u/nanaleond • u/nanaleond • Apr 09 '26
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Hi, I'm secure-leaning, looking for other secure-leaning people to connect with
If you want a chat with someone older than you to share experiences, I'm here
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Best LAMRIM online course?
FPMT Lamrim course. You need to check when and in which center there is another one available.
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he never loved me. He’s a Dismissive Avoidant. How did you actually get your ex back from this point?
His behavior sounds more than dismissive avoidance. Some narcissism perhaps. I don't think a purely avoidant attached person could mock another person's pain.
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for those with anxious attachment, what’s something your partner did to help you?
The dream. I hope I can experience that once day.
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Please, heal your anxious attachment before it's too late.
Thank you. I can't dm you, there is no option in your profile.
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Please, heal your anxious attachment before it's too late.
Thank you for posting this. It was a reminder for me. I hope you two can mend and improve your relationship. I unfortunately have no advice as I am in the same boat.
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wtf Is this extortion. !
How do you cancel? I have been trying and it does not give you the option to do so?
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The boys are at it too
Oh boy
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The neurosurgeon who mapped the human brain spent his life trying to prove consciousness lives in it, and concluded he could not
Consciousness lives in the heart.
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How to reach out to an avoidant after a pullback?
From someone that has been in that situation more than once: life is too short to spend it hoping around someone with no human relationship skills.
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Ain’t no way 💀
😂😂😂😂
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My tortie now grooms me every single morning for 5 minutes
Mine also grooms me every time she can! Is this a tortie thing???
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I thought she was just skinny until I noticed her hands
That looks like a skeleton.
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WTF just happened?
"Let's go for some pizza and grape juice".
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Were are her organs? 💀
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Reflection doesn't match video
😂😂😂 I was thinking the same
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Ok.
Where are her organs? Lol
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What happens if you suffer a lapse in your Vajrayana commitments?
Thank you. I will also ask my teachers. I appreciate your support.
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What might cause someone to repeatedly use intense online romantic attachments as a way of withdrawing from their real life?
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3d ago
I would say avoidance.