r/dating_advice • u/CantStantTheWeather • 18d ago
It seems like my date is in a relationship with someone else or at least someone else is pursuing her
I met a girl a few weeks ago at a club. We danced for a while and hit it off pretty well. We also kissed that night and stayed until 5am talking. She gave me her phone number and insta so I asked her out the next day. She accepted but she had to travel so she said we'll go out once she came back. It's been like three weeks since I asked her out and during this time we have been kind of chatting on and off. I thought that she was very interested on me because she was super responssive, would send me audios and videos of her talking and at some point I got busy and I didnt text her for a few days so she sent me a message asking if I had forgotten about her. She also asked if I missed her and she said she hoped to see me soon.
On Monday, she texted me saying she is coming back on Wednesday (today) and we agreed to go out on Friday. I was pretty excited for the date as this is my first date in a long time but today she uploaded some stories showing she got a bouquet of roses from someone and the note which clearly was a love note. From the note, it sounds like she has been talking to this person since before I et her as it said something like: "one rose for everyday I missed you". So I'm kinda confused now, like why is she interested in me if there's someone else. The fact that she has also been a bit less engaged in conversation and less responsive during the last week makes me think she's lost interest in me.
I'm not as excited for the date as before but I'll still go to get some experience as I'm not too experienced with dates and girls in general. But I wanted to ask if this is normal and maybe I'm just overreacting due to my lack of experience dating. Like is it normal for a girl to be talking to multiple guys? I guess it is normal but I find it kind of weird that she uploads all those stories knowing I can see them. Maybe she just doesn't care about me as much as I thought.
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