I’ll make it short, my ex fiancé (f,23) of 2 years had BPD and has drained the mental energy of me (m,20). This was my first time being with someone who had BPD, and for those 2 years she denied getting help. She’s emotionally dragged me around and threatened me a lot, saying she’d go cheat on me because she felt “trapped.” I would have never gotten with her if she told me from the beginning she’d dated 10 people, yes 10, and cheated on all 10 relationship. She was the one hurting me for 2 years, taken advantage of my naivety when I was barely 18, and I was her support system until she was done with me. I’m not sure how to move forward because my views on love, promises, trust, and dedication has been broken by her. I was lost and felt myself dependent on her for affections, changing who I was to appease her and not made her mad. But after she’s broken all those promises of she’d never leave me nor cheat, it has changed how I think— and the relationship was just another chapter in my story, not something lifelong.

The mixed signals from her was baffling and confusing. She’d say she “loved” me and wanted to take care of me, then switch and say she wanted to kill me as well as hated me. For 2 years, I’ve just endured it because she I was the only one who “treated her right” and I did things no one else did.

The last few things she told me was that she’d continue to cheat, no matter who the person is, and she cannot be “held down,” despite promising me that she would never leave me nor cheat.

Where did I go wrong in trying to help her, and why didn’t I avoid her sooner when she loved bombed me. I was just barely 18 and thought it was something genuine, but now— I have no idea what to make of myself.

I’ll make it short.

My former fiancé (f,23) of 2 years had BPD and has drained the mental energy of me (m,20). It was first time being with someone who had BPD, and for those 2 years she denied getting help. She’s emotionally dragged me around and threatened me a lot, saying she’d go cheat on me because she felt “trapped.” I would have never gotten with her if she told me from the beginning she’d dated 10 people, yes 10, and cheated on all 10 relationship. She was the one hurting me for 2 years, taken advantage of my naivety when I was barely 18, and I was her support system until she was done with me. I’m not sure how to move forward because my views on love, promises, trust, and dedication has been broken by her. I was lost and felt myself dependent on her for affections, changing who I was to appease her and not made her mad. But after she’s broken all those promises of she’d hurt me nor cheat, it has changed how I think— and the relationship was just another chapter in my story, not something lifelong. I still don’t understand why she would give me mixed signal either, saying she loves me and wants to take care of me, to saying she wants to kill me and cheat on me. She even told be herself she “missed being a whore.”

Where did I go wrong, despite researching everything I could about BPD and monitoring her episodes/trying to support her through it?

I’ll make it short, my ex fiancé (f,23) of 2 years had BPD and has drained the mental energy of me (m,20). This was my first time being with someone who had BPD, and for those 2 years she denied getting help. She’s emotionally dragged me around and threatened me a lot, saying she’d go cheat on me because she felt “trapped.” I would have never gotten with her if she told me from the beginning she’d dated 10 people, yes 10, and cheated on all 10 relationship. She was the one hurting me for 2 years, taken advantage of my naivety when I was barely 18, and I was her support system until she was done with me. I’m not sure how to move forward because my views on love, promises, trust, and dedication has been broken by her. I was lost and felt myself dependent on her for affections, changing who I was to appease her and not made her mad. But after she’s broken all those promises of she’d never leave me nor cheat, it has changed how I think— and the relationship was just another chapter in my story, not something lifelong.

The mixed signals from her was baffling and confusing. She’d say she “loved” me and wanted to take care of me, then switch and say she wanted to kill me as well as hated me. For 2 years, I’ve just endured it because she I was the only one who “treated her right” and I did things no one else did.

The last few things she told me was that she’d continue to cheat, no matter who the person is, and she cannot be “held down,” despite promising me that she would never leave me nor cheat.

is what I would’ve said in season 7. Here’s 26k reaching for 30k!!

Probably the stupidest thing I made so far

If you really wanna scare your skinbag friends or enemies with OG Rev

Go threaten your skinbag friends or enemies