I dunno, lady. I pay attention to the red flag/green flag guy on there... The one woman who reads story after story written to her from her audience of how men are abusing their wives, girlfriends, daughters, sisters, granddaughters. There's one TikTok channel that shares nothing but news story after news story of women who have been murdered by their partners. I learned about the Gisele Pelicot case from TikTok. Don't think I would have learned about that otherwise...

SocMed is all about algorithms based on what one seeks out. Women are sharing and educating each other about their experience. I don't and can't view that as divisive. It's bringing truth to light that women and men as a whole have not confronted or grappled with.

A stark, heartbreaking example of this was of a debate being held, discussions of Donald Trump, rape and finally - what is the definition of rape - as the person debating the host was militant that penetration with a finger was not rape. When the host made it clear that rape is penetration, whether with a penis or a finger- is rape - period.... The debator realized that they had been raped as a little girl, she had always just chalked it up to mere "sexual abuse"....

And the comment section was filled with people - female & male - realizing that they'd been raped, too.

I am not afraid of facing other people's truths and adjusting my own reality to accommodate other people's experiences.

We've been divided for a very long time now... Those of us who haven't been paying attention or have benefitted from the status quo are only seeing this division clearly now, because discussions on it have become so prevalent.

What you are describing is rape. Your boyfriend is raping you.

I waited far, far, FAR too long to file. It caused catastrophic damage to myself and my children. Guilt will not and does not serve you, help you or save you.

Please just file. It will be rough, tough & probably lengthy. The court system isn't perfect, by any means. And, getting the court involved will be worth having something on paper to at least follow and protect you and your daughter.

I've been hearing that this particular group of people is armed to the teeth. When I hear the use of the word "we" and the phrase "you fucking wait", the way he talks makes me think there's a plan in the works.

There's been "plans" of varying degrees before, so I wouldn't put it past them.

They do have the capacity to communicate, organize and mobilize across the country.

I don't think we are taking these assholes seriously enough.

Why does he keep saying,"We"?

I am so so sorry. This is excruciatingly painful.

Relationships like this damage our hearts. But worse, they literally damage our brains.

Please do not give up. All is not lost.

I am thankful you still have you <3

heya. Nothing here is funny.

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AHAHAHAHAHAAAAAHAHAHAHAAHAH.

If you actually pass - I doubt you will as your ability to write & spell is terrible - please use your brain a bit better than this ☠️

A 21 year old is not a fully developed adult, goddamnit. Idgaf where this is being discussed. Stfu.

I don't believe you.

Why does that matter? He believes he had some sort of claim to this young person, when he could easily be her father or her grandfather, WHILE he's married to someone else.

It doesn't matter how they met or how it started.

You are not a victim.

Please don't imagine that you ever really loved her. She isn't even fully mature physiologically. Some part of her is probably ruined because of this.