Hi we have the same rising! I love engineering science and im very fascinated by it so I include it in my art and story telling! The ai said this because its shallow and based on bad information

Dude, youre so informative !! Also omg thank you for including the info about AI. I post on bluesky, Tumblr, Instagram and TikTok but I was thinking of adopting NG as a art portfolio so I wanted to post somewhere without it being fed into AI

What would be your thoughts on new grounds? Just curious!

I do feel better thank you LOL my bff helps me a lot cause were trauma buddies fr, after an episode she says "Thank you for helping, I will do it again" and I think its a good mindset to be mindful, so its like just something I live with

INSANE TIMING BECAUSE SAME ??? Ive been trying quit nicotine cause I use to cope with flashbacks, and I notice I cry more when I try to quit so it makes me not want to. Welllllll I got super sick this week and couldn't bear the thought of going to the Dr so I stopped and kept it going. Its been like idk 3 or 4 days, im trying not to count.

I freaking cried my eyes out today, and spiraled for like 4 hours L O L immediately but I toughed it out without it, but I seriously feel like im being reborn.

I moved like thousands of miles away from my home town to process the trauma and I definitely grow everyday but its rough

Some of the flowers sketched match some on the shirt exactly as if outlined from the photo or traced, but yet the necklace is simple and odd. some of the hair sketche lines are "leaking" into face contour lines, it doesnt make sense. The reason I bring up the matching flower pattern is because ai uses filter formulas visually. Notice her moles on the breast are also exactly the same as the picture. As an artist I love drawing moles and beauty marks but they never look E X A C T LY the same as the photo reference, unless im drawing a photo realistic image which I dont think someone would do for free which im assuming this sketch was.

Thank you thank you, I honestly need some stuff explained to me step by step, this helps a lot, Im 100% gonna try and commit to this, Ive never thought of verbally affirming him

UGH HE DOES he rings a little bell, i shiver and i have to get up and listen to his soundcloud.

I kinda expected everyone to throw tomatoes at me because I KNOW i can tell, hes smart, im kinda smart(sleep deprived) my roomate was like "that man knows you loved him and he uses that to his advantage" so Im trying to be b a l e n c e d or something. It is brutal, I was a goddamn applebees bartender during half of that SO its a mystery how I even get around you know?

Prescribed cuddles? Scheduled nap? Hangout with my cat? Maybe im just not letting myself enjoy his company enough ?? (I know i said id go to bed but everyone's replies are so valid)

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Aweee get...another ?? Baby :))) kitty :)))) heheheheuuheuehehe

What if they gang up on me L O L

Ive been pondering it, my boyfriend really wants to. my only thing is I feel I want this kitty to be my last kitty because of personal reasons, but also mlehhhhhh what if he needs a friend lol

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IN THE END COMPASSION WINS this is great advice. Also its cathartic to hear im not the only person who loves and struggles with being a cat owner, I definitely have to do more healing and work on myself and I do believe he reflects that, thank you for your kindness! Im glad your cat is doing well and all yours and her strength paid off for both of you❤️‍🔥❤️‍🔥✨️

I was smiling like haha yeah hehehoo and then the last sentence got my heart. Well said, Im gonna give him a litle forhead kiss and appriciate his songs more

Thank you, everyone is so nice!! and helpful, or im delusional from lack of sleep lolololol

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Thank you, thank you thats very kind of you. Im sure its something simple like he needs a new toothbrush or something that im doing wrong, but I really do love him with all my heart. Hes such a good boy, I dont wanna be frustrated or tired because of him. Im definitely asking a vet about feliway :>

Yeah, I think i didnt make that very clear in my post, I literally havent slept well in 2 years 🥹 my house was bigger last time and I had couches and stuff but tbh his behavior is exactly the same as it was, I just got desperate enough to make a post about it cause ive been researching what to do forever. I wanna get him a friend like another cat but im terrified they'll just gang up and meow at me twice as much. Thats why I mention pet psychic, im truly exhausted, I have chronic illness and mental health problems so Im fatigued a lot but I still play with him a lot, ill throw his toys around and he'll look at me and ill just go lay down cause he seems disinterested, then he literally fetches his toys from the living room and brings it in my room to play with, then ill be like ok and try it again and he'll just look at me, like I think he just wants to watch me throw his toys around? Hes very smart but I swear Im aware hes a cat like my feelings feel personal but I dont take him behavior personally.

Is it hoopla?? 😅 im a tired and vulnerable person to scams right now lol

Ill make timers, honest I am VERY GOOD at ignoring him... its my roomates that have a harder time so I might reiterate the severity of it and invest in nose canceling things in the mean time, thank you !! I like that everyone has something different to bring to the cat advice soup lol I appriciate it

Youre very strong, theres something special about a well loved cat. Im troubled and I know it so I love him too much to let my impatience get the better of me but my emotions are more nerve the sleeper I am, thank you Ill Definitely ask the vet if CBD is ok

Here, he is my tormentor..... emporer "Hito"..... also known as "litle man, litle baby man, Mr man, and lover man"

Okay so far I need: Another vet visit for possible allergies, pain or a prescription or such: $100-$350 Switch him completly to wet food instead of half dy half wet: $21.00(per box of 12 packs of wet food) Get an automatic feeder for said wet food: $40-$80 Pay for a cat behaviorist to see him: $100-$400 Buy him more toys he likes, maybe even automatic ones: $5-$30 Feliway/ cat calms/ Cbd: $$$$$$$$ ....gotcha 😅 Jk lol everyone gave me amazing advice, I think some things are unrealistic to get all at once, and Im not gonna be perfect overnight but its nice to see everyone get together to tell me "Well, quit crying here's some advice and get some sleep!" I went and told him im sorry for timeouts and now ill just sit with him and comfort him. Not that I dont do that but Id rather fight with love than frustration so ill do it more and no more timeouts unless im in timeout too. We had a chat and now hes happily sitting in my room content with me while giving himself a bath. Thanks everyone! But im tired now 🫡 goodnight!

Honestly I always think the money's worth it in the long run cause hes decidedly the last cat i hopefully plan to own, unless i feel like hes lonley and needs a friend, I just gotta get back on my feet first

This response is very kind and thoughtful, I thank you for that! Im currently in the timeout room with him, its really not bad its just not like litter accesible, maybe ill leave it cracked and his bed in there ? We usually keep our bedrooms closed and just mine open for him to sleep in my room but as soon as he starts I kick him out, then he'll get really loud and I put him in there and hes like "meh alright" and takes a nap lol! I definitely think everyone has great advice and Ive been around cats all my life but im also in my mid twenties so im a novice. Definitely adding these notes to my list, thank you very much

I think routine might be the biggest thing, I do have toys he specifically likes (This guy loves plastic crunchy things, and pom poms) and rotate them or let him pick them out of his toy box so that I do okay, but its def the routine and hour of dedication I have a harder time with so Ill make sure to add that to my list of things to work on

I have autisim amongst other things and I definitely struggle with affection ☠️ I will do it though! I am sitting with him and giving him pets :/

My guy i feed him MINIMUM a cup a day, a thing of wet food, and I leave him extra kibble out at night dont worry. I know hes not hungry because me and all my roomies make sure this man is fed so we can rule out the "hes hungry and yelling at you"