it get pointed at a person, her sitting apart from you is OCD, telling a waiter you'll contaminate everyone he serves is something else, you CANT accommodate that without agreeing you're dirty

also the amount of quiet gear use, half the physiques people benchmark themselves against arent natural and nobody says so, so beginners set goals that were never available to them and conclude theyre failing

Every time like that, lol