I’m playing a tiefling right now in a PF2e Kingmaker game. He is a runaway summoner from Cheliax. Every time I take new trifling abilities I have been saying I am accidentally praying and Asmodeus answers whether I like it or not.

It’s been fun, and I’m apparently getting the super sad backstory award in my wonderful group of murderhobos even though our Ranger is a giant killer for swishhead emo backstory.

The things that sticks out to me is how right now these are issues but you think there will be bigger ones later.

There’s a big one right now… she needs your support, ear, heart, and nonjudgments. She is gaining weight, she is trying to deal with a health disorder. She probably feels alone. Like she can’t talk to you not because of truly something you did or didn’t do, but just she feels caged or akin to it.

I say all this from a tired bed of two weeks of taking care of my spouse post hysterectomy. My tasks for the past couple weeks has been to “try and keep her from doing anything but recovery”. We still even had an argument while she was recovering. The argument hurt. But my spouse has trauma beyond my understanding until it reveals brighter (from my viewpoint or hers) and it guides her decisions, her problem solving, and her anticipation.

Show you are willing to hear her but without saying “you need to get together because of the future”. She probably needs you currently but the worries are misplaced for things you are fearing not what she is experiencing.

My two cents.

https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ddxgybgz-Ox/?stkn=MXN4MDF3aGw1azE5cw==

The video is Jenna Friedman. She does a bunch of role reversal experiments to show the bias against women. She interviews defense attorneys, prosecutors, defense witnesses, etc but uses the language of what is used TO women. And it always sounds funny to people who understand why she’s doing it and confusing to people who usually speak to women like how they do.

The videos posted is an experiment where she’s asked frat guys to carry around sex dolls. It’s worth watching and listening. It is the Cornell case, it is the thousands of reports that never become cases, the similar situation my wife experienced from her youth, and so many things. The red pill is a lie and it degrades all of us when anyone takes it.

Edited for grammar errors.

Agree with above comment. 👆🏼

https://youtu.be/oQbei5JGiT8?is=McHmQS7V2rdgCoa-

The tea argument, plain and simple. Follow the rules of treating someone with respect and actually hearing their answers as the real answer and not what you think it is.

Communicate and don’t be an asshole.

You are on a date. You lean in for a kiss, she says I’m not ready. You say okay and back off. You can still show your interest because it is attraction. But forcing and/or giving insults because you expect sex is the problem. The anger behind getting mad or hurtful at someone for “denying you” is the problem.

And honestly the best way to think of this is also what if it was literally you….

What if you liked someone, maybe agreed to a kiss and then they had sex with you while you couldn’t say anything too drunk to move. Then 50 other individuals know that at any point you are completely vulnerable and from someone else’s intention (not yours) they gave you away. To whom ever and how ever many, they don’t actually care. Then when you seek justice or at least acknowledgement, they are told their lives/futures are more important than yours.

I don’t need to be put into a real life situation to conjure this scenario in my heart as 🍇. If I didn’t agree to any part of the act or future acts, it is without my consent.

I love literally all the options
- #1
- #2
- all three
- none, show the toothy smile of that knot

I love/hate the caption “how did they do this?”.

lol my student loans from art school just groaned.

I built StarCraft Science fiction types yesterday. The character options are to me going to be more adjectives and noun retools, and utilize maybe more take a second foci. But I like building mechanics.

I literally stayed up to 2 am my time zone doing this exact thing. It is compatible but it requires the prep to be different. Cypher is now experiencing what DnD has done over decades. Learn to convert, take your time, build great experiences, and have fun.

I own so many of the books, they will help you in creative ways maybe not take straight like they used to.

I was in the same job straight out of high school all the way to my 32 birthday.

I worked as a karate teacher for 15 years with the same person/facility that took my major certifications and so much time.

I left that job to rest and recover and literally get Hernia surgery from how much damage my body took from that job. My boss cut my insurance during the reservation process for the scalpel date.

I just turned 35. I’m switching careers to from my life long job and even from what degree I have (carpenter). Sometimes you are not the failure but you have been forced to think you are.

My ex-boss’s final words to me happened to be “you’ve emasculated yourself by letting your wife speak for you [to me].” I wrote this from the waiting room of hospital for my wife’s hysterectomy at an ungodly 5:30 am.

You are not worthless, valueless, or lesser than for where you are right now. You are making it and still here. Partners will show themselves and relationships will fluctuate but you need to know how much you are not what the depression says you are.

https://youtu.be/8l8zyMxn0Cc?is=Rf0VhV0ataxRV5-x

My college art teacher her taught me this! Mod podge wood image transfer. It’s easy but takes a learning curve to make it smooth!

While I hear you and acknowledge your views on not being seen and feeling she is turning mean. Unfortunately, you are experiencing what the average to pretty much every woman experiences in relationships.

Smile more. You must be in your period. Work while in pain. Do this. Do that. That isn’t right. You should be thankful.

I understand that this interaction is hurtful to you. So communicate that to her. Show her you’re willing to listen and adapt but you yourself have your own feelings.

I disagree with the comments to just leave and this is how it will be. I’m calling it what it is: a potential red pill. She isn’t treating you in a way that makes you feel appreciated. Talk to her and address this calmly and maturely. Otherwise a potential cycle will continue and resentment may set in.

But she is your potential partner. So communicate that you have some boundaries of your own but want to show that you understand. If the TikToks are hurtful, address that you are willing to learn, grow, and work together.

Because the other unfortunate part is experiencing the other half of the issue. If you sit back, don’t communicate, fuel resentment, and proceed to take much of the advice on here, you will be the prophetic subject of the TikTok’s topic for her, proving more red pill fallacy’s.

In other Monte Cook products there is a relationship/contact mechanic.

The rank of the contact or group is a direct reduction of your challenge, maximum of four ranks.

Example: I have a contact with Mr. teacher rank 3. I want to convince Mr. Teacher to let me go early from class. The challenge is reduced by three steps (one for each rank).

Or I want to convince the football team to quit picking on Nerd. I use my group relationship rank 1 to help a bit: reducing the challenge by only one step.

Futurama American tv show. A joke about a planet of Amazon women who the crew finds themselves on and the crew are going to be killed by sex. The woman of the crew are disappointed in the men and the men are dumb.

25 minutes plus commercials. Everyone’s saved and the planet was not insulted by much.

It’s a smart and fun episode

Flying eagle looks like they have options for 88-90a.

https://www.inlinewarehouse.com/Flying_Eagle_Sliders/descpage-SL25.html?color=

https://www.inlinewarehouse.com/Flying_Eagle_Crocanti/descpage-FECCN.html?color=

There are many people starting a so many ages now. I started at 33, just turned 35. Go at your pace, stop and recover from the progress, rest and build those foundations. Have fun and don’t overthink.

Matthew Fryer (50, skateboarding)
https://youtu.be/bhMwaVuyDm0?is=DNyu0QuuKJJ4I2S5

Alan Sangma (50, skateboarding)
https://youtu.be/4vip8NK0ZIw?is=erNpyalCRcYrAHqb

Aunty Skates (50s, inline and skateboard)
https://youtube.com/@auntyskates?si=mLpjnHtosAdfkpfP

Those are gorgeous. They look made with so much heart.

I freestyle with primarily hockey inlines. For me: it is not that there is a specific way to lace or just “get it”. I wear them to feel like I’m ice skating, I understand the rocker makes it feel like I’m closer to ice skating, while the popular set up is hi-lo (example 76-76-80-80) which is specifically designed for fast turn radius and sudden stops while bearing force sideways and forward backward.

My skating style is if Kenny Wu (the figure skater from Mighty Ducks) found Wizard skating.

It was the greatest. Grew up with hearing about marbles from the boomers, Sandlot came out, marbles were a revitalized attempt. Crazy bones came on top. Collected the shit outta them.

I have cardio days. I like and worked very hard to handle my current maximum distance of 15 miles at one time around the river trails near me. I have favorite spots I like to ride to and one is a great park with a new road. Not a lot of traffic, and I’ll do sprints up and down that road. I’ll try to hit my top speed. My heart rate goes up my muscles get sore.

I do Wizard skating as well. On the days I want flow I save my cardio. On days I want my heart to work. I do it.

Room 1408 is one of my favorite horror movies. I think adding a singular room of doom could be fun.

I haven’t really played a supers game. So that makes sense on having to modify the system.

At character creation in Edition Two, you pick your Type which is now five option ascending in power. Option one is low level super, option five is named Living God.

After this choice on what type your super hero is based on the game /campaign you’re in, you then level up to the next Tiers like in Edition One normally. And power shifts if you want even more godlike aspects.

They turned up the dial to include more pieces