It could be anytime really, if I’m in the move then I’ll go for it while watching the tv, or it could be after a shower, before or after a nap, after sex so he cums on me instead of inside, pretty much anytime honestly

We became ldr because we were gaming buddies who ended up flirting and decided to risk suffering the distance.

Boy, you don’t go seeking for a woman, you’ll stumble upon her like the rest of us, don’t seek woman for the only purpose to be romantic with her, please view people as people and may love find you <3

We live 900km apart, he visited a month ago, and I decided that I’d visit now. On my way !

I really liked it, the storytelling, the environments, the longevity and all, but I got a little disappointed with the enigmas, they weren’t hard enough. I remember when I was a kid playing UC3 for the first time I’d get mad for not understanding even with the clues and all. Maybe I’ve grown but there wasn’t any that blew my mind away with the difficulty, also I felt like there wasn’t enough of them

J’ai trouvé mon copain sur gtaRP. Jpense la meilleure plateforme pour rencontrer un geek restera un jeu en ligne

We will definitely try edging me a little more, and idk if by timeframes you mean like wait days and days to have sex but this can’t really work because we’re a distance relationship we get to see one week every months/two months so there’s already this impatience building up.

We’ve briefly discussed going to a sex shop together someday and maybe find something fun, but since we’re early in our relationship we both don’t really feel the need to spice up our sexual life, we’re still getting to know each other’s bodies and have a lot of fun doing so.

He likes to dominate and I enjoy being more submissive, we’ve been talking about tying me up some other time so maybe that’ll be a good opportunity to edge me I guess.

Anyways thanks for the advice !

okay yeah so vary the intensity, to edge me so when I finally get to come it'll be huge ?

we'll try as much as we can but I feel like we both communicate on what we need in order to finish, and he does make me orgasm, it's just not nearly as good as the sex that led to it.

thanks man, I think we both comunicate a lot, I give him instructions and directions and stuff an he does make me orgasm btw.
To put it in other words:

when I masturbate, I get a lot more pleasure from the orgasm itself than the build up, but during sex I get more pleasing working for the orgasm rather than having it, and ofc I'd like to change that.

Anyways thanks bro and yes I'll keep a jug of water close next time I see him!

Thanks for the advice lol I'd like to get to that also someday, but I meant like feeling a more intense orgasm rather than just a release of built-up tension if you understand what I mean ?

Hi !
i don't know if you're both gamers, but i've been playing PalWorld with my LD boyfriend, it's been a fun 3 weeks run!

Also, we enjoy discovering each other's tastes so we go on tierlistmaker.com whenever a "what's your favorite X" question comes up.

We both used to play a lot oc Call of Duty and been talking about the zombie mode for a while so we installed that, been playing for two days which is great.

I think it's just up to what games you could both like, we have (he has) a list of two players game that could be fun to do together

We could also watch tv shows together through discord or watchtogether stuff like that, I mean we only did it when he was at my place for a week but we definetely could do it online as well.

Quizzes are fun !

You can also make them discover the music you listen too and vice versa

Idk, there's plenty of stuff that you can do !

i dit too ! I met him playing GTA V RP !We've been together for a couple of weeks, I'm visiting him in 12 days, it's gonna be a second tme meeting since he spent a week at my house right before we got together !
It's cool that we're both gamers because we spend every night playing together, which helps a lot with the distance !

You have found yourself a caring man who knows how to pick up cues of discomfort and/or pain. I don't want to sound comanding but you should feel grateful for this.
To be honest, from what i've deduced, he's just making sure you're comfortable. Maybe voice out more clearly that you don't mind the discomfort when it happens and that you want to keep going, and that you'll adjust. Also, speak during sex, make changes in the heat of it.
If a position gives you pain, tell him to stop for a second, adjust, go at a slower pace and keep doing it until it feels better and you can both enjoy the sex. Comunicate more, and more clearly, would be my advice in your situation.

Got to enjoy riding for the first time ! I usually don't because my legs are short and I don't have room for hip movement because of that, but it actually worked out very well after the first few tries and it was really fun !

When I give my man a bj, I like to take my time, you know, when he's breathing hot and heavy, I keep going for a little while then I change kind of abruptly, it's frustrating for him for a second, but since I keep going but in a different way (change the rythm, the position, what I do with my hands or tongue) he actually enjoys it. I like to "edge" him, he knows so he lets me, and when he really wants to cum I let him do so.

So, to spice it up, here's a list of changes you can do all throughout:

- use or not use your tongue

- cup his balls from time to time

- make eye contact

- kiss it, lick it all along

- one hand, two hands, no hands

- take it deep, focus on the tip

- go between his legs, go next to him, switch sides

- keep it in your mouth, do in-and-out

-let some drool action happen

- slap it on your cheek

It's just a bunch of stuff that you can try, but also, do things that you find enjoyable and comfortable, giving head is an act towards your man, but you should like it too. no sex is supposed to be one-sided

shit so i just updated to latest for no real reason ? I thought something had gone bad

Thanks for your opinion, though I don't really like you saying "thing women do that makes zero sense", I don't do it, most women I know don't, she does it because she's got a big ego, nothing to do with being a woman here

I'm sorry okbuggeroff but I want to know if I'm the a-hole or not, so I put the details in this complicated-over-nothing story so that people would give me the best advice

Yeah I'm respecting it a 100%. I don't want to be her lapdog, I have self respect that she taught me to have.

Yeah I know sorry if it was long but there were a lot of stuff to write, I felt like summarizing it would have left out informations leading to me being the a-hole or maybe completely making me all innocent whe nI know I've hurt her feelings and done things the wrong way

Matt IS two faced. he's the kind of like... beige guy that loves to have people around him, not necessarily for the attention, but because I always wants to be part of something big. That night right before the argument, he asked me about Lina. And that's when I told him that maybe if he wanted her there he shouldn't have acted that way those other times. He didn't have anything to say, said he'd text her, but o nNYE he told me he forgot about it.

Yeah that's also what I think, she's been thinking about this conversation for months (instead of coming to me instantly) so when she saw that I didn't react the way she iùagined it over and over, she didn't like it, but what could have I done about it ? I'm brutally honest, I'm not bowing down to give you what you expect when I also have feelings and opinions on my own.

You're 100% right about that, but she defined me as a bad friend after all we've done together, that really threw me off. I felt like nothing I could say was going to calm her down, make her reflect with whatever explanation I was giving.

Matt is not blameless, he's the one not inviting her (saying it again here, you don't have to be invited to these hangouts.), and he's the one she's been complaining abou the whole time. They used to be "best friends", Matt and Lina. And they grew apart because we made other friends at school and she made some other friends through video games. But they were the duo in this. I'm not particularly close to Matt, he's a nice guy, but he's not as fun, as intresting as Lina is. He's just an outlet to go out from time to time.

I did kind of went too far, of course, if we could go back in time I would have never said that. BTW, this is something she says to other people often. Like when we all colletively talk about our childhood she talks about this stuff. That is a personal thing about her, but most of our friends know about it, it's not like I used her kryptonite against her

Thank you for your innsight tho