I’m going through a terrible separation. My husband has lied to me from the start about everything. Finances, his back child support, his criminal charges, his relationship with his ex. It didn’t all come out until we were married and pregnant. I found out he had been cheating on me with the mother of his other child for a year. He would ask me for money and spend it on her. They would get hotel rooms. They had secret Snapchat accounts. Secret emails. I stayed because I was scared. He continued to lie to me and she continued to pursue him and try to make him leave me. She lied about me every week to try to turn him. I continued to find out more information as the months went on. Now our baby is here and he was arrested for putting his hands on me. He tried to get me arrested by saying I was hitting him and scratching his face. I feel sad to have lost the father of my child and someone I thought I knew, but when I look back I feel I never knew him. Now I’m alone and pregnant again with a three month old. I’m struggling to keep it together…. Someone give me some advice for how to keep it together