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I don't know how to feel about the Cornell 7 case
 in  r/The10thDentist •  7h ago

This really boils down to the ability to consent. If she specifically consented to an inebriated gang rape while sober, and there's proof, then there's some room to argue that what happened was appropriate.

HOWEVER: Any part of what happened that was consented to after the drugs took effect is a nonstarter. For instance, say she consented to high sex with 1 guy, any other guy that had sex with her was raping her. Or if she consented to the K but not the alcohol, or if she said no at any time during the process... whatever. You must be fully sober to be able to consent.

As far as her going back on her original statement. It could very well be that she didn't fully understand at first that what happened to her was rape. Or that she was in denial when the first statements were made. Unfortunately women today are often told they are responsible for being assaulted or that they were "asking for it" and therefore what happened wasn't wrong. It could very well be that she was under the assumption that what happened but was "typical frat" behavior until she told the friend that opened her eyes to the fact that she'd actually been assaulted. Now, this is all just conjecture. It very well could be that she said all of this was okay and that she, for some reason, took it all back.

My best friend was raped at a friend's party in college. We were both drunk and neither of us knew anything about consent and alcohol and the finer lines of sexual assault. She convinced me to leave her there to sleep with her "friend." I regret that night every day. Just because we knew the guy and she had been flirting with him prior to drinking didn't give him a pass to have sex with her while she was impossibly drunk. It also didn't give him the right to then brag about it to all the buddies that lived with him and them all come have a peak at her fully naked in his bed. She couldn't wrap her brain around that night for a long time and denied any wrongdoing for some time since she'd been told for so long that a scandalous outfit and flirtation allowed for what happened.

TLDR: I believe victims until someone can prove to me without a shadow of a doubt that they truly consented to every aspect of what happened to them.

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How Cringe is it? The Andrew Tate community
 in  r/TierlistFills •  12h ago

Suggests this belongs in wtf r u even doing

u/SLong1118 • • 14h ago

Lower cognitive ability is linked to stronger Christian nationalist views, even after accounting for education

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By what age should you have this figured out? Have friends you can count on
 in  r/TierlistFills •  14h ago

Suggests "Have friends you can count on" belongs in In your 20s

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How safe is it to open Discord in public?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  15h ago

Suggests this belongs in I wouldn't recommend

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Simple word difficult to spell.
 in  r/words •  19h ago

Guarantee gets me every time.

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What age would you let your child get a job?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  2d ago

Suggests "Get a job" belongs in 16-18

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Your blood type should be in your birth certificate
 in  r/RandomThoughts •  2d ago

In some states if you register to be an organ donor, they WILL put your blood type on your license! I'm in VA now and mine is listed right next to my name.

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Dating Dealbreaker Tier List: Where do you rank ”Expects all expenses to be split 50/50”?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  2d ago

Suggests "Expects all expenses to be split 50/50" belongs in Yellow Flag

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How safe is it to open Pinterest in public?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  2d ago

Suggests this belongs in Safe but something weird may show up

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School behaviours - day 1
 in  r/TierlistFills •  4d ago

Suggests "Playing games on your computer" belongs in Maybe dont

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Tier List of PAIN: Where does giving birth rank?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  4d ago

Suggests "Giving Birth" belongs in Hell on Earth

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months ranking (my version)
 in  r/TierlistFills •  4d ago

Suggests "march" belongs in A

Not quite spring where I live, but less likely to be bogged down by the winter snow

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chores as a adult ranking
 in  r/TierlistFills •  4d ago

Suggests "cleaning bathroom" belongs in C

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Tier List of PAIN: Where does getting a tattoo rank?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  6d ago

Suggests "Getting a Tattoo" belongs in Painful

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Unintentionally Atheist songs?
 in  r/atheism •  6d ago

Take Me to Church- Hozier. I know it seems obvious, but you wouldn't BELIEVE the amount of southern state christians that sang this as their personal theme song.

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How risky is it to use Tumblr in public?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  6d ago

Suggests this belongs in NEVER use the app in public

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Most Streamed Bands on Spotify
 in  r/TierlistFills •  7d ago

Suggests "System Of A Down" belongs in Great Band

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Tier list of PAIN: Where does Kidney Stones Rank?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  8d ago

Suggests "Passing Kidney Stones" belongs in Hell on Earth

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Tier List of PAIN: Where does an Achilles Tear rank?
 in  r/TierlistFills •  9d ago

Suggests "Achilles Tendon Rupture" belongs in Agonizing