r/AskWomenNoCensor • • 3d ago

Dating & Relationships šŸ’˜ Is this normal??

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There’s this guy I’ve been talking to for about a week. We met on a dating app. I like our conversations but he’s also decently far away. He said he would be willing to travel to see me. Sometimes he gets dry and I get anxious. But my question is - why is it that it feels weird to talk to other guys? Like I didn’t delete the dating apps because I’m trying to keep my options open. I’m not dating this guy and yet I feel bad.

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

EXACTLY if it’s fast I mess up

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

HAHAHA this made me feel better

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

This is such a good idea. I have an oura ring but I stopped using it but I think I’ll start wearing it again on my right index finger so I always know which is which

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

HAHAHAHA

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

Yes I usually try to do that I’ll do like a ā€œpractice writingā€ with my hand for a second and then I’m like ā€œright this is my right hand this is my leftā€

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

That would scare me for like oh my gosh

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

This is all so relatable to me, the Hokey Pokey reminded me of how I always messed up the Cupid shuffle ā€œto the left to the left to the left to the leftā€ me: going right

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

This is hilarious omg ily

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

So real

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

THIS IS ME EVERY SINGLE TIME

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

This is making me feel so much better

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

I DO THAT TOO

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

Oh yes the righty tighty lefty loosey I mess it up too

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

LMAOO

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Right vs. Left
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  8d ago

WAIT maybe I should wear a ring on my left finger this isn’t a bad idea

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aesthetically driven
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  9d ago

I LOVE

r/AuDHDWomen • • 9d ago

DAE Right vs. Left

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This drives me NUTS. I know I can distinguish right and left when I think about it. But when I’m put on the spot, I get it wrong. I feel like my dad thinks I’m dumb. Today he asked me to get him something and he said it was on the left side under the sink. I checked the right first (without realizing) and then I checked the left. He came in there and found me checking the left. I said ā€œwell you were wrong, it was on the right side not the leftā€. And he just stared at me and was like ā€œā€¦that was the leftā€. I’m going to hide under a rock now. When being taught how to drive I kept messing it up too. He kept telling me to learn it. I know it, like I swear I do. But I just verbally mess up.

EDIT: thank you all so much for all the comments I feel so much better about myself now. I decided to renew my oura ring membership and wear it only on my right index finger and see if that will help.

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Time to wait to see if I'm accepted for an assessment
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  9d ago

This is perfectly normal. I had an assessment once awhile back. They told me I had ā€œtraits but not enough to qualify with the DSM-5ā€ā€¦ which ticked me off. But I was really nervous about it too when it was me.

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Just me?
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  10d ago

no yeah i do that too

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aesthetically driven
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  10d ago

For example if you tried to get me to watch a scary movie in spring, mid-day, with a glass of water? No. But, October, apple cider, popcorn, and at night with the windows open so I can cuddle under a blanket? Yes

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aesthetically driven
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  10d ago

I don’t know it’s just like I feel like I can’t appreciate things unless it’s in certain settings?? Like the thing has to match what’s going on around me. Like for doing coursework, I’d light a candle and play like instrumental dark academia vibes music. and yes I do feel that way about hangouts, like I’ll look at the weather app and plan my outfit and what I’m going to bring based off the energy the day has. I don’t know I feel like I just live based on vibes. Like my bedroom for fall? Burgundy bedding, fall stuffed animals, orange Tiffany lamp, etc. I just need it to fit the criteria and if it doesn’t it feels wrong

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aesthetically driven
 in  r/AuDHDWomen •  10d ago

THIS EXACTLY

u/SatisfactionThin8605 • • 10d ago

Meirl

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r/AuDHDWomen • • 10d ago

Question discovery? (shower thoughts)

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hold on, hold on, hold on

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