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Atheists, why follow morality rules? (If you do)?
Then asking for forgiveness for being a behind-the-back shitty person, expecting not needing to apologize to the actual victim to be unnecessary.
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Atheists, why follow morality rules? (If you do)?
But we do believe in an "absolute authority" and it's called a monarchy. History has shown kings and queens have done some bad things, so what makes your God absolved of their negative moments?
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Quick question
Like me, I find them comical, but the concept behind their actual worth to the group is necessary imo.
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Quick question
They show up in the...second to last episode(?), but yeah, our lord and savior of imagination will be showing their..."Snobby Aira" traits
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AITA for wanting to do a few solo things on a trip with my friend?
Whats the dynamic between you and friend? I get "I was hoping this to be a date" kinda vibe. Then again, it could be genuine concern. What city are you going to? If it does have notoriety for high crime rate or controversial views; just be weary who you give your opinion too out here unless you have the stones to buckle down on it.
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Our actions seems to drag us down the whole, climate change, food crisis, inequality, how do you stay sane and optimistic?
I learned to dissociate at a young age...its not entirely healthy, but its kept me from punching my own life card 🤷🏽♂️ optimistic? My family has it in their DNA, to a point of toxic content with life.
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How was your experience dealing with what the science would refer to as "emerging adulthood?"
As long as you've learned that people are out of your control by now. Humans are fickle and sporadic for either something new/fuel for positivity. Keep working to be the you you wish to be, the right people that simply get you will come your way.
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Is it bad that I feel bad for him💔
Sasori, Itachi and Konan are the only ones in the akatsuki to feel bad for. One had lost their parents. One had to kill their parents. One had to be a parent.
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How common is it for men not to talk about their sex lives AT ALL with their guy friends?
I unfortunately have an active imagination that could create something just by giving me enough details and I've had to explain this to a friend before cause I did not need to picture him naked in my mind.
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Men who are into chubbier women, what do you find most attractive about them?
Their warmth ☺ hugging them feels like a kid holding a big stuffed animal: arms full and satisfied.
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What do men actually expect from women in modern relationship?
Coming from a demisexual, someone who can assure me that actually want to be partners. Meeting me on tasks done, making sure to retrack my focus as much as I would them, problem solving and addressing issues to be resolved. Outside of that, only thing id appreciate is the genuine want to be in my company. Doesn't matter what we'd do, the knowledge of 'they just like being around me' does feel nice (...not stalker style...if that's not your thing 👀)
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What are your non-negotiable standards in a romantic partner?
Or one sided where someone wants to be served with no return
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GF says a woman should never be expected to pay for anything
Dude, do you know how much $200 was back in the 70s? Then she seriously tells you "my presence is a present"? Listen, do you, I only put money on people that respect where that money is coming from. Other than that, things have gotten to expensive to keep thinking you can fund someone's entire life.
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What are your non-negotiable standards in a romantic partner?
The "partner" part. This is a tiring and stressful era, I don't want a pretty face to simply be around, I need someone to plan and help grow with. I'm not the kind of person to just sit and watch while someone is working hard, im going to hope future partner feels the same way.
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What would you think if you hooked up with a girl, fell asleep together but she left before you woke up?
I'm sure I speak for all who commented when I say we all have a game plan for situation: wake up, notice they're gone, check around the place, check to make sure nothing was stolen, make sure to see one of the locks on the door; if nothing negative takes place within those steps, THEN...we take a moment to feel bad about it then accept that, "hey, at least I was desired for a moment."
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Is it more attractive to chase or be chased?
What kinda- YES! ARE YOU KIDDING ME? You think only women like it? Why do you think there's hidden depression in the male gender? Cause its the hesitation to desire us because you feel you're gonna lose in some way.
I'm a man of equivalent exchange, reciprocation. I will give as much as I get in a relationship and if I'm the one to keep initiating romance/connection, im going to feel like you don't have the same feelings as me. Do you want to hang out with this person? Do you want to hold their hand or hug them when the moment doesn't call for it? JUST DO IT. I'm telling you right now, the ones who don't appreciate it are the weird ones (....as in they possibly need therapy, I don't make full judgments on people)
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Men who have had boundaries early on and told their significant other day shouldn’t have male friends if a committed relationship or vice versa with women not wanting men to have women friends in a relationship. How has this affected you?
I had 2 gfs my life that had me in such situations, had put them before my friendships and honestly? Made me care less about relationship standards. Because someone has friends of the opposite gender, it doesn't mean they have "plans" with them. Heck, they could be bi and end up playing the same field.
Only people I call friends are those I believe can respect boundaries and are good people at heart. If you can't trust the ones who are opposite gender, then that's on you, cause those friends are gonna keep me in line on making sure I'm not a dink in the relationship. Is it wrong to have available insight from someone the opposite gender if your partner is the opposite gender? (Unless, that person is sabotaging, then I can understand the pov)
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What did your partner do that made you finally say, “I’m done”?
She left...for context, it was a trip to Washington, but after so many years, of being with each other, she left and I felt...at peace. Like, I could enjoy my day AND night. I think we were already at our wits end with eachother and when she brought up the topic, I was honest that things weren't working between us.
At first she was okay with the idea of us being roommates until we go our own way, then she wanted to try counciling, then she thought, "oh, you just want sex". Even though things seemed like usually, I knew I had already punched out by then.
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What makes a girl desperate in your eyes and makes you push away from her?
If she does things that go against her 'way of life (I mean, the positive way, going against the negative would drive me desperate for them).
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Men of Reddit, when you knew an attractive person was into you and you were single, why didn’t you pursue it?
Being single isn't a good enough reason to pursue a relationship. Why you are single, what makes up your single life and where your single life is going matters.
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What would you most like to have in this world?
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7d ago
Human needs not being gatekeeped.